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The number might be low because so few 18 year olds have enough money for a hire.

@MikeSinz , this doesn’t really address your question, but for what it’s worth here would be my take had I never seen this thread.
 
I’m looking for someone in FLL I’d like to meet.
I come across your profile and am interested.
After I see the points of attraction I note your profile was created in 2015. Ok... good.
I see there’s a 1-star review... and 77 reviews total... so I open All Reviews.
I see another 1-star review by the same guy 3 weeks prior. That doesn’t make allot of sense so I look at the reviewer’s profile.
He has 2 posted reviews - both 1-stars of the same guy. I discount these 2 reviews and go back and scroll thru the remaining 75 reviews... they are all 5-star and span a long period of time.
The net net is that the 2 duplicated reviews don’t have any bearing on my decision in the context of the other factors.
(I didn’t VPN to look at any narrrative comments but if I were really concerned about someone I’d do that and also send a RM email to a reviewer.)
Of course any commentary on this forum or on the review site by someone known tells me allot more.
 
I know that doesn’t directly address your question but hopefully it adds some 3rd party perspective.

I can understand where this can be frustrating, but I don't have a problem with as much advance warning an escort might be somewhere I could visit. If they put the dates in, sometimes it means I can arrange my schedule to see a provider I might miss otherwise. I have been known to change my plans when possible to give me an opportunity to see an escort.
 
But I'm also the type to reach out to an escort early if I can. Were some escorts don't like planning far in advance, I want to get my hat in the ring so I have a better chance of getting a time with the man.

I can understand where this can be frustrating, but I don't have a problem with as much advance warning an escort might be somewhere I could visit. If they put the dates in, sometimes it means I can arrange my schedule to see a provider I might miss otherwise. I have been known to change my plans when possible to give me an opportunity to see an escort.
 
But I'm also the type to reach out to an escort early if I can. Were some escorts don't like planning far in advance, I want to get my hat in the ring so I have a better chance of getting a time with the man.

As you surmised and @azdr0710 backed up there is no relation in being a great provider and being a great porn actor. It just comes down to how great the individual is at having sex... not whether he acts in porn.
 
I have hired a fair number of guys who have done some level of porn. Most have been great experiences. The same can be said for the guys who have never did any form of porn. My worse experience ever was with a guy who was a minor porn star. Many of the best experiences I’ve had the guy(s) wasn’t a porn actor.
 
Hoss seems like a fun guy all around. If he interests you, go get him. Don’t be worried/bothered that the experience will be good or bad just because he does porn. That’s setting up roadblocks to the experience from the get go.
 
How good or bad he is with you depends on chemistry and how well you treat each other... not whether he has done porn.
 
Now go have fun dammit!!!! Lol:D

So if I'm a nice guy, will hot men rip off their shirts for me? Sign me up

@Moe I can tell you from experience your body will ache, but you body will also adjust. Mall walking is a great start. Once you get comfortable with that, look around for something to challenge you. It doesn't have to be an American Ninja Warrior class, but once you are walking, it's time to run
 
You have a plan, and a good one. Stick with it. Good work can bring promotion and new opportunities. If it doesn't that just means you have to look for it.
 
You family does seem better than the earlier version you described. Be glad of it, and relish your time with them.
 
I wish I looked like my profile picture. I want to, but it takes time and effort.
 
I will say, as my body has improved some, I like sex more. Where I'm not my profile, I feel better in bed when I'm closer to what I want to be in bed with.

@Moe all the best to you. Maybe a job at Wal-Mart is not the best in the world, but it can be a step up for you. Make the most of it. You sound like a diligent worker, and that should go far. Once you get settled there, keep a bit of an eye out for other opportunities if you want. Have a steady job with a recognized employer like Wal-Mart can help that.
 
As for your family, if you have one and want to help them, do. I would advise you to remember that as being a member of that family you should help support that family, it also means that family has a duty to help support you. If you're paying the rent and need your sleep, they need to support you and be quite. Family support is not a one-way street.
 
You have the best hopes and wishes of me and a lot of people here. Please take that to heart. A lot of people who have never met you, will never meet you, are behind you.

@Moe all the best to you. Maybe a job at Wal-Mart is not the best in the world, but it can be a step up for you. Make the most of it. You sound like a diligent worker, and that should go far. Once you get settled there, keep a bit of an eye out for other opportunities if you want. Have a steady job with a recognized employer like Wal-Mart can help that.
 
As for your family, if you have one and want to help them, do. I would advise you to remember that as being a member of that family you should help support that family, it also means that family has a duty to help support you. If you're paying the rent and need your sleep, they need to support you and be quite. Family support is not a one-way street.
 
You have the best hopes and wishes of me and a lot of people here. Please take that to heart. A lot of people who have never met you, will never meet you, are behind you.

Happens every day. And the more men that get tired of it and give up women, the more men for us

Asking a provider for a referral to another provider in the same business is tricky. In the case @jitalianjay describes, the escort is no longer providing a service he uses. I think @TruthBTold has given a very respectful way of approaching it. The regular escort undoubtedly knows his client wants to top occasionally, so this is not a client wanting to stop seeing an escort, just find a way to get a service that escort no longer provides.
 
This is a case where I think asking for a referral is acceptable. You should know your regular well enough to have a gage of what he will think of the question.
 
@FreshFluff , I think a good regular escort would be motivated to help a good regular client fill a service that escort no longer provides. There is a risk the new escort will steal all the business yes, but the good will generated by a good referral is better.

Asking a provider for a referral to another provider in the same business is tricky. In the case @jitalianjay describes, the escort is no longer providing a service he uses. I think @TruthBTold has given a very respectful way of approaching it. The regular escort undoubtedly knows his client wants to top occasionally, so this is not a client wanting to stop seeing an escort, just find a way to get a service that escort no longer provides.
 
This is a case where I think asking for a referral is acceptable. You should know your regular well enough to have a gage of what he will think of the question.
 
@FreshFluff , I think a good regular escort would be motivated to help a good regular client fill a service that escort no longer provides. There is a risk the new escort will steal all the business yes, but the good will generated by a good referral is better.

Asking a provider for a referral to another provider in the same business is tricky. In the case @jitalianjay describes, the escort is no longer providing a service he uses. I think @TruthBTold has given a very respectful way of approaching it. The regular escort undoubtedly knows his client wants to top occasionally, so this is not a client wanting to stop seeing an escort, just find a way to get a service that escort no longer provides.
 
This is a case where I think asking for a referral is acceptable. You should know your regular well enough to have a gage of what he will think of the question.
 
@FreshFluff , I think a good regular escort would be motivated to help a good regular client fill a service that escort no longer provides. There is a risk the new escort will steal all the business yes, but the good will generated by a good referral is better.

Daddy's Reviews are your best bet. Try some of the well reviewed guys here at first. That way you probably won't get your heart and soul crushed the first few times. But lets face it, you're always gonna be taking a leap of faith. And even then, there may be little chemistry between you two. Have a good attitude, allow yourself to be grateful and to be surprised, and don't give up. Who knows, you may even meet someone who will become a friend. Not much better than that.

That happened with me also. Because I had been with my regular so long I felt comfortable starting out the conversation simply asking him if he really did not want to bottom any more. Then I explained that I wanted to top at times so was thinking of engaging a bottom. As he was not available, did he know of anyone that I would feel comfortable with in that capacity? I just said that I figured that he knew my tastes and comfort levels. I think he was actually glad that I asked him as I continued to see him as a top. He gave me three names and I ended up with one of them. Of course, if he had said "no", I would have taken it from there. I would have looked through RM for the looks I might like and then do my search on Daddy R. and in the Forum.

That is a situation that had not crossed my mind before, to be honest. But if he's high functioning, I'd be inclined to think he's made a rational decision
 
I've met with escorts who I think are primarily motivated by the money they receive. In the wider scheme of things, how is this any different? He's made a decision based on whatever factors he finds important, so it's not like he doesn't understand. You said he does know what he's doing. So you are not taking advantage of him. In fact, any appointment he has with you will be safer perhaps than someone else, since you will have his well being in mind.

That is a situation that had not crossed my mind before, to be honest. But if he's high functioning, I'd be inclined to think he's made a rational decision
 
I've met with escorts who I think are primarily motivated by the money they receive. In the wider scheme of things, how is this any different? He's made a decision based on whatever factors he finds important, so it's not like he doesn't understand. You said he does know what he's doing. So you are not taking advantage of him. In fact, any appointment he has with you will be safer perhaps than someone else, since you will have his well being in mind.

Maybe it satisfies an exhibitionist inclination to perform in front of a camera and crew? The thought of untold numbers of other guys getting off watching them have sex is titillating?

If that's not the currently correct term, please excuse me.
 
The thread on physical disabilities got me to wonder what an escort does concerning a possible session with a client who is mentally challenged. This question presumes the proposed client has the resources to pay for time, but if an escort discovers mental limitations either through disclosure or observation, what do they do?
 
I believe it could be a difficult decision either way. Let a challenged gay man have some quality time he may not get otherwise, or ask him to find another provider?
 
I do not dwell on, nor do I have have experience where I have guideposts on this, and so I'm interested in how an escort would approach the question.

Yes, the ad is back to the man I met, including the name Lucas. I wonder why sometimes there is a different man on his ads, and the most recent may have been different from the first different one in this thread.
 
I'd see him again, and I think I would ask him what's going on. He may not answer as we are not close. But I would be interested to know why. I do not think it's good business, even if all the guys who appear are good looking.

If that's not the currently correct term, please excuse me.
 
The thread on physical disabilities got me to wonder what an escort does concerning a possible session with a client who is mentally challenged. This question presumes the proposed client has the resources to pay for time, but if an escort discovers mental limitations either through disclosure or observation, what do they do?
 
I believe it could be a difficult decision either way. Let a challenged gay man have some quality time he may not get otherwise, or ask him to find another provider?
 
I do not dwell on, nor do I have have experience where I have guideposts on this, and so I'm interested in how an escort would approach the question.

True, the pictures on the account today are not the Lucas/Masculinehung I met.
 
Like the first guy, the man today is attractive, but not the exact same "type" that got me going for Lucas. I was interested in him for his specific look. The guy today is nice, and I wouldn't kick him out of bed but I'm more interested in "my" Lucas.
 
if @rhicks408 is correct, and this is account sharing/break/helping hand, I'm not thrilled with it. I want the guy in the pictures I contract, not a friend of his.
 
If this is a hacking situation (which I sort of doubt), someone needs a better password.

True, the pictures on the account today are not the Lucas/Masculinehung I met.
 
Like the first guy, the man today is attractive, but not the exact same "type" that got me going for Lucas. I was interested in him for his specific look. The guy today is nice, and I wouldn't kick him out of bed but I'm more interested in "my" Lucas.
 
if @rhicks408 is correct, and this is account sharing/break/helping hand, I'm not thrilled with it. I want the guy in the pictures I contract, not a friend of his.
 
If this is a hacking situation (which I sort of doubt), someone needs a better password.

If I could carry that amount, I know it would be worth the effort. I've spent time with Mr. Powers, and I think I'd use bills so I could better focus on him.

There are other meanings, including completely positive ones (such "That is so thoughtful"). It actually boils down to you having to know what we meant.