NYMassageAddict

Hey. Just curious if anyone ever got to you or if you found anything. Also visiting soon. Cheers!

I’ll be the contrarian here. He may have had a moment. He felt like deepening the connection then on a spur of the moment. But to talk about “it” removes the spontaneity of the moment and may disturb him. I say you go with the original expectation of massage and standard fun. If “it” happens again be thankful. But he’s the one in charge. Your appearance back after the last one indicates you weren’t unhappy it happened.

Visiting Seattle soon and looking to get a nice sensual massage from a cute asian guy. Spas are good. Independent guys are fine. Just love a good and cute asian masseur. Also bonus points if anyone can share experiences about Steamworks or other spas/bath houses worth exploring. Cheers!

I think “how do you hire a masseur is more in line with the Super Men’s Spa places. I mean think about it. You’re looking for cute youngish men to provide a massage and they need to know the expectation is a HE. There are some interesting logistics in play here. Looking for masseur for male massage. Guy shows up ugly - no thanks? Guy shows up and says “oh I’ve massaged at hotel spas” - oh hey, do you like to give handjobs?

I called a couple months back and Will answered the phone. I said if the pic is him I’d want to see him. He said “oh that pic is old” - my interpretation is that it isn’t him.

Yes. I get that possibility of course. I just don’t get why you’d call it “daddy” as that scene seems to require a “son” role to make it matter.

I remember interacting with him about the class. If there are young guys into daddies, then it’s definitely worth checking out. If it’s all daddies then I don’t get it.

Many spas offer it up but the boys usually don’t like to be with another boy during their “routine” There are a couple guys at Rainbow that have done 4 hand and seem to enjoy it.

Read NY spas thread. Not only will it inform you, but will likely turn you on as well.

Seems the smarter people have learned to edit text on their pics to replace the text in the body of the ad. Eventually it seems backpage will die for these purposes.

Link?

He looks great. Would love to meet him next time I’m in town.

Good stuff. There is definitely an art to the edging and teasing. Need this.

Link takes us to a yahoo search.

Thanks both. These are great!

i know everyone has their own tastes, and several on here like the more muscular white guys, but I love a slender young Asian guy who knows how to please. Would love to hear about any experiences or recommendations regardless of location. I travel quite a bit.

4 hand massage in general seems like not worth it. I’ve had one couple that was extremely choreographed and worth it. Otherwise it’s just a fantasy that isn’t worth the investment.

What you want is never achieveable. Many of the guys you’ve used provide that, but it’s only achieved by someone who hasn’t experienced nearly everything already. You want something “new” but you’ve had everything. This is why some people end up trying S&M. When you’ve experienced everything you need something new and exciting and that is next.

I know it’s a simple mistake, but for the record, a masseuse is a female who provides massage while a masseur is a male who provides the massage. For the sake of 99% of conversations on this board, people should refer to a masseur NOT a masseuse. That is all.

My very first spa massage occurred at WM spa and I had no idea what to expect. I could hear another guy get jerked off and that kinda led to my excitement. When my masseur started with the HE, I let out a full loud grunt to let others in the spa enjoy the sounds of what was happening. I later learned that is not always appreciated but I had fun. To answer the original post, I have talked for a bulk of a massage mainly because I was curious to know more about a guy who would work at a spa like this. It was quite educational. But for the most part, I don’t want to be that chatty during this activity.

Of course they did. The Craigslist Police are always fast to flag. I think they are other Masseurs or escorts who flag each other to attempt to slow the competition. Or maybe it’s a masseurfinder administrator.

Question not posed for me, but I’ll give my spin on it. I have never (to my knowledge) been with an escort. An escort doesn’t sound appealing to me because I don’t know how much detail I need to provide in advance. Then, if I provide a lot, it won’t seem like it’s happening organically. I tend to separate most sexual activity from massage. Call me crazy. Then with an escort, they are likely to moan and be “into it” but I’d be wondering if it’s an act or real. Where in a massage, I rationalize in my head that I’m paying for a massage that happens to include a HE. With a masseur, I have no pressure to worry if he’s into it or enjoying it. Maybe it doesn’t make sense to many on here, but that’s how my head works.

Ok. Thanks for the participation in my other thread about how and why you got started with massages. Second question: Once a masseur really begins to focus on your penis, not just the casual brushes but with intention, how long does it take before you get off? Does it seem like it’s quicker than other sexual acts? For me, after 50 minutes of hands touching my body, in particular my ass and inner thighs, I have so much build up, that once he focuses on my penis, I am lucky to go 5 minutes, unless he’s a pro at teasing and edging and stops when I’m close. Curious to hear about others.

I, like many on the board, Love love a really good massage. Outside of the obvious (it feels good), just curious to know why some of you are hooked on the massage scene. Curious to know what got you started on the massage path, and what in particular draws you to love a massage so much. For me, I kinda hate to admit it but I think I love the thought of having someone treat me like a king. The thought that someone is there simply to provide me pleasure with no expectation of reciprocation. All the way from the beginning (a couple masseurs have undressed me from their knees) to being washed up when it’s over. I know it’s ridiculous (especially as I type this) but it’s kinda hot to me. Others?

Regarding the 50-55 minute massage, I agree you pay for an hour massage, you should receive that. Now in their defense, they may not know how easily one man may get off, so it’s understandable if they begin this part of a massage with 15 minutes to go. However when they get someone who releases quickly, they should at least offer a soothing finish by either head massage or something. Discussed at length on here, negotiating or upselling once massage starts is a negative for everyone. Only thing I’d add is when approaching a HE, don’t be so mechanical and fast. It has the opposite effect on me. If you tease or go slow, it drives me wild while fast and mechanical turns me off. Lastly, if you know how to tease and make it last, I’m way more likely to look you up for a repeat visit.