BonVivant

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

Just an updated on my ad. This will be my last month with my ad posted for a while. I will still be meeting with people so if your interested feel free to message me on here😊

But the Holiday Inn at Lake City, the new Olympus, has an ongoing  $79 "deal" which includes a breakfast buffet...

Merely making note of his new "weekend special" offered only to American Express Centurion card holders in the event any members have an interest; I always endeavour to my best for the boys in the way of promotion.

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For any reason in particular or are you just a generally distrusting sort?

Here is the link: https://rent.men/PartyMonsterBoy
Lesson: Never ever ever do what the OP did. Never send any funds in advance, especially to someone you have never ever met. 

Anyone have any experience with this handsome fella:
LUCASXXA_VIP

Another option: don’t increase his rate when you next raise them. 

Another option: don’t increase his rate when you next raise them. 

The photos are 100% accurate.  He’s good at communication.  He is vers but is more a top than his pictures may imply.  We spent a weekend in New Orleans and had a great time.  I’d definately see him again. 

I can’t tell if that’s a Botox look or not.  Something looks unnatural.  But beautiful guy, rockin body.

One reviewer who went twice in a week paid apparently $1170 (🤔) for 90 minutes....

Why not 499.99 or 799.99?

This tracks with Zurich's general ethos. It's a world financial hub where wealthy people conduct business. They want safe, clean temporary companionship, and it seems like Zurich just wants to ensure that

Agree, Casanova is empty and disgusting. Best sched is hit Thermas between 4-7, get dinner and just find alternative evening entertainment.

Highly recommend: David (I think the only provider who's from Barcelona) and Nicholas (from Chile)

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Was intrigued by this offbeat ad-especially the idea of access to sauna, steam room, and hot tub for sexual play.  Not interested in the party implications, and PMBoy was great at answering questions via text message.   So we agreed on a roleplay, and I met him at the private facilities mentioned in his RM ad. 
The session was a complete nothingburger, and PMBoy was a Dud.  He was nice enough and looked like his pix, but he was totally not into the scene and was terrible at everything.  I am older, but I had much greater stamina in the steam room than he did--he virtually fainted in there, so that was that for the steam room.  I left early because the whole scene was a turn off. 

He's hot and he's fun, but he also records clients and sells those vids. His rate has gone way up since I met him awhile back.

I personally enjoy a bit of conversation after the session, it feels natural and part of being human. However, I’ve been seeing one particular provider regularly for the past two years who isn’t chatty at all. I suspect it’s due to his limited English skills, but who really knows.

I don't mind chatting with providers. One of my more recent hires had done recent porn for SeanCody and he filled me in on lots of behind the scenes stories which was fun to hear. Why not have a chat first then if you like to get to know the client first a bit. You'll just have to make it clear that the clock doesn't start then until it's lights camera action time if you catch my drift.

Wow. That’s the ten million dollar question.
"Should I stay or should I go"….que The Clash.
https://youtu.be/BN1WwnEDWAM?feature=shared
99 times out of 100, for me the answer is "that was fun, now please go".
But every now and then the magic is there and I want you to stay.
We could cuddle, laugh, talk, get dinner, and fuck all night.
And I’d still desperately want to have breakfast with you in the morning.
Thats when I know I’m in trouble. And when I’ve found a keeper.
The rest?
"Put the coin on the dresser and hit the door"…que Willam
https://youtu.be/LLY8kQAyeUI?feature=shared
 

ESCORT LOOKS LIKE A SUPER CUTE TWINK, BUT PHOTOS ARE EXTREMELY DATED. HES ON THE HEAVY SIDE, AND NOT LIGHT HEAVY. VERY HEAVY. PROFILE DESCRIBES 180 POUNDS, BUT REALISTICALLY HES TIPPING 240. HES A NICE GUY, BUT TOTAL CATFISH. I WILL SAY HIS FACE IS CURRENT. JUST A BIG BOY HIDING UNDER THAT CLOTHING. 
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I think it's completely at your discretion.  No one should pressure anyone for additional details.  Some people are more open to share than others, and I think it's important that everyone respect each other's boundaries.
Now, please DM me and tell me who the provider is and all the juicy details.    LOL. 

Whilst this story doesn't stop me from sending (small) deposits, it re-enforces why I never play with providers who PARTY.  
People who use these types of drugs are not bad people, but it does tend to make them behave in a bad way. 
Unless you are specifically looking for a PARTY experience - don't go there, and certainly don't send the entire fee upfront. 
 
regardless, sorry this happened to you. 

Exactly! 
Being short sighted is part of the white trash approach to life. A repeat client who would give him 600 today and another 600 later would be better but he just can't see it. 
Considering how slim he looks I wonder if PNP had something to do with this repetitive behavior. 
Btw he used to go by a different name but same face pics!