BonVivant

I'm not confusing anything, and, by the way, this isn't a hobby.  Stamp collecting is a hobby.  Sex work is a complicated, frequently illegal process by which money is exchanged for companionship and/or sex.  It can be dangerous and exploitative and, depending on how it transpires, can pose all kinds of moral ambiguity.

You can do an “Anywhere” search with age bracket and other attributes. Good luck. Let us know what you find. !

I have walked away several times.
And get ready to run. One provider chased me down a hall yelling, "Those are my pictures!"

I hosted a backpage escort long ago in a hotel. He was definitely using fake pictures. I let him in my room anyway, after glancing at the peephole, and confronted him about his fake pictures. I asked him to leave. He then pretended to call a friend to jump me. I just gave him the money and he left. After that incident, I’m very hesitant to confront escorts or refuse to pay them, if they use fake pictures or outdated ones, because of my fear of them retaliating. 

For me, these are two very separate issues. If the photos are fake and belong to someone else, I would walk away immediately regardless of anything else. If the pictures are simply outdated but still of him and he is in decent shape, I would likely proceed with the meeting. That said, outdated photos matter a little less in the context of a massage provider than they do for an escort.
 

I have two stories -
I have stuck with my regulars lately unless I am traveling. 
When traveling  - I hired and did an incall. When I walked into the building I passed a twink carrying a bag of trash downstairs, and I when I got in the apartment, it was clear that the trash had been hastily taken from the room - the place was filthy. And the guys photos were obviously massively outdated.
I asked to use the bathroom and then got half the cash out, and when I came out I just said "yeah its not going to work, but thanks for seeing me - here is half the fee" and put it down and walked out. He had no reviews and I wanted to wait a few weeks before I left a review here and on RM but he has since let his add expire. 
Next one - I hired a guy I had my eye on for a while. He has a pretty big following on twitter and had many good reviews here. The problem? He wouldn't send a face pic. Due to the recommendations here, I decided to hire anyway. He was prompt, clean, friendly and performed well and did everything I wanted to do. The only thing was I was really not attracted to his face and he was fully bald. Nothing wrong with being bald, I like it on some guys. But had I seen his face I really don't think I would have hired. I think this guy knows this, which is why he would not send a face pic rather than being 'extra discrete'. In this case I decided not to leave a bad review or comment here because he was a nice guy and it really was my fault for not insisting on seeing a face pic. Lesson learned.
Moral of the story - If you hire someone with no reviews and their pics are not real, be prepared to just leave some cash, in addition to a bad review, it's the risk you take. 

State and federal laws are two different things. If you are flying internationally, federal laws apply and that means 18 or older.  
Let's keep this discussion to 18+ for the forum's sake please, at the very least.

Communications are key. You and the other one need to be clear about what you want to do and what needs to be done for it to happen: i. e. cleansing and cleaning beforehand is the key. 🔐 

I am bigger than all of those guys 😈 you might want a upgrade 

Wow. What a fantastic discussion!
I live in New York City. IsaakMegaThck is my regular guy, meet him like every 2 weeks or so. With him, it’s the thickness, personality, connection and boyfriend experience. And handsome. Can’t beat this combo.
Also in New York City, HugeLoadXL. Probably the most handsome guy on RM.  This guy exudes sensuality.
In Europe, it’s XXLll in Lisbon and Bolt_Top in Barcelona.

I am moving to Las Vegas with my partner,  MiddleBeastern may 31st. I would love to meet yall when I do. We are.....a one of a kind ride. 

OMG, I think I’m in love. Where are you located, good sir?  How can one set up a romantic evening? And are we eloping or having a traditional wedding? I’ll need to get fitted for a gown if the latter. 😘  And our wedding cake must be chocolate or devil’s food. 😋

In my opinion, jack hammer fucks are not the best. Slowly spliting a man open while he grunts and shifts underneath you but you can still feel his desire...feeling the lips of his hole sliiiiiide up your shaft millimeter by millimeter as he becomes more and more hungry...listening to him gasp as I flex my cock playfully in his hole knowing that he has never felt more full in his life....slooooooowly pushing in and out so he gets used to being open.......and of course the cherry on top.....finally reaching the bottom out phase where his hole is firmly grasping the base of my cock and I am reshaping his insides to be ME shaped.....getting a man to relax enough to get to this point is a skill. Any chud with a cock can ram it into a hole.

It doesn't matter what the minimum age in those countries is if you are a US citizen. If you are traveling outside of the US, keep it 18 or older regardless. 

Media booth a Shea Stadium during a Mets' game.  I scored more than the Mets.  

The airport viewing park at 40th Street and University Blvd on the Rio Salado bike trail next to the south runway (7R/25L) at Phoenix Sky Harbor. Those folks on the left side of the aircraft got a hell of a show as they were landing that night! Not to mention what the bike riders saw as they wizzed past! 

Always best to discuss those details with the provider directly. Things can.....vary. 

https://rent.men/JasonXXL
I have been trying to book this Bulgarian for a while, but our schedules never seemed to coincide. Finally got to meet him! And it was a last minute arrangement, nonetheless!  It was one of my favorite experiences.  He had a quiet, confident demeanor about him.  He spoke english well.  Nothing was rushed or forced. There was a natural progression from tender kissing to full blown sex.  I am more of a vanilla, and this was exactly what the doctor ordered. He admittedly preferred slow progression, rather than wham bam thank you maam sort of encounter (good for me too, given the size of his equipment 😉).    He definitely goes to the top of the short list for me. 

Maybe they should rename it to Three-Dollar Bill !

This is not an age range that I would consider and I don't have any recommendations.  Depending on where you live or are seeking to hire, I would search for twinks on rentmen.  You are just hiring an illusion, after all.
In any event, be very careful.  I would insist to see valid ID to make sure the provider is of legal age.  You can get into serious trouble if you don't.  

Exploring a dad son kink recently and was wondering if you all could recommend any US based (US raised probably) providers who look under 21. As long as they are over 18, their actual age doesn't matter.  Age shaving is fine as long as the look the part. Looking for providers who were "a good boy" for you. Thanks!

A good escort doesn't care about age.
39 is old?

I’m not sure what you mean,   But if younger guys can’t keep up with me, they can tap out 😅😉🤣

A significant number of twinks are attracted to older men, and these relationships are often characterized by mutual attraction and reciprocal benefit.  As long as they are of age - I don't think you should be worried or concerned at all.  Go for what you enjoy!  

In a moment of candor, after a few gts, I revealed my age and he couldn't believe it (or pretended so).