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Yes that's correct.

Seeking Arrangements would be my best guess.

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I had one this summer that I'm praying to any deity or spiritual entity listening, that it won't be just that one time!!   (Admittedly the initial intro/connection was through SA) yet all we did was chit-chat about generic stuff without any specifics related to SA type situations. So not sure if this counts as a hook-up?
He's finishing College far away this year but grew up ~hour away and we randomly discovered we were close by each other one random evening.
He was out with a "girlfriend"( legit long-legged hot model beach blonde) though insisted I meet them out with the flimsyiest of cover stories i'd ever heard of.
He's literally the prototypical great looking 21/22 year old uber athlete hot jock college frat bro.  Early on after meeting, when we had a brief private moment he tells me he want's to fool around.
I'm so skeptical to the point that i literally laughed out loud.
We all legit have a blast time out at dinner and bar hopping but the entire time I'm thinking i get it, they'll just fleece me for dinner and drinks and ditch me later. That's the hustle. So I'm going with the flow but totally resigned to that fate.
We do all end up organically splitting up in the mayhem of bar hopping.
As Bar's are closing I run into him. Says he's annoyed that hours earlier I didn't take him seriously about hooking up.
I'm literall confused af.
Then i think oh i get it, i busted him as he thought i had already left and he needs to update his "ditching" excuse.
Turns out after more drunken clumsy misunderstandings we end up in my bed blissfully fooling around the rest of the night way past sunrise. In fact he introduced me to awesome things I've never done prior or after.
Next morning as he's leaving I awkwardly have to brooch the subject that since we met over SA yet never discussed anything specific what were his expectations?
He looks at me and says, "what are you talking about?" 
I'm like wtf!!
Given being on summer break from school and college student I did feel completely obligated yet happy to donate for his books. He never looks at what i gave him and asks me repeatedly am I sure and he didn't expect anything and am i ok with it.
He never once looks at what i gave him and as he's leaving he never looks back but says "That was great, i had a blast, text me sometime" and 2 weeks later goes back to school for Senior year.
I'm way more excited for him to graduate college than i was for myself 3 to 4 decades ago! 

I had one this summer that I'm praying to any deity or spiritual entity listening, that it won't be just that one time!!   (Admittedly the initial intro/connection was through SA) yet all we did was chit-chat about generic stuff without any specifics related to SA type situations. So not sure if this counts as a hook-up?
He's finishing College far away this year but grew up ~hour away and we randomly discovered we were close by each other one random evening.
He was out with a "girlfriend"( legit long-legged hot model beach blonde) though insisted I meet them out with the flimsyiest of cover stories i'd ever heard of.
He's literally the prototypical great looking 21/22 year old uber athlete hot jock college frat bro.  Early on after meeting, when we had a brief private moment he tells me he want's to fool around.
I'm so skeptical to the point that i literally laughed out loud.
We all legit have a blast time out at dinner and bar hopping but the entire time I'm thinking i get it, they'll just fleece me for dinner and drinks and ditch me later. That's the hustle. So I'm going with the flow but totally resigned to that fate.
We do all end up organically splitting up in the mayhem of bar hopping.
As Bar's are closing I run into him. Says he's annoyed that hours earlier I didn't take him seriously about hooking up.
I'm literall confused af.
Then i think oh i get it, i busted him as he thought i had already left and he needs to update his "ditching" excuse.
Turns out after more drunken clumsy misunderstandings we end up in my bed blissfully fooling around the rest of the night way past sunrise. In fact he introduced me to awesome things I've never done prior or after.
Next morning as he's leaving I awkwardly have to brooch the subject that since we met over SA yet never discussed anything specific what were his expectations?
He looks at me and says, "what are you talking about?" 
I'm like wtf!!
Given being on summer break from school and college student I did feel completely obligated yet happy to donate for his books. He never looks at what i gave him and asks me repeatedly am I sure and he didn't expect anything and am i ok with it.
He never once looks at what i gave him and as he's leaving he never looks back but says "That was great, i had a blast, text me sometime" and 2 weeks later goes back to school for Senior year.
I'm way more excited for him to graduate college than i was for myself 3 to 4 decades ago! 

I had one this summer that I'm praying to any deity or spiritual entity listening, that it won't be just that one time!!   (Admittedly the initial intro/connection was through SA) yet all we did was chit-chat about generic stuff without any specifics related to SA type situations. So not sure if this counts as a hook-up?
He's finishing College far away this year but grew up ~hour away and we randomly discovered we were close by each other one random evening.
He was out with a "girlfriend"( legit long-legged hot model beach blonde) though insisted I meet them out with the flimsyiest of cover stories i'd ever heard of.
He's literally the prototypical great looking 21/22 year old uber athlete hot jock college frat bro.  Early on after meeting, when we had a brief private moment he tells me he want's to fool around.
I'm so skeptical to the point that i literally laughed out loud.
We all legit have a blast time out at dinner and bar hopping but the entire time I'm thinking i get it, they'll just fleece me for dinner and drinks and ditch me later. That's the hustle. So I'm going with the flow but totally resigned to that fate.
We do all end up organically splitting up in the mayhem of bar hopping.
As Bar's are closing I run into him. Says he's annoyed that hours earlier I didn't take him seriously about hooking up.
I'm literall confused af.
Then i think oh i get it, i busted him as he thought i had already left and he needs to update his "ditching" excuse.
Turns out after more drunken clumsy misunderstandings we end up in my bed blissfully fooling around the rest of the night way past sunrise. In fact he introduced me to awesome things I've never done prior or after.
Next morning as he's leaving I awkwardly have to brooch the subject that since we met over SA yet never discussed anything specific what were his expectations?
He looks at me and says, "what are you talking about?" 
I'm like wtf!!
Given being on summer break from school and college student I did feel completely obligated yet happy to donate for his books. He never looks at what i gave him and asks me repeatedly am I sure and he didn't expect anything and am i ok with it.
He never once looks at what i gave him and as he's leaving he never looks back but says "That was great, i had a blast, text me sometime" and 2 weeks later goes back to school for Senior year.
I'm way more excited for him to graduate college than i was for myself 3 to 4 decades ago! 

You made me look. And hahaha, i guess I started at least this thread 
 

Yes i think the same thing. If same person has been discussed under a variety of different names over the years.
I think it had been Jhonny or something even before but I recall "BuiltGreg" or something like that.

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I'm so sorry.
I understand the pain and hurt it causes (all too well) when someone, anyone, you built a friendship or trust does a 180 inexplicably from how they treated you. I think we all have experienced that at some point in our lives. I have had people just vanish and stop responding to any form of contact. In some cases, I don't know if they are alive or dead, with no way to find out the why of it all. I even had a friend flat out tell me to not contact him anymore. As he spiraled into conspiracy theories, I refused to share his beliefs. We had a lot of fun times together and I miss him terribly, but he decided to isolate himself (from other friends and family as well). If you can and the opportunity is there, fight for the relationship. If not, the best thing is to accept it and try to move on from the pain. Grow from it but don't become jaded to others because of it. As the saying goes, "people come into your life for a season, a reason, or a lifetime."
As far as finding a long lasting genuine friendships\ with a provider... it's absolutely possible. I am friends with a handful (which I've discussed in random topics on the forum through the years). I'm actually traveling with one tomorrow for a few days. He's since retired from escorting. I haven't hired him or seen him sexually for some time now, but we travel together frequently.
Some of the providers I've met, I've seen more than a decade. As others have stated over time, you build a fondness for each other... build a trust. If you have mutual interests a relationship can deepen and flourish. I would say don't try to force a friendship and let the relationship grow naturally.
Maybe talk to a therapist, if you aren't already. Maybe you can get the advice or tools you need to help you to learn to form close bonds with male friends.
You'll be ok.

Interested in LA as well.  How long of a session are you thinking for each portion? 

I asked for more photos and rates, his reply:
"yeah I have more pics 1k for me to bottom"

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He was in LA a couple weeks ago, and from our text exchange I thought he was based in San Diego; but right now appears to be in Fresno CA.  Any info appreciated
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No I didn't pursue.

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Although I think some people are better at emotional compartmentalization, on some level, long term client/provider relations develop some type of bond. On the rare occasion, I think it can happen in the short term too. Some people just click together. Although I know the op started this topic about clients becoming emotionally attached, it does swing the other way too… with providers getting attached as well.
Can emotional attachment be a problem? Sure it can. However, I think it’s only when that bond is one sided or used to abuse, control, or manipulate either side.
In my experience, I don’t necessarily seek attachment, friendship, etc., but it has happened a decent number of times. I’ve become friends with providers I used to hire and some I still do. Some have come and gone. Yet others, I’m certain, will be life long friends. We talk and see each other on and off the clock. Some have since retired, semi-retired or are still heavily involved in escorting. I love them platonically and it seems to be reciprocated. Hell, one of the ones who has retired has become a doctor. He and I travel together. We have 3 trips planned before the year comes to a close. The great thing about him is my kindness toward him (when he was doing porn and escorting) is being repaid in kind. He sometimes will pay for my portion of a trip because he says I helped him emotionally, academically (helped him study), and sometimes financially through medical school when he felt like giving up.
I understand keeping the emotional side out of this business, but if the emotional attachment is respectful and mutual. I don’t see a problem.
Now if there is stalking involved… that’s a horse of a different color.