ChicagoGuy

My first ever hire did not like Asians. It was very evident from the time we setting up the meeting. In fact, in hindsight, he seemed to try to cancel it as I was parking the car. But that being my first, I went for it, and totally regretted it.
 
Hygiene goes for both client and escort. Sad to say, even some of the best rated and best looking escorts I have hired had some odor situation.
 
I immediately stop communicating with escorts when they ask for pictures or ask for more descriptions or stats. Not because I have insecurities but because I know I am a good prospect who will pay the agreed amount for services, and I don't have to prove anything more than what I divulge during pre-meeting communications. And true that! Initial conversations and exchanges should build raapport. It is that connection, or lack thereof, that could make such reqiests a non-dealbreaker.

FWIW, I’ve only hired two porn actors out of the 10-12 escorts I have hired. Everyone has equal shot at making it in the industry I think. Other escorts’ ability to build beneficial relationships is what sets them apart and gives them longevity.

From here on out yes. But mind you I did fall in love with an escort. And looking back it was quite ignorant of me to believe that it was being reciprocated. May happen both ways but more often it’s the client who ends up developing real feelings.

It's is definitely plausible and I implore a practice that's both similar but very different. I like to maintain the possibility of both topping and bottoming for every session, so I like to spread my appointments out to ensure my capabilities to do so. If someone inquires for a date or time that I know my abilities might be questionable, I reply back that I am unavailable or booked for that day and either suggest a different date and time or ask them what other availability they have in their schedule.

I know you asked this of escorts @ChicagoGuy but here’s my view on how you avoid wasting time and energy in seeking a date.
 
I used to send a first (polite and short) text/email with my stats, and setting out my interests (eg deep kissing, BFE, I’m top only) and suggested date/time. I simply ask if we are compatible.
 
If I had a response of No or No interest, I moved on. I never cared why we were not compatible. I focused on having a great date and avoiding a bad one.

I can see why you might have taken it that way. It sounds like he changed his mind right after you gave him your stats and then he said he wasn’t looking for other bottoms as an excuse.
 
It’s happened to me before where I give my stats to someone trying to set up a meeting and then they do a 180 almost immediately. I don’t take it personally anymore. Actually I prefer when they bluntly say “we’re not a match”. Sometimes it almost like asking for an actual date; you get rejected and need to move on...
 
That’s also why i now only reach out to well reviewed guys. I have rarely had an issue with them and they tend to be extremely professional and don’t mind meeting a guy who is not super good looking .

“To be honest I already have a weekend of bottoms, looking for tops at the moment.”
 
First thing I want you to do is provide for us in the above statement what you thought was “racist” and why that qualified the provider to be called a bigot, ageist or an asshole in your mind.
 
Second, a provider is ALWAYS entitled to decline service to a client he does not want to offer services to. Now his reasoning, that’s on him. But no one ever has to service you because you rang.
 
Third, if he is indeed versatile and truly did have a “weekend of bottoms and looking for tops,” GOOD FOR HIM for seeking some pleasure of his own after a weekend of hard work. Most escorts simply want you to get off and that translates in the experience. Unfortunate you got turned down but if he is indeed seeking pleasure out of his experiences with clients, he’s on the right track.

So this happened just now. I contacted an escort who will be visiting from Canada. Responded promptly to my inquiry on location and rate. He then asked me what I am into and for a bit of a description of myself. So I mentioned my likes, which are very simple, vanilla stuff like kissing, oral fun, erotic massages, etc. I also mentioned I prefer to bottom. And to describe myself a little, I mentioned the usual: my ethnicity, age, body type and height. A few seconds later this is the text I got: “To be honest I already have a weekend of bottoms, looking for tops at the moment.” I hate to say it but the word ‘racist’ kind of crossed my mind several times. Also, bigot, ageist and ‘a**hole. LOL! Eventually I settled for ‘The dang provider is just not that into you, man!’… Did I get that correctly? Or was he just picky? He charges $300 an hour and does mention versatile in his RM ad. Isn’t $300 just the same whether it came from a top or bottom? I have never heard of a versatile provider saying what he did. Not really interested in the reasons why because everyone is prejudiced in some ways whether we admit it, even in providing this type of service. Just want to know from y’all what lines you give to prospect clients to say ‘not interested’ based on the initial text message exchange.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Clients falling in love with an escort, it happens from time to time, vice versa, not as much. Can such a relationship work? Not likely though it depends on the client. What most clients have an issue with is that the escort still needs to make money and will still be working as an escort. Many clients will get over protective and that will lead to the demise of the so-called relationship.
 
Keenan

Been there, done that. Became enlightened, then embarassed, then realized I'd actually "fallen in love with love..." Us humans...sometimes it's hard on us, but we eventually learn (if we're lucky!)

I did too. I thought it was all real with all the ear whispers and sensational lovemaking, I thought this is my man ....and it’s only dream now... #heartbroken ??

From here on out yes. But mind you I did fall in love with an escort. And looking back it was quite ignorant of me to believe that it was being reciprocated. May happen both ways but more often it’s the client who ends up developing real feelings.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

Nah. Never happens. Clients think it’s happening but remember you are paying them to make you think so. If it started out as an escort-client deal, it will remain that way. Trust me.

This is one reason why my time with Mike Gaite was priceless!

Most important tip:
Be thoroughly showered (super fresh) immediately before the massage.
 
Dirt, B.O., bad breath, funky feet, smegma, dingleberries, oily backs, and lint are dealbreakers for many masseurs... and will assure you that your “mileage may vary”... ?

if you are flying them in from another region that may be the exception and or asking them to pay for extended travel just for you. I also find that guys who take too long to answer simple questions turn into headaches. Answering messages is part of the gig.

No doubt… but be open to friendship, advice, understanding the world through the escort's eyes, etc.

I'm still surprised this comment didn't cause an uproar...

If they insist on being paid upfront . . . move on.

For me it’s still
 
https://rentmasseur.com/MediterraneanGuy
 
The sessions have all the elements that I like. They just got better and better.