HornyRetiree

For me fairly often when I am not busy with appointments. With women I love curvy girls and older women, and with men a thick cut cock. With both I value entertaining certain kinks. It's so annoying to me when people focus so much on looks especially facially. Yeah, a hot face is always nice to look at when cumming, but a steamy encounter and intense orgasm is so much more than staring at someone's face.

Well stated!! I sometimes pine for my “sleeping around” 30s. Those were the days of AOL chat rooms, and no Uber. You made the most it once you finally “hooked up”.

In the past, "sleeping around" meant someone came to your place [or the reverse], you had sex and then fell asleep in each other's arms. You woke up together and, if there was a bit of chemistry, had breakfast together: a nice start to "something more". Nobody "sleeps around" anymore; they meet, have sex and leave. There goes the intimacy.

It's always been that way. Hookup apps are just a force multiplier. During AIDS, I tried to just date and get to know guys, but more often than not, we ended up in bed on the first date. It takes a lot of restraint.

Since Covid 19 is so highly contagious in the general population, I think it would be hard for a client who did develop symptoms from Covid 19 to pinpoint if they did indeed acquire it from a massage session. They might have stopped at a gas station before getting the massage and got it off the handle of the gas pump, or there could a million other places they got it before/after the massage session. This also gets tricky, since if an honest masseur as a courtesy contacts the client later to alert the client that they have now developed Covid 19 symptoms, maybe they acquired it from the client during the massage session, and not the other way around. The whole thing gets very hard to pinpoint.

Since Covid 19 is so highly contagious in the general population, I think it would be hard for a client who did develop symptoms from Covid 19 to pinpoint if they did indeed acquire it from a massage session. They might have stopped at a gas station before getting the massage and got it off the handle of the gas pump, or there could a million other places they got it before/after the massage session. This also gets tricky, since if an honest masseur as a courtesy contacts the client later to alert the client that they have now developed Covid 19 symptoms, maybe they acquired it from the client during the massage session, and not the other way around. The whole thing gets very hard to pinpoint.

Could be an interesting 50th reunion.

I went to many, many open showers in the navy. So hot but, being an officer and paranoid about being outted, I never did anything...and yes, there were several times that I could have. I still jerk off remembering some of those time, LOL.

Never took it to that level, but we had a few homoerotic moments. Turning all the showers on so the floor was slippery, then having naked races sliding on our butts. Filling up an empty trash can with water, and dumping 20 gallons at once over a buddy sprawled on the floor. I got a hard-on once while they did that to me.

Never took it to that level, but we had a few homoerotic moments. Turning all the showers on so the floor was slippery, then having naked races sliding on our butts. Filling up an empty trash can with water, and dumping 20 gallons at once over a buddy sprawled on the floor. I got a hard-on once while they did that to me.

The showers at NYSC on 32nd between 6th and 7th Aves aren’t fully open but there are no shower curtains and the cement partitions are about shoulder height. Reminds me off high school. Lots of eye balling.

I've unfortunately never had the privilege of servicing a guy with those big low hangers. I hope to have the opportunity some day.

Genetics and weather. You're welcome.

I don't think PAYPAL is one of the options. I usually just stick cash in an card and send it. You could buy an Amazon gift card using Paypal and email it.

MY policy in life has always been to GIFT and never loan - I will ask them to pay it forward 2x over life -- doesn't have to be big gifts for them to pay forward - they can do it in 20s when that is significant to the recipient!
 
Right now, I have a session prepaid with a long term masseur (years) - I expect to get to have the session - but if circumstances and the world prevent that from happening -- no problem -- better he have it than heirs fighting over what is left.

I want to add one more perspective to this all. Escorting and dating is almost an oxymoron. I’m not speaking for anyone in particular, or undermining any good escort relationships out there. But most guys in the biz aren’t in it because they’re trying to “date” (unless one is referring to dating=hooking up), or they may have moved on from the dating “rat race”.
 
In my case, I’m over the dating rat race. When I look back over the years, many of the “dates” I’ve had were a waste of time. With some of these guys, you just have to fuck em once or twice, and move on with your life. PERIOD. I be finding most of them only around for convenience, and what you can do for them. They don’t want to contribute, always want me to work around their schedule, etc. Then they criticize and put me down. Dating can be toxic, and I usually find afterwards that the ones I thought were a good catch, turn out to be assholes.
 
My most recent quasi-dating situation: A guy I’ve fucked a couple times last year. Met him in his city the 1st time, St. Louis the 2nd time, Kansas City the 3rd time, and then Florida the 4th time. By the end of the 2nd time, he had already started referring us to just “friends”, no sex. Which is where I should have dropped it then. Because from there, the whole “friendship” became annoying and meaningless. Then I had to listen to him go on and on about some other guy he was trying to be in a relationship with. Goodbye, it was nice knowing you!
 
I also met with a guy over Easter, who I’ve previously “hooked up” with last year. Waste of my time again. I go over to his house, I walk in and he’s playing x box. I haven’t seen him in months. I stay over for an hour, and he’s talking about he has a family video chat and has company coming over later. Prior to that he said he had frat brothers over. I’m thinking to myself, why did I even waste my time going over there? I don’t have time to be trying to “squeeze in” to spend time with someone, when they’re not trying to do the same. That’s equivalent to 250/hr down the drain. Just pointless. I will not be wasting my time with him again.
 
That’s part of why I’ve been sticking with the hobby for as long as I have. Even though it’s not perfect, and can challenge your mental health...it’s not even CLOSE to the level that goes on in regular “dating” situations. Escorting allows all the physical aspects of dating, but without the baggage and drama of getting to “know someone”. And trust me, most of these guys aren’t worth getting to know, because they’re all about convenience and see other gay guys as accessories, not something to invest in.
 
Escorting has taken me from LA to Key West, Provincetown to San Francisco. And everywhere in between. I have clients who I may see once every 1 or 2 years, and we still have like the best relationship when together. I also keep in touch in between. It works for me.

MY policy in life has always been to GIFT and never loan - I will ask them to pay it forward 2x over life -- doesn't have to be big gifts for them to pay forward - they can do it in 20s when that is significant to the recipient!
 
Right now, I have a session prepaid with a long term masseur (years) - I expect to get to have the session - but if circumstances and the world prevent that from happening -- no problem -- better he have it than heirs fighting over what is left.

MY policy in life has always been to GIFT and never loan - I will ask them to pay it forward 2x over life -- doesn't have to be big gifts for them to pay forward - they can do it in 20s when that is significant to the recipient!
 
Right now, I have a session prepaid with a long term masseur (years) - I expect to get to have the session - but if circumstances and the world prevent that from happening -- no problem -- better he have it than heirs fighting over what is left.

Deposit for future meetings during current downtime
 

 
PS: As another poster said in another thread, "They'll remember if you cancel an appointment on them, but won't remember the $$$ paid for a future appointment."
 
Edit!
From a wise poster (MikeBiDude): "They’ll remember your single/one time cancellation with an laser sharp elephant’s memory, but forget your prepayment in the blink of an eye."

MY policy in life has always been to GIFT and never loan - I will ask them to pay it forward 2x over life -- doesn't have to be big gifts for them to pay forward - they can do it in 20s when that is significant to the recipient!
 
Right now, I have a session prepaid with a long term masseur (years) - I expect to get to have the session - but if circumstances and the world prevent that from happening -- no problem -- better he have it than heirs fighting over what is left.

MY policy in life has always been to GIFT and never loan - I will ask them to pay it forward 2x over life -- doesn't have to be big gifts for them to pay forward - they can do it in 20s when that is significant to the recipient!
 
Right now, I have a session prepaid with a long term masseur (years) - I expect to get to have the session - but if circumstances and the world prevent that from happening -- no problem -- better he have it than heirs fighting over what is left.

Earlier this year one of my regulars was going through a tough patch and asked if I could lend him some money. He proposed to pay it back by monthly instalments. I agreed to lend him the money, but suggested that instead of him repaying me, I have a credit which could be reduced per future visit until the debt has been paid off. He agreed and we subsequently met up twice, significantly reducing the amount owing. Then the virus struck and it will now be some time until we can meet again in person, but I am confident that the debt will be paid in full eventually.
Barolo, I guess it depends on how much confidence you have in the guy.

If you think you might not have a job in the future (or it would take time for your 401K to recover) explain it to him and only hire him once things are back to normal.
 
You and your financial stability must come first, he'll understand hopefully. Even if you can't afford hiring him this year you'll be able to do it after you financially recover!
 
Some of you guys on here are confusing lending money to a friend with prepaying an escort or giving him a booking fee. I've always told all my friends to ask money from a relative.

I just had a pleasant exchange with (to me) a very cute provider in Seattle. I mentioned that I wanted to see him in June if it’s safe to, and hoped that he’d still be available. He responded in a very friendly way and said that he would be available then and told me to “stay safe”. I suspect that he wants to keep his profile up for future business. I wouldn’t even think of judging him since he’s not hustling for business. He’s one I’ll look forward to meeting when this subsides.

I have to keep reminding myself that I can't be responsive for anybody but myself. Just like I say on the 4th of July: "Be safe and Be sane."
Keeping a blacklist is repugnant in my mind.
 
@MrMattBig: Sonic Drive-In is open untll midnight. I have two face masks and I'd even consider somehow finding the XL gloves that seem to be short supply. However, other than enjoying a late night snack... I shall not be petting your pussy, either doggy style or otherwise .