NYMassageAddict

I’ve had a few experiences with blindfolds. One was just a smaller towel over my eyes which was nice because I didn’t know what was coming and the anticipation made it a amazing. Another was a full ritual with a real blindfold. 2 guys massaging me in rhythm. I was completely taken on a choreographed experience.

Since he’s open to nude and sensual, I’d suggest that he offer something unique that differentiates himself. I think guys who deliver and market a new experience - Lingam massage, edging, milking in various positions, tantric, etc are always very intriguing to me and probably commands more money. I also am a fan of a masseur who runs the show. If a customer asks for particulars simply say “I will take you through a memorable experience that you’ll never forget”. I love to have an unknown experience and don’t like it pre-scripted. Also I love when a masseur starts out by using drapery. It adds to the mystique. Even blindfolds or other elements that may be u expected.

Allen

A4A has to be so thankful for the Craigslist demise.

I called the number just out of curiosity and a woman answered and said they were still open. Same address. I hope someone goes.

Say what you want about Craigslist and the unpredictability, it was an outlet for people looking for specifics like this. One could sync up with another who fulfills fantasies or kinks and that’s just fine. But now because of overreaching legislature that no one wanted to be seen as “voting against human trafficking”, this outlet is gone. I didn’t spend any time looking at m4f content but I can tell you I never saw anything remotely human trafficking on m4m pages. Just a bunch of people looking for their specific niche, or trying to make a buck. Sorry to hijack your post. Unfortunately I don’t know of a nude housekeeper, but damnit, I think you should have the right to seek one on Craigslist.

this may be dumb, but I used to post on Craigslist for things that maybe I was too embarrassed to post for where my image is attached. Not like super kink stuff but things like extended cock milking, massage, etc. Now that the anonymous sites seem to be gone, what does one do?

Basically hit up Halsted for drinks. Steamworks is a good bath house.

So there are probably 20 m4m spas in New York but so far as I can tell, 0 in Chicago. Anyone know of any places with an Asian masseur that provides a very enjoyable massage?

Understood. And sorry. I posted here because typically the closest I’ve come is from a masseur.

Hey gents. What I’m seeking is a guy who is an expert milker. Long slow edging, teasing, tantric lingham stuff. I’ve had several massages but love the real milking expertise. Location doesn’t matter.

I’m looking for guys who would be considered experts in milking. Edging, toys (like vibrators, fleshlight, etc) on all fours, etc. I travel a bit so location doesn’t matter, if you know of someone into this scene and who is good at providing it. Thanks

Backpage is gone now too. https://www.google.com/amp/s/mobile.nytimes.com/2018/04/07/us/politics/backpage-prostitution-classified.amp.html

Hey. Just curious if anyone ever got to you or if you found anything. Also visiting soon. Cheers!

I’ll be the contrarian here. He may have had a moment. He felt like deepening the connection then on a spur of the moment. But to talk about “it” removes the spontaneity of the moment and may disturb him. I say you go with the original expectation of massage and standard fun. If “it” happens again be thankful. But he’s the one in charge. Your appearance back after the last one indicates you weren’t unhappy it happened.

Visiting Seattle soon and looking to get a nice sensual massage from a cute asian guy. Spas are good. Independent guys are fine. Just love a good and cute asian masseur. Also bonus points if anyone can share experiences about Steamworks or other spas/bath houses worth exploring. Cheers!

I think “how do you hire a masseur is more in line with the Super Men’s Spa places. I mean think about it. You’re looking for cute youngish men to provide a massage and they need to know the expectation is a HE. There are some interesting logistics in play here. Looking for masseur for male massage. Guy shows up ugly - no thanks? Guy shows up and says “oh I’ve massaged at hotel spas” - oh hey, do you like to give handjobs?

I called a couple months back and Will answered the phone. I said if the pic is him I’d want to see him. He said “oh that pic is old” - my interpretation is that it isn’t him.

Yes. I get that possibility of course. I just don’t get why you’d call it “daddy” as that scene seems to require a “son” role to make it matter.

I remember interacting with him about the class. If there are young guys into daddies, then it’s definitely worth checking out. If it’s all daddies then I don’t get it.

Many spas offer it up but the boys usually don’t like to be with another boy during their “routine” There are a couple guys at Rainbow that have done 4 hand and seem to enjoy it.

Read NY spas thread. Not only will it inform you, but will likely turn you on as well.

Seems the smarter people have learned to edit text on their pics to replace the text in the body of the ad. Eventually it seems backpage will die for these purposes.

Link?

He looks great. Would love to meet him next time I’m in town.