NYMassageAddict

So there are probably 20 m4m spas in New York but so far as I can tell, 0 in Chicago. Anyone know of any places with an Asian masseur that provides a very enjoyable massage?

Understood. And sorry. I posted here because typically the closest I’ve come is from a masseur.

Hey gents. What I’m seeking is a guy who is an expert milker. Long slow edging, teasing, tantric lingham stuff. I’ve had several massages but love the real milking expertise. Location doesn’t matter.

I’m looking for guys who would be considered experts in milking. Edging, toys (like vibrators, fleshlight, etc) on all fours, etc. I travel a bit so location doesn’t matter, if you know of someone into this scene and who is good at providing it. Thanks

Backpage is gone now too. https://www.google.com/amp/s/mobile.nytimes.com/2018/04/07/us/politics/backpage-prostitution-classified.amp.html

Hey. Just curious if anyone ever got to you or if you found anything. Also visiting soon. Cheers!

I’ll be the contrarian here. He may have had a moment. He felt like deepening the connection then on a spur of the moment. But to talk about “it” removes the spontaneity of the moment and may disturb him. I say you go with the original expectation of massage and standard fun. If “it” happens again be thankful. But he’s the one in charge. Your appearance back after the last one indicates you weren’t unhappy it happened.

Visiting Seattle soon and looking to get a nice sensual massage from a cute asian guy. Spas are good. Independent guys are fine. Just love a good and cute asian masseur. Also bonus points if anyone can share experiences about Steamworks or other spas/bath houses worth exploring. Cheers!

I think “how do you hire a masseur is more in line with the Super Men’s Spa places. I mean think about it. You’re looking for cute youngish men to provide a massage and they need to know the expectation is a HE. There are some interesting logistics in play here. Looking for masseur for male massage. Guy shows up ugly - no thanks? Guy shows up and says “oh I’ve massaged at hotel spas” - oh hey, do you like to give handjobs?

I called a couple months back and Will answered the phone. I said if the pic is him I’d want to see him. He said “oh that pic is old” - my interpretation is that it isn’t him.

Yes. I get that possibility of course. I just don’t get why you’d call it “daddy” as that scene seems to require a “son” role to make it matter.

I remember interacting with him about the class. If there are young guys into daddies, then it’s definitely worth checking out. If it’s all daddies then I don’t get it.

Many spas offer it up but the boys usually don’t like to be with another boy during their “routine” There are a couple guys at Rainbow that have done 4 hand and seem to enjoy it.

Read NY spas thread. Not only will it inform you, but will likely turn you on as well.

Seems the smarter people have learned to edit text on their pics to replace the text in the body of the ad. Eventually it seems backpage will die for these purposes.

Link?

He looks great. Would love to meet him next time I’m in town.

Good stuff. There is definitely an art to the edging and teasing. Need this.

Link takes us to a yahoo search.

Thanks both. These are great!

i know everyone has their own tastes, and several on here like the more muscular white guys, but I love a slender young Asian guy who knows how to please. Would love to hear about any experiences or recommendations regardless of location. I travel quite a bit.

4 hand massage in general seems like not worth it. I’ve had one couple that was extremely choreographed and worth it. Otherwise it’s just a fantasy that isn’t worth the investment.

What you want is never achieveable. Many of the guys you’ve used provide that, but it’s only achieved by someone who hasn’t experienced nearly everything already. You want something “new” but you’ve had everything. This is why some people end up trying S&M. When you’ve experienced everything you need something new and exciting and that is next.

I know it’s a simple mistake, but for the record, a masseuse is a female who provides massage while a masseur is a male who provides the massage. For the sake of 99% of conversations on this board, people should refer to a masseur NOT a masseuse. That is all.

My very first spa massage occurred at WM spa and I had no idea what to expect. I could hear another guy get jerked off and that kinda led to my excitement. When my masseur started with the HE, I let out a full loud grunt to let others in the spa enjoy the sounds of what was happening. I later learned that is not always appreciated but I had fun. To answer the original post, I have talked for a bulk of a massage mainly because I was curious to know more about a guy who would work at a spa like this. It was quite educational. But for the most part, I don’t want to be that chatty during this activity.