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Normally, the masseur is at least shirtless, so I don't encounter this situation often. I didn't get the sense for me that he wanted me touching him, which is fine. I appreciate he wants to keep it professional. Other guys are much more explicit that they are ok with me touching them, etc. The issue is, for what he is charging, there are other options in NYC that charge similar prices for erotic massages that are unambiguous in their allowances of how far to go. I have to draw the line on pricing somewhere. If he was the only option in a remote city, I would regularly see him. It was a great massage otherwise.

Normally my rule is if the masseur doesn't undress, I assume he doesn't want to be touched, so I didn't. I remember my massage being very sensual, so I was confused why he didn't disrobe, even at the end.

He was fully clothed for me too, but I wasn't draped. It was a great massage, and he is adorable, but I agree he shouldn't advertise with shirtless photos.

I find the few good erotic masseurs in NJ tend to charge prices similar to Manhattan. I agree that masseurs in general don't appreciate negotiating the price, it raises red flags that they might not get paid if you are that worried about their price. $250 is a bit high, but even in Manhattan I am finding most people are charging $220, there are still some charging $200.

Yes, would recommend. You can schedule your time on his website, and he will get back to you to confirm.

I have seen him, I enjoyed it, but I don't think this is his primary occupation, the info above kind of bears it out.

His ad is back up.

I am one of Jose's regulars. He has cancelled on me before too, but he is worth it to try again. Another masseur cancelled on me recently, and I gave him another chance. I am happy I did.

I saw him at the end of Feb. He also told me he took a regular job.

Not to some posters and people who have private messaged me over the years.

I wouldn't hire him again for the simple fact of you will always have this incident in the back of your mind if you hired him again. I have hired and been ghosted or fed bs excuses before right before the appointment, so I know the feeling.

You shouldn't assume this for everyone. From posts on here, many people book from rm for the extras. The city can be lonely to people (I know, you will say, if you are lonely here, then you will be lonely everywhere...)These masseurs would not be in business if there wasn't that need.

That rate is per minute.

When I visited London last year, my hires (massage and escort) pretty much were all very friendly, and we had conversation at the end. Nobody was rushing me out the door like here in NYC. In particular was an American ex-pat that I had a long conversation with who extolled the benefits of living in London/UK versus where he was from in the U.S. This was a late night session as well. Some providers here in NYC barely say hello to me.

Recently, I got a massage from someone eho said he wasn't contagious, but was getting over a cold. He wore a mask during the massage. I heard him clear his nose during the massage. I caught a bad cold I think from him. I should have not had the massage.