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    BonVivant reacted to rvwnsd in He's baaaaaack! PrinceCharmingLA   
    He was the "Prince Charming" on "Finding Prince Charming," Logo's take on "The Bachelor."
    Here are some past threads on him: 
     
     
     
    I thought there were more threads about him, but that's all I could find. 
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    BonVivant reacted to LAboy in He's baaaaaack! PrinceCharmingLA   
    This sent me. 😂💀 It is way too early for this.
    I honestly don’t know who he is (PrinceCharming). I’ll need to do some research. 🔬 
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    BonVivant reacted to robberbaron4u in He's baaaaaack! PrinceCharmingLA   
    Is the cost of fine dining and event tickets built into that amount or is it "extra" and on you.
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    BonVivant got a reaction from edinbrooklyn in any providers that are Brothers or even better Twin fantasy?   
    It depends on the extent of 1st cousin marriages. The occasional close dna exchange could be tolerated. But more than that can spell trouble (see the British Pakistani community). 
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    BonVivant reacted to Chance in Boyforfundick in NY   
    Lol don’t be weak - you’ll drive up the prices for the rest of us 😉❤️
    he quoted me $600 for an hour with caveat less for additional hours but I like an initial meeting to be the hour only in case it’s not great 
    I won’t be taking that spin - feel like the market is $300-$400 generally 
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    BonVivant reacted to Asterisk in Nice Hires in Chicago   
    Check out www.rentmen.eu, there are quite a few
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    BonVivant reacted to edinbrooklyn in Hell’s Kitchen or Midtown (NYC) Bottom Recommendations   
    It was okay. I wouldn’t repeat. I read positive reviews here, missing a thread that aligned with my experience!
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    BonVivant got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in any providers that are Brothers or even better Twin fantasy?   
    The concern is reproduction and genetics.  Shouldn’t be a concern here. 😉
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    BonVivant reacted to Gymowner in Johnny Donovan   
    I really have no problem at all with free markets. A price will only be paid if a buyer is willing. However.... free markets and capitalism understands on great ideology. Value.
    Noone on earth would pay a Rolls Royce price for a Chevrolet. Noone. If the said escort comes to the meeting looking exactly as described, horned to the gill, reacts to any body type as if a teenage boy on a hooker and does everything and anything as often as the buyer wishes in the alotted timeframe then yes, he is a Rolls Royce commanding a Rolls Royce price. Value.
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    BonVivant reacted to + tassojunior in PRAGUE   
    I'd certainly try with Filip (Profil-Masseur). He's a champion bodybuilder and also a super nice guy. I think Filip is just 25? Just hard to get a date with. You have to take when you can get and be ready for a date change etc. But 100% worth it. Adrian Serdar got that awful platinum dye out of his hair today and now it's natural color. 


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    BonVivant reacted to Wolfer in Barcelona 2024   
    It's a sauna so yes, correct, as a client you are also expected (required actually) to wear only a towel. (whether you wear underwear under it or not is up to you. Most don't). 
    You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
    Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
    If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before). 
    A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline. 
    Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting). 
    You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry. 
    After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there. 
    The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
    If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
    I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
    Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna. 
    Hope this helped! 
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    BonVivant reacted to + Charlie in any providers that are Brothers or even better Twin fantasy?   
    About 40 years ago, I hired really hot Italian-American brothers in their 20s, but not together. The older one was gay, and he recruited his straight younger brother (cf. the thread about that subject) to work with him as a team. That didn't last too long, because the younger one was uncomfortable about the fact that clients often expected them to do sexual things together, whereas he and his brother were both tops, and the older brother naturally expected to be the dominant one in any scene. So he split with his older brother and went out on his own as soon as he learned the business. I had hired the older one alone first, but found him scary and didn't want to do it again. I learned later from another provider that the older one had eventually been confined to a prison for the criminally insane, after cutting off a client's arms and leaving him to die (he didn't). A few years later I hired the younger one without knowing of the relationship until I saw him, and realized how strongly he resembled the older one physically. He admitted the relationship, and explained that he only worked when he needed extra money; he also knew about what had become of his brother. Although he was straight, he was actually much easier and more enjoyable to be with, but his ad disappeared shortly afterwards, and I never saw him again.
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    BonVivant reacted to pubic_assistance in any providers that are Brothers or even better Twin fantasy?   
    Exactly.
    Incest is only truly a problem between brother and sister.
    But I hope the taboo between brothers/twins stays anyway, since the wrongness of it all makes it even more exciting 😉
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    BonVivant got a reaction from pubic_assistance in any providers that are Brothers or even better Twin fantasy?   
    The concern is reproduction and genetics.  Shouldn’t be a concern here. 😉
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    BonVivant reacted to Nodakman in OAdrian coming to Vegas   
    Anyone have personal experience here? https://rent.men/OAdrian
    only 2 RM reviews…
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    BonVivant reacted to guru68 in any providers that are Brothers or even better Twin fantasy?   
    Read that as "two cops" at first, instead of "two tops". But that's a different kink.
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    BonVivant reacted to pubic_assistance in any providers that are Brothers or even better Twin fantasy?   
    I had my own cousin. 😉
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    BonVivant reacted to Andy2 in 411 on Buffed, Cute JS_Boy in Hackensack   
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    Awesome body from my POV, and cute face.  He is rather new, with just a few reviews.  Has anyone seen him?  Other intel?  
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    BonVivant reacted to Mercfan in HIGHPLEASURE in Chicago   
    That man is gorgeous.  If I were a top I'd be all over that!
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    BonVivant reacted to + cougar in 411 thiccmayo   
    ...He ain't that pretty, looks common to me!
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    BonVivant got a reaction from pubic_assistance in NYC Newbie: JosephBFX; Is Less More?   
    Well he’s a traditional Latin man; whatever that means in the RM context. 😏🙄
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    BonVivant reacted to Monarchy79 in Have you ever trusted your gut and been right?   
    The “gut” is usually right. 
    it’s when we think with our dicks that we wind up saying….. 
    “I knew better.” 
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    BonVivant reacted to guru68 in Mister Eleven ? Ten Deep ?   
    Darn that autoerection, it happens at the most awkward times.
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    BonVivant reacted to Luv2play in Mister Eleven ? Ten Deep ?   
    It’s great but for the bottom, a slow initial entry is recommended unless I guess if you are an experienced fistee. Once you’re loosened up, then let the fun begin.?
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    BonVivant reacted to Luv2play in Zeb Atlas   
    Actually as someone who broke his back in an accident when I was 19 and have the occasional flare up, I would not agree to a session if my back was sore or painful. I like to enjoy a vigorous workout in the sack and having back pain would kill any pleasure. 
     
     
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