ScottLMT

I was going to cancel my masseurfinder ad, since i have stopped seeing clients.
I was pleased to find that they have decided to waive my March fee due to the Covid-19 crisis.
To many masseurs out there that didn't want to loose their ad copy, reviews and perhaps a grandfathered rate, here is a great gesture from a company that has benefitted from us, deciding to give a little bit back.

I may have to list my home for sale on his site, Thank you Kevin we need more positive people like you.

A friend that is a therapeutic masseur moved out of state and left his massage table with me. Now I’ve a massage table, and I started offering free massages on Grindr. Having the experience of hiring many masseurs and watching some videos on YouTube I’ve a good idea on how to give a good basic amateur massage. I’ve realized that giving massages is something I enjoy and find relaxing too. I can feel the good energy flowing.
 
This way I’ve met some really handsome guys that enjoy a massage with sensual, erotic elements. The same type of massage we all look for.
 
I’ve had good success. And of course I filter out the guys. I only see guys I find attractive. My massages are free after all. They last 60-90 min. I use biotone. Relaxing music. Candles. Etc. Here are some of the characters I’ve met.
 
1. The bouncer guy - he is bi... works as a bouncer at a local straight bar. He has a really nice body. Thick and meaty. He’s tall. Very masculine. Thick hairy legs and good sized dick. He’s very vocal and let’s me know what feels good when I’m massaging him. I’ve seen him several times. He enjoys oral. 69. Kissing, rimming and I’ve fucked him a few times. The first time I was in heaven. Never thought I would be able to fuck this guy. Sometimes he’s so horny that he says “let’s skip the massage” and starts kissing me.
 
2. The gym rat guy. I’ll say this guys is on the top 5 best bodies I’ve seen. He has a military background too. I never thought I would be able to meet him, let alone massage him. He first time I massages him, I was pre-cumming so much, he thought it was lube or lotion. He has the most perfect ass I’ve seen. He is very masculine and correct. A gentleman. As I’m more familiar with him we get to do more stuff. Last time I fucked him after rimming him for like 30 minutes. I never thought he would be a bottom!!! But it just went right in. Wow. Amazing. He kisses too! So enjoyable to be with him.
 
3. The young guy — this guy is like 23 or so. enjoys receiving massages. Body is nice. He loves sucking me while I massage him. And always asks me if I can cum in his mouth. He wants to see me often, but is not possible sometimes.
 
4. The young Hispanic. This guy is young. I did my best to give him a good sensual massage. I was not attracted to him in real life. He wanted me to fuck him. He was very insistent. It was a turn off. I declined. But still gave him a HE.
 
5. The senior student. Met him once. Regular session. HE. Oral. Good kid. He texts me often. He wants to meet again. He has a large dick. And might meet him again soon.
 
Also there are some flakes. that they say they want to meet and then ghost me or flake.
 
Has anyone else offered free massages? Do you have any stories to share?

Hmmm, I've always accepted credit cards. My first client paid with one.
And it was another client that introduced me to Venmo. And since him, I've had others pay via Venmo. But it's still mostly cash.

Hmmm, I've always accepted credit cards. My first client paid with one.
And it was another client that introduced me to Venmo. And since him, I've had others pay via Venmo. But it's still mostly cash.

Using an enema before a massage, even a therapeutic one, is a good idea. One of my go-to masseurs confided in me that he hates massaging some of his other clients who are not very hygienic “down there.”

For those of you who wondered about the OP's preparations, look at his profile. He is 29. Probably his massage experiences are a lot more like those Tyler Saint massage videos, I'll wager. Just seems smart to be prepared for anything.

My favorite are the guys who still advertise in the $75-90 range for an hour service. I patronize them more. And I go to their studio thinking it be just a therapeutic massage. I give them signals that I am okay with a happy end (lifting butts etc lol). And then I end up actually leaving very happy. Haha. Of course, I tip them as gratitude for not overpricing their services. And it’s those guys that excite me. They’re usually the ones who give killer massages too. And I just like the mystery of whether they give HE or not. It’s a hit or miss though, some of them are strictly therapeutic unless maybe you’re their type?
 
I have paid for guys who are at minimum $140 for an hour pricing, and among them I’ve had a number where the masseur gave a quick and weak massage for 5 minutes and then aggressively tried to get me off so they could end the session quickly. Ugh! I hate those kind of sessions and it’s usually (not all of them) the high-priced ones who do that.

I've met a couple of guys off massage exchange. They were good trades/massages. I never paid a fee. I was contacted by people who had the higher tier of membership, so I could communicate with them for free. I'd be more inclined to pay if there were more profiles with photos, a majority do not have a profile pic.

I did have a session once that wasn't erotic, but otherwise good. I recommended he remove erotic from his choices on his ad and he promptly did. On another note, I let a guy know he was a masseur, not a masseuse, in his ad, and that got changed promptly, too!

Also... some might say they only do therapeutic (by text or phone) and as the session progresses .... oh surprise !!

Take the plunge. Check Meetup.com. Search for massage. If you are lucky, there may be a few massage groups there. That will give you the opportunity to find partners for giving, receiving, and swapping massages.
 
Given your name, I did a quick search for "Massage" withing 25 miles of Queesnboro, NY. Looks like there are a few possibilities:
 
Massage NYC - Explore-Touch-Connect
New York Massage Therapy Meetup
IN TOUCH MEN - Touch, Meditation, Integrity & Focus For Men.
Heart-Centered Touch for Men
Growl NYC: Men Healing Men
IN TOUCH MEN NJ CONSCIOUS TOUCH, MEDITATION, FOCUS, EDUCATION
 
Good luck along your journey...

Not a masseur...just a hobbyist that receives and gives massages. I had an encounter yesterday with a guy that wanted just this. I blogged about it here: https://www.lpsg.com/posts/12915331/

Not a masseur...just a hobbyist that receives and gives massages. I had an encounter yesterday with a guy that wanted just this. I blogged about it here: https://www.lpsg.com/posts/12915331/

I've only been paid later from a regular client. She's a college student so it was understandable for her not to have the funds immediately, but she was in pain. She would Venmo me the money later.

This once happened to me too, and it was pretty surprising and serendipitous and hot.
 
A couple years ago, I was in Maui for work. I had an afternoon off one day, and thought I'd get a massage because I was super sore from work and travel and stress and all that. My hotel had a spa/massage service, so I booked a massage for my room, with the sole goal of relaxing. I didn't even specify if I wanted a male or female therapist -- just had them send over whoever was available on short notice.
 
I hear a knock, and open the door, and there's this attractive blond guy wearing a blue polo and white shorts -- probably 6'1, wiry like a bicyclist, mid to late 30s. I idly thought "he's kinda hot," but was distracted by how sore I was, so nothing more. He set up his table, I got undressed, lay down on my front, and he put a blanket over me and started massaging.
 
It's a really good and deep massage, especially on my neck and shoulders, and I start to relax. To stretch me out, he keeps having me rest my hands on his outer thigh while pushing on my shoulder, but this doesn't strike me as unusual, especially since I'm still covered in a blanket. And then, one time he switches my hand position from his outer thigh to his inner thigh, and I notice he actually has placed my hand on his bare skin, just underneath his shorts. I kinda start to wonder if there's something going on, but it's still tough to be sure. He then goes back to massaging my neck and shoulders, and then goes to my other side. This time, when he stretches out my arm, he places it pretty high in between his two (muscular) thighs, and squeezes them together, making sure my forearm rubs against his crotch. I involuntarily moan a little, and then he lets go, and this time, as he goes around the table near my legs, I hear the unmistakable noise of his clothes hitting the floor, and the rest is pretty much history.
 
The hottest part of it was how completely unexpected it was.

A masseur told me his girlfriend was there in the room us, mid-way thru session. When I asked where, he said "She's wrapped in the (floor length) curtains over by the window".
She was!

In a recent thread, I noted that I give massages (Free/No-Charge) as well as receive them. I have had a number of people reaching out to me directly either asking me of my experiences and how I started/transitioned to giving massages.
 
If you are just looking to read about some of my experiences giving massages, I noted some of the first ones here on this blog:
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-92#post-7113475
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-93#post-7153618
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-94#post-7196342
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-94#post-7198414
 
If you are interested in my journey from massage receiver to massage giver, read on...
 
About 3 years ago, I went to see a masseur that used to advertise in DC & NYC (Massage Buff/Hunter/David). As part of his intake process he asked me "How many massage I had received?". When I told him 100+, he told me that I needed to start giving them as well. He noted two things:

You will get much more out of receiving a massage, once you start giving them.
You will find that Touch is reciprocal. It feels good to touch as well as be touched.

I took this guidance to heart and attempted to find massage partners. That was tough initially until I learned to navigate the waters. It all came together once I acquired two things:

The ability to host: Recently Separated/Divorced gave me the ability to host (at least part-time when the kids aren't here)
A massage table: I purchased a High Quality used table on Craigslist. Much better that buying a cheap new table on Amazon.

The next thing is how to find massage partners. I use several methods...each with its pros and cons:

Hookup apps like Grindr, Jackd, Scruff. You have to word your ad carefully. You cannot use the word "massage" or you may get flagged. You can try variant spellings like "m@ssage" or other words like 'rub". I get most of my "clients" from Grindr. As i am truly massage focused, I weed out the ones just looking for hand job. I have a couple of "filter" questions that let me know what their intentions are.
Hookup sites like Craigslist and DoubleList. For both sites you have to use the word "touch". You cannot use massage or rub in your postings or it will get flagged. On Craigslist, I post in the Community/Groups or Community/Volunteers section. The ad eventually will get flagged, but I get a decent amount of responses before it gets taken down.
Meetup.com: Meetup has a couple of massage groups in the DC area. There are group massage swaps (I have hosted a few) and one-on--one sessions negotiated through the discussion board.
MassageExchange.com: The site is mostly useless unless you upgrade to a paid membership. Otherwise, you have to wait for someone with a paid membership to reach out to you. Once I upgraded my membership, I started making contacts
Zenbrisa.com: This is a relatively new site but I have made a few contacts on it

 
A few other things of note:

I "learned" massage by watching videos on youtube and just doing to others what felt good when it was done to me. The hardest part was trying to figure out the order and flow of things. Take notes when you receive your next massage and you will see that there is a method to the madness.
I don't try to do any deep work...or to fix anybody. I offer a relaxing but firm massage. Don't want to do anything that would potentially hurt someone
I require a face pic as part of the vetting process. I am not looking to see how attractive they are (well maybe I am). I mostly want to make sure that the person that shows up is as advertised
I require them to text me before I give out my address. This makes it "real" for them. A lot will bow out at this point. They were game players anyway.
I make sure that I have all "easy to grab" valuables out of site: Keys, wallet, watches, ...
My massage session lasts about 45mins to an hour. If it migrates to extras...then it takes as long as it takes
 
I have massaged all ages, genders, shapes and sizes. It's amazing how you have to change your techniques given the variations in people's bodies and body parts.
I have a towel and washcloth in plain site and ask them if they need to shower (I have already asked them to be freshly showered or told them that they can shower here)
I have towel for draping. I have had only one guy ask for draping. I later found out that he asks for it because he spontaneously ejaculates during the session when either I am massaging his glutes or his legs. LOL
I have had two guys be nervous and get on the table in their underwear. However, within mins they were comfortable and paused to removed their underwear.
I have a place identified for them to place their clothing/belongings and a chair available for sitting when they are getting undressed/dressed (you older guys will identify with the need for that)
I have a bottle of water available to them
I prefer to use a lavender scented massage oil called Nooky . It has a great scent and a smooth glide to it, without being super oily. I also have other oils and lotions available for those that don't want scents or tend to be allergic to certain things. My favorite lotion is Vaseline Advanced Repair. For a lotion, it has a great glide similar to an oil.
I don't charge, but I have had people show their appreciation buy bringing a small something like a Bottle of Wine or a Starbucks Gift Card. One of my regulars brought a case of water (he goes through two bottles while he is here).

In a recent thread, I noted that I give massages (Free/No-Charge) as well as receive them. I have had a number of people reaching out to me directly either asking me of my experiences and how I started/transitioned to giving massages.
 
If you are just looking to read about some of my experiences giving massages, I noted some of the first ones here on this blog:
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-92#post-7113475
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-93#post-7153618
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-94#post-7196342
https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-94#post-7198414
 
If you are interested in my journey from massage receiver to massage giver, read on...
 
About 3 years ago, I went to see a masseur that used to advertise in DC & NYC (Massage Buff/Hunter/David). As part of his intake process he asked me "How many massage I had received?". When I told him 100+, he told me that I needed to start giving them as well. He noted two things:

You will get much more out of receiving a massage, once you start giving them.
You will find that Touch is reciprocal. It feels good to touch as well as be touched.

I took this guidance to heart and attempted to find massage partners. That was tough initially until I learned to navigate the waters. It all came together once I acquired two things:

The ability to host: Recently Separated/Divorced gave me the ability to host (at least part-time when the kids aren't here)
A massage table: I purchased a High Quality used table on Craigslist. Much better that buying a cheap new table on Amazon.

The next thing is how to find massage partners. I use several methods...each with its pros and cons:

Hookup apps like Grindr, Jackd, Scruff. You have to word your ad carefully. You cannot use the word "massage" or you may get flagged. You can try variant spellings like "m@ssage" or other words like 'rub". I get most of my "clients" from Grindr. As i am truly massage focused, I weed out the ones just looking for hand job. I have a couple of "filter" questions that let me know what their intentions are.
Hookup sites like Craigslist and DoubleList. For both sites you have to use the word "touch". You cannot use massage or rub in your postings or it will get flagged. On Craigslist, I post in the Community/Groups or Community/Volunteers section. The ad eventually will get flagged, but I get a decent amount of responses before it gets taken down.
Meetup.com: Meetup has a couple of massage groups in the DC area. There are group massage swaps (I have hosted a few) and one-on--one sessions negotiated through the discussion board.
MassageExchange.com: The site is mostly useless unless you upgrade to a paid membership. Otherwise, you have to wait for someone with a paid membership to reach out to you. Once I upgraded my membership, I started making contacts
Zenbrisa.com: This is a relatively new site but I have made a few contacts on it

 
A few other things of note:

I "learned" massage by watching videos on youtube and just doing to others what felt good when it was done to me. The hardest part was trying to figure out the order and flow of things. Take notes when you receive your next massage and you will see that there is a method to the madness.
I don't try to do any deep work...or to fix anybody. I offer a relaxing but firm massage. Don't want to do anything that would potentially hurt someone
I require a face pic as part of the vetting process. I am not looking to see how attractive they are (well maybe I am). I mostly want to make sure that the person that shows up is as advertised
I require them to text me before I give out my address. This makes it "real" for them. A lot will bow out at this point. They were game players anyway.
I make sure that I have all "easy to grab" valuables out of site: Keys, wallet, watches, ...
My massage session lasts about 45mins to an hour. If it migrates to extras...then it takes as long as it takes
 
I have massaged all ages, genders, shapes and sizes. It's amazing how you have to change your techniques given the variations in people's bodies and body parts.
I have a towel and washcloth in plain site and ask them if they need to shower (I have already asked them to be freshly showered or told them that they can shower here)
I have towel for draping. I have had only one guy ask for draping. I later found out that he asks for it because he spontaneously ejaculates during the session when either I am massaging his glutes or his legs. LOL
I have had two guys be nervous and get on the table in their underwear. However, within mins they were comfortable and paused to removed their underwear.
I have a place identified for them to place their clothing/belongings and a chair available for sitting when they are getting undressed/dressed (you older guys will identify with the need for that)
I have a bottle of water available to them
I prefer to use a lavender scented massage oil called Nooky . It has a great scent and a smooth glide to it, without being super oily. I also have other oils and lotions available for those that don't want scents or tend to be allergic to certain things. My favorite lotion is Vaseline Advanced Repair. For a lotion, it has a great glide similar to an oil.
I don't charge, but I have had people show their appreciation buy bringing a small something like a Bottle of Wine or a Starbucks Gift Card. One of my regulars brought a case of water (he goes through two bottles while he is here).

Another great one with Tyler Saint....and muscleboy Marc Dylan
 
https://www.tube8.com/gay/anal/massage/2709491/?

$60 massage...
 
https://www.gayforit.eu/video/478881/Cheap-massage

I'm never offended if someone calls me a masseuse. They know I'm a guy. I don't care what you call me, just as long as you call.

Had my first visit to Johnson's last night. I liked the space. And a good mix of dancers. Some muscle guys, althetic and some twinks. Usually go to boardwalk whenever I'm in town but probably won't this trip since I hear from people it has gone down hill.

I have a few clients that like 30 minute sessions. Usually it's a time constraint on their part. Time they have between meetings or on their lunch break. It's just focused on one area, usually just legs or back and glutes.

I have a few clients that like 30 minute sessions. Usually it's a time constraint on their part. Time they have between meetings or on their lunch break. It's just focused on one area, usually just legs or back and glutes.