LoveAustinCF

Look. This thread is 11 years old. I doubt the op still has his problem unsolved after 11 years. What's worse is what you've posted has nothing to do with his question.
 
I don't necesscarily think it's bad to bump an old thread as long as it makes sense. If you really want to share some interesting news you've read, you can open a 'fun news' thread. I'm sure many people can use it to lighten up a stressful day.

I really wish these threads that are more than a year old couldnt be revived. What's the fucking point? Anyone who revives a thread more than a year old should get a time out. Man am I a Mr. Cranky pants today.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Or you can just google his name

I've posted extensively about my empty nest in another thread, my sons all being away at college now. I'll leave discussion of family life in that thread so those uninterested can avoid it, but being on my own has made it possible for me to pursue a social life that takes my sexual attraction to men into account, something I'll tell the boys when I have a better idea how this is going to work.
 
So I started dipping my toes into the water back in September. I've been playing basketball now and then with a gay sports group, casual games, I can't commit to joining a league because of work-related travel, but this is fine for now. Nice friendly guys, including a couple of other fathers. It hasn't really turned into much of a social thing, but that may be me not being open enough.
 
Somehow, my vision of being openly gay involved bars, I guess because of how often gay bars figure in porn. So, I decided I'd go see for myself. A little research turned up Nellie's a gay sports bar in DC-- sounds perfect. So back in September I tried to guess how men dress to go to a gay bar (or any bar, I'm not much of a bar-goer). I settled on khakis and a button-down shirt, which turned out to make me the preppiest guy in the place, but it wasn't bad. Nice enough place, lots of types of people there-- including lots of drunk straight women! There were two bachelorette parties there. This is a thing? Women go to gay bars for these parties?
 
Anyway, I had a beer and wandered around. People seemed nice but I realized I have almost no experience meeting people in bars. I was engaged before I was 21-- I cruised for women on campus, at games, in parks, but never in a bar. (I wasn't particularly there to cruise, but I was open to something happening, and had prepared just in case.)
 
I guess I need a refresher course in flirting, or something. The only person I recognized as coming on to me was one of the drunk bridesmaids. But I watched four guys play darts for a while, and when one left, the others invited me to play. It was perhaps my first time casually hanging out with gay men and it felt good. When there was a shriek from the bachelorettes, one of the guys asked me if I was their designated driver. I said no, and asked why, and he said a husband or boyfriend usually comes along, so he had assumed that was me since I was "probably the only straight guy in the place."
 
Okay, not what I had prepared myself for, but I laughed it off and finished the game. There was a baseball game on, and I stood and watched for a while and talked with some guys watching too. After a couple of hours I left, and went home bemused by my rustiness and need to explore other aspects of gay life. But I had a good time, and I've been back (I watched two World Series games there). More to come, and I have some questions for you guys.

Yes, and again I have to apologize for not keeping you guys updated after you've been so kind and caring. Wednesday I pick up DePaul twin at BWI airport, and we'll wait for older brother to arrive at the BWI train station, then all of us go to Annapolis to pick up Plebe twin and drive home together. A bookend to the drive over in June to drop Plebe twin off.
 
I've seen Plebe twin at all the home football games and a couple of other times, and he's fitting in. DePaul twin and his roommate are the best of friends, although twin is either amused by, or in awe of, his roommate's popularity with women. And my oldest is going to Boston Friday to be with his girlfriend and her family for part of the weekend.
 
I have not yet reported on my own adventures, and perhaps will do that in a new thread. Those uninterested in my boys' lives can ignore this one, but may have advice (or scorn) for me in my strides and stumbles in crafting a social life!

I hope there will be a part 3.

What's the point of always bumping threads from years ago? You and Avalon are the two extremes on the forum

I hope there will be a part 3.

I find the funniest part of what @fratphysicals said to be "I’m probably different than most guys on here in that sense but part of me also thinks I’m mostly straight or at least bi, but who knows..." Gurl, honey- you spend a lot of time on here thinking and talking about having men jerk your junk. 3 pages full of just threads you started asking about guys who can make you jizz. So while you may not think you are hiring an escort (ewww, gross!) you're paying for a dude to get you off. So which part is "mostly straight"? HAHAHAH Just giving you a hard time. Your life is your life.

What's the point of always bumping threads from years ago? You and Avalon are the two extremes on the forum

What's the point of always bumping threads from years ago? You and Avalon are the two extremes on the forum

Del Potro and Dimitrov are the hot ones.
 
Also there is this new kid Khachanov in the next gen competition who looks like Liam Hemsworth.
 
http://www.atpworldtour.com/-/media/tennis/players/head-shot/2017/khachanov_headao17.png

Anyone likes nifty stories? Some of them are hotter than porn.
 
Dominated by Doug
Becoming my flatmates' bitch
Jack Hamilton
 
It's hard to find good ones though since there are so many.

He is hot despite the tattoos.
 
http://assets.fightland.com/content-images/contentimage/59633/why-im-indifferent-to-cm-punk-versus-mickey-gall-2.jpg

He is hot despite the tattoos.
 
http://assets.fightland.com/content-images/contentimage/59633/why-im-indifferent-to-cm-punk-versus-mickey-gall-2.jpg

JP's conversation with Chrissy at the well is adorable. He has a very nice bulge as well.

I wonder how many people recognize who his boyfriend is
 
http://www.towleroad.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/webcover24.png

I'm sure you are a DILF yourself;)

I wonder how many people recognize who his boyfriend is
 
http://www.towleroad.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/webcover24.png

I wonder how many people recognize who his boyfriend is
 
http://www.towleroad.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/webcover24.png

https://www.instagram.com/dilfs_of_disneyland/?hl=en

http://prommanow.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/nissem.jpg

God JP is so hot...I hope he'll get more screen time in the future.

http://prommanow.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/nissem.jpg