BigNoiseDallas

Hello, send you a PM.

Simon is great -- and halogenerate was looking for recommendations, :).

Simon may be too modest to suggest himself, but I will. I had a session with him in Dallas and think that he will work for you.

Found a local guy I saw twice. Great massage, nice extras. The day before or the day of the first appointment, he moved me back by 30 minutes or an hour so that he could go to breakfast with his boyfriend; he delayed my second appointment by 15 minutes because he was finishing a late breakfast with the boyfriend. For the second appointment, I was on time but had to wait in my SUV. If you're not respectful of my time, don't expect me to schedule with you again.

Any feedback on this handsome young man? I searched here for Neutron with no success. Searching on his name "Alejandro" gave me 66 hits; I looked at most of them, but none of them seemed to be this provider. He has 20 reviews on RM; one bad, the other all 4 or 5-star. One of his reviewers on RM called him Jose? Thanks for any feedback you can provide.
Neutron on RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com  

That sucks. I opted to not schedule him after I remembered or realized that he also has a profile on Masseurfinder; I compared the two profiles and found some discrepancies that served as red flags, so I opted to move on.

I took the plunge when he was here -- massage skills were fine, the extras were great. Very sexy man.

see how the frame isnt a straight line?  so he pushed his back in a little which is what moved the straight line of the door... also.. that forearm is not natural.

Wow wow wow. 
 
Could not recommend more. Very nice, handsome man. Incredible body. Cool to talk to, great energy. Gives a great thorough actual  massage and then great extras as well with his other assets which are also impressive. Hot aussie accent. 
I thibk alpha male title is weird. He was masculine but not at all playing "power games" as that name would suggest. Nice, genuine dude. 

Thanks for trying to clarify - I realize now how poorly I posed my question. I was actually wondering about running into any acquaintance (not necessarily a provider) at a place where you might quite literally be caught with your pants down. For context - I've never been to a clothing-optional resort, but the thought of running into a work colleague or someone in my field at one is pretty horrific to me. Of course I'd get over it, but I know it would be really uncomfortable.
When I was a student, there were two times I ran into professors when I'd rather not have. Once was at the YMCA pool and I think we were both very deliberately timing our workouts to avoid being in the open showers and locker room changing area at the same time. Another was in class - realizing that I'd hooked up with the professor sometime (months? years?) earlier. We had to have a one-on-one meeting in his office at some point for the course, and it was a huge elephant in the room that neither of us acknowledged. It was painful enough to go through that as a student; really don't want to have a similar experience as a fully grown man.
By the way, I've appreciated reading people's takes and stories even if they were more geared toward encountering providers, so thanks for sharing!

I didn't interpret Andy768's comment that he would take the provider on a cruise -- I read it as asking if anyone had ever bumped into a provider at an unexpected place like a cruise -- that provider and client had booked the same trip completely independent of each other.
Along those lines, I found out that a (male) friend who lived in Houston had a fling with a (male) friend here in Dallas. I met the Houston friend through my sister, and my two friends didn't meet through me (can't remember how they met). Also, the Houston friend had once been married to a female staff member I knew from my volunteer work at a non-profit here in Dallas. Those overlapping circles were a little too cozy for me. 

^I do the same when I see clients around because you never know if the client wants to maintain discretion regarding how they know you. Maybe he is with a spouse that doesn’t know. Or perhaps they simply do not want to engage outside the context of a session. For these reasons, it’s up to the client to approach me. I’m not ignoring or avoiding the client. I’m giving them the option to maintain their discretion. When they engage with me, I reciprocate.
^I suggest the same approach as above. You respect their boundaries and hopefully they do the same. Maybe acknowledge them with a nod or something. Otherwise leave them alone unless they make it clear they want to engage with you. You both know why you are there. Let him be. 

Found a local guy I saw twice. Great massage, nice extras. The day before or the day of the first appointment, he moved me back by 30 minutes or an hour so that he could go to breakfast with his boyfriend; he delayed my second appointment by 15 minutes because he was finishing a late breakfast with the boyfriend. For the second appointment, I was on time but had to wait in my SUV. If you're not respectful of my time, don't expect me to schedule with you again.

Found a local guy I saw twice. Great massage, nice extras. The day before or the day of the first appointment, he moved me back by 30 minutes or an hour so that he could go to breakfast with his boyfriend; he delayed my second appointment by 15 minutes because he was finishing a late breakfast with the boyfriend. For the second appointment, I was on time but had to wait in my SUV. If you're not respectful of my time, don't expect me to schedule with you again.

Tossing me a tissue or two while laying flat on my back and leaving the room to wash his hands. 

I once booked a massage with a masseur at his home, without checking much into his set up or professionalism. I was young and naive, and this was before I actually joined the profession myself (call it my research years).
I turned up at the address given. It seemed ok. The masseur answered the door (I’d seen no pics of him, only a description and an outline of his services). He didn’t match the description but I was too scared to walk away…so I went in. He was very friendly, indeed he was delighted to see me. 
I’ve written in more detail about it before so I won’t relay the whole story but the following behaviour occurred:
- Using his loft (attic), a windowless cramped space accessed from the bathroom by a pull down loft ladder as his massage space. It didn’t quite have the right ambiance.
- Letting me know, mid massage, that his wife would be home soon and I wasn’t to worry because she couldn’t get up the ladder…
- Talking almost all the way through about how he wasn’t really gay but he liked massaging guys whilst he was naked. 

The massage was mediocre, the ending wasn’t very happy and his wife called up from the bottom of the loft ladder if I’d like a cup of tea. 
I didn’t return to him. The tea was too weak. 
 
 

 
 

My stock response to a provider's chatter about popular TV, bars, RESTAURANTS, etc is to quietly and meekly express that I can't afford those things. It usually ends most chatter 👍. And hey, if it blows a little smoke up their ass, and they envision I walk the streets recycling bottles just so I can can make an appointment with THEM, I am fine with that.

The use of baby oil, which is why I now always ask what they'll be using. 
Club music or vocals. I'd rather hear nothing.

The use of greasy oils and creams.  The stuff you can’t scrub off no matter how hard you try.

Yes to #3! I saw a great masseur a couple of times, but his house was cluttered and messy -- his living space and the massage space. By the second time I saw him, he had moved in with his boyfriend -- and their upstairs bathroom -- the only one upstairs -- didn't have a door. That was a bridge too far for me. Plus he changed my appointment for the first massage (turns out he wanted to go to breakfast with his BF), then kept me waiting for about 15 minutes on the second session (I was on time). If you're not respectful of my time, I will not see you again.

The Chatty Cathy types annoy me. There was one traveling masseur that I booked twice on his trip through Dallas; he was chatty the first time, so I gave him a pass -- and he was exactly the same on the second visit. And it was even chatting about ME, the client, it was all about him. No thanks.

At my request, Ronnie has worn his cowboy hat and boots (and nothing else, he's usually nude anyway) during a couple of our sessions. Mark probably wasn't thinking about the background of his photo. 
Both of them have outstanding and spacious dedicated spaces in their apartment (Ronnie) or house (Mark), unlike some masseurs who have cramped spaces, place the table in the middle of their living area, or have homes that are really messy and not relaxing. 

I posted these in another thread by mistake, so I apologize for the sloppy appearance, LOL.
Ican recommend the following in Dallas. They all offer a great massage (IMHO) -- some are more deep tissue, some are more Swedish/relaxing, and each of them offer other positive aspects, depending on your needs. I can give you details in a private message. 
Dann -- Dallas Gay Massage - Male Masseurs for Men in TX - Masseurfinder
Ronnie -- Dallas Gay Massage - Male Masseurs for Men in TX - Masseurfinder (also on Rentmasseur as CowboyMagic)
Jeremy -- jerbeardallas on rentmasseur
Fen -- rentmasseur
  Carlos -- Dallas Gay Massage - Male Masseurs for Men in TX - Masseurfinder
Mark -- Dallas Gay Massage - Male Masseurs for Men in TX - Masseurfinder

Most are younger guys, but not all. In social media, he seems to be very honest about his personal type, and the things that turn him on. But he doesn't require his type to do the work. He seems to like tight, hairless chests, and lots of nipple play. Many handsome, hairless Asians in the mix. I'm sure he's pointed and focused on how he markets himself. Plenty of details without going overboard. If he visited nyc, I would see him. An edging experience by a professional who loves this work is a mind-blowing experience. I also believe it's quite healthy for the body and soul.

Bump -- anyone?