18 y.o. Virgin Client

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Are they ever real? Over the course of my career I've probably had a half dozen of these guys, 18-20, reach out to me, claiming to be a virgin and wanting to hire me. Not one has ever come through. Don't get me wrong, I've been many a man's first, and I've had clients as young as 20, but never the combo of under 20 and a virgin. So, I'm asking, has anyone ever had one of these type requests actually pan out?

[+ OliverSaks]

Nope nope nope

[Quincy_7]

If you're a younger man and can afford to hire then it's definitely much preferred to grindr. Guys on RM tend to be vastly more attractive than on grindr.

[marylander1940]

Are they ever real? Over the course of my career I've probably had a half dozen of these guys, 18-20, reach out to me, claiming to be a virgin and wanting to hire me. Not one has ever come through. Don't get me wrong, I've been many a man's first, and I've had clients as young as 20, but never the combo of under 20 and a virgin. So, I'm asking, has anyone ever had one of these type requests actually pan out?

 

If they're young.... maybe they're virgin.

 

If they're 30+ it's most likely to be a fantasy. Lots of clients tell an escort: "It's my first time seeing an escort".

[marylander1940]

If you're a younger man and can afford to hire then it's definitely much preferred to grindr. Guys on RM tend to be vastly more attractive than on grindr.

 

I'm sure that if they're not out of shape they can get laid for free, yet some might want discretion and they use the money to treat themselves.

[+ Avalon]

I remember someone posting that they had an 18yo client who was a virgin, He had saved his birthday money to hire him. When the escort found out that he was a virgin he didn't charge him. Later he met (non sexual) him and his new boyfriend.

[+ friendofsheila]

The number might be low because so few 18 year olds have enough money for a hire.

[Kevin Slater]

I suspect that if you kept the conversation going, pretty soon it'd turn out that he was 16. Or maybe 14. 12? And by that time the jacker off on the other end will have shot his wad and he'd leave you alone for a few weeks til some other fantasy alter ego of his would hit you up.

 

Kevin Slater

[Guy Fawkes]

Does it count if he climbed in my bedroom window at the stroke of midnight with his birth certificate in hand?

[Kevin Slater]

Does it count if he climbed in my bedroom window at the stroke of midnight with his birth certificate in hand?

 

Sounds like midnight isn't the only thing that's stroking.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ nycman]

Perhaps the “18 year old virgin” is the escort world’s equivalent of the “Nigerian Prince”.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Twice, yes.

 

One was a closeted young guy (19) who had Mommy's checkbook and wanted to know what it felt like to get fucked. He told me if he came out, he'd lose his inheritance.

 

Second guy was someone I see to this day: 21 (at the time), never been with anyone, knew he was gay. He wanted to hire a pro to make sure his first time went smoothly.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

My most recent encounter with one of these potential "clients" was quite interesting. He messaged me just prior to my trip to LA saying he wanted to schedule. He told me that he's 18, from Kuwait and visiting LA with his family. He asked if I'd be available for a 6 am appointment, as he would need to sneak out of the hotel to come see me. I tried to get him to send me a copy of his ID (to prove his age), to which he said he wasn't comfortable. I then asked him to send me a deposit but he said he didn't have PayPal or Venmo. I went ahead and confirmed with him for a 7 am session.

 

I woke up a little before 6 to find an email from 5:15 saying that he already left the hotel and wanted to know where he could go to wait until 7. I replied telling him that I really didn't know, to which he quickly replied that he was at Canter's Deli and surrounded by some "scary black guys" who are asking him for money, and he's scared cause he's carrying lots of money and "when can I be there"?

 

I replied back telling him to grab an Uber and come on over. I waited over an hour, and finally got a reply that he contacted Uber and they told him to return back to his hotel, which needless to say made no sense. He then tried to reschedule with me for later in the day, but I told him I wouldn't reschedule unless he could pay me online for his missed appointment. After much back and forth he asked if he could just come by with the money and for a new appointment, but by this point I was uncomfortable and told him that I was no longer interested in seeing him.

 

Crazy, right!?!

[bnm73]

My most recent encounter with one of these potential "clients" was quite interesting. He messaged me just prior to my trip to LA saying he wanted to schedule. He told me that he's 18, from Kuwait and visiting LA with his family. He asked if I'd be available for a 6 am appointment, as he would need to sneak out of the hotel to come see me. I tried to get him to send me a copy of his ID (to prove his age), to which he said he wasn't comfortable. I then asked him to send me a deposit but he said he didn't have PayPal or Venmo. I went ahead and confirmed with him for a 7 am session.

 

I woke up a little before 6 to find an email from 5:15 saying that he already left the hotel and wanted to know where he could go to wait until 7. I replied telling him that I really didn't know, to which he quickly replied that he was at Canter's Deli and surrounded by some "scary black guys" who are asking him for money, and he's scared cause he's carrying lots of money and "when can I be there"?

 

I replied back telling him to grab an Uber and come on over. I waited over an hour, and finally got a reply that he contacted Uber and they told him to return back to his hotel, which needless to say made no sense. He then tried to reschedule with me for later in the day, but I told him I wouldn't reschedule unless he could pay me online for his missed appointment. After much back and forth he asked if he could just come by with the money and for a new appointment, but by this point I was uncomfortable and told him that I was no longer interested in seeing him.

 

Crazy, right!?!

 

Sounds more like a vice sting either for solicitation or perhaps "but he said he was 18" pedophile grabs. If he were surrounded by "scary black guys" asking for money, how did he have time to text/email you about it? You did the correct thing.

[+ friendofsheila]

My most recent encounter with one of these potential "clients" was quite interesting. .....

 

Crazy, right!?!

 

The crazy part (for me) was the 6 a.m. appointment. I don't even have my eyelashes pasted on at that hour!!

[+ Pensant]

I know a provider in the LA area who often is contacted to Middle Eastern students. He says they’re not really gay, but simply interested in experiencing something unavailable in their home countries.