FrankR

This is so weird - do they really think it will go unnoticed? When I communicate with a provider I always state "I found your profile on xyz site" so they know where I am coming from as a legit customer.

I think Mark Twain said it first, but George Carlin made it famous: Don't engage - 5 minutes of your life you will never get back...rather post a funny meme here on the forum for all of us to enjoy!

I met him a few years ago. Super nice guy and we had a good time. Have not seen him recently. I would repeat if I had the opportunity. He is well known for being a sweet guy with reasonable rates.

A search did not produce any results. Anybody have experience with this visiting masseur? https://rentmasseur.com/ERhands

I've seen him around but don't recall any reviews. Some of his pics in this link look very familiar... https://jock2go.eu/Bryam_adam

Read it again...this time read between the lines... The first session was massage. The second session was not. The "deli" is a good home for this thread. I have seen him a number of times the past year. I will repeat - it has been a good experience for me.

Reviewed here: http://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/conco/conco_nyc

Reviewed here: http://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/conco/conco_nyc

Thank you for the intel. He’s been on my list, but I had a feeling...

I guess we will all be flocking over to @Benjamin_Nicholas blog for our daily fix. Time to step up sir! Serious group action coming at ya!!

Perhaps you overlooked the Museum of Sex on 5th avenue?? :D

I believe this is his masseurfinder profile: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31361/ His rentmen also expired. https://rentmen.com/TyMitchellXXX You may want to run a search - he has been discussed quite a bit. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/the-nyc-unicorn.138933/#post-1553898

Hmm. How about we start to refer to him as “the alleged victim”. And wish him a speedy recovery. (I’ve been told I need to be more empathetic...)

Can I interest you in a few charities that support our community? I mean, I like Rhinos and Elephants, but perhaps consider mammals of the human persuasion as well! If you would like to support a worthy cause, consider https://truecolorsfund.org No pressure. Really.

I guess my usual approach of running through the streets, naked, yelling: “Do me, do me!” may be a little too direct for ya?!?! Yes, subtle I am not. I will follow this thread closely to expand my repertoire...

Anyone take the plunge? Still in Philadelphia...

But if it teaches a little kid watching the game that our communities are important, I will muddle through...

Yes, I always give to the Ali Forney Center in NYC. As you indicated there are a lot of homeless LGBT youth in NYC - I believe San Fran and LA face some of the same problems, but NYC has always been a beacon of hope for these young people. They need all the help they can get. In fact, they opened the Bea Arthur Residence for this purpose a year or so ago (I will post a link below.). Give!! Dorothy Zbornak would approve!! https://www.aliforneycenter.org/

I do tip for the holidays - my usual holiday tip for my stylist is the cost of one visit, rounded up. So if you usually pay $15 for the cut + say $5 tip = $20, I would tip $25 being the $20 holiday tip plus regular visit $5 tip. I usually hand over the cash, wish him a happy holiday. No card or gift, just a sincere thank you and a bit of holiday cash to spread around.

I do tip for the holidays - my usual holiday tip for my stylist is the cost of one visit, rounded up. So if you usually pay $15 for the cut + say $5 tip = $20, I would tip $25 being the $20 holiday tip plus regular visit $5 tip. I usually hand over the cash, wish him a happy holiday. No card or gift, just a sincere thank you and a bit of holiday cash to spread around.

I believe this should be posted in the fetish section of the forum....:p

I find your humanity and honesty refreshing. It is hard to admit that we have blind spots. Honestly, it wouldn't change the equation for me - I always go into a meeting assuming that there is a STD present; and plan and play accordingly. There is no need to be ashamed of your feelings: they are exactly that - Your...Feelings. The only thing I would add as unsolicited advice is that when it comes to communicating with the provider, be honest and be kind (but from your post above, I expect that is a given).

I read the quote below and assumed that it was for full service, not massage as the quoted massage rate on his masseurfinder profile is far less... Perhaps @Wanderoz will confirm. Also why I asked about top vs bottom.

Or do what I do, arrived prepared with a pacifier at the ready!

I take it the pictures on his profile are accurate or you wouldn’t have walked in? Top or Bottom?