Tangogent

Although it can be particularly nice with a certain escort, I don’t wish to feel dependent on one or for him to see me that way. At present, I’m moving on from someone who came to take me for granted as a ‘regular’ and enjoy the discovery of new marvels of young manhood.

Always wear that you believe suits you and pay no attention to the numbers.

To my mind, a man's arse is as beautiful as any woman's bosom, which is the aesthetic Kilimanjaro for most straight men I know. That's why I use the term 'arse cleavage' for an image like the one just above, where the towel is dipped low enough to show a portion of the crack. O, what heaven to rest my weary head in yon valley!

Encore! Good stuff, mates!

It’s a balancing act for me between intimacy and newness. I don’t like it when I sense an escort has begun to view me as a regular” he can take for granted, with whom he doesn’t have to work very hard. But how often does a new lad, even if looks like his sexy photos, turns out to be bad at his job and unable to connect with me?! I also don’t want to develop such feelings for an escort that I have an urge to be extra-generous with him; it s nut wise to be vulnerable to one of these friendly, neighborhood sex-workers IMO.

I agree with OP. Let’s have more male bum show here. Honestly, prefer seeing a man’s arse to his meat and two veg; seeing his tits is my second favourite. Why does a bottom send a top (like myself) the image of his dick? The dick of a bottom serves merely as a decorative tassel that flops in rhythm as I bang him.

No, it’s true. It was the dance between toughs down at the pier, where no woman would go. You can find modern male couples dancing the tango @ YouTube—but they’re all very soave and have been for decades.

I learnt it eons ago, probably remember enough to make my way round the floor. I really enjoy slow-dancing with a male partner. I don't care much about which kind of dance, but one in which we make "a vertical expression of a horizontal desire", as the old-time chaperones used to say. Dancing cheek-to-cheek, etc. Very dreamy if I have the younger man dressed in flimsy lingerie, maybe iwth heels, at the same time--but only a masculine lad will do for me!

Not as such, although cummerbunds and the like. In tribute to Mr Astaire, I have occasionally used a necktie as a belt on trousers, which feels somewhat sash-like. (Still not clear what you mean by 'sash', I admit.)

Not at a good idea IMHO, and certainly a dangerous one to announce in advance. A highly ambitious escort might help you on your way! The one I like I enjoy pampering when we are together, but a cash gift after my demise seems excessive. After all, they have already been paid for the transaction and everything else--gifts, travel--have been bonuses dispensed along the way.

Sometimes I feel this more when the connection with an escort was really good. I miss him when he goes and realise I really want so much more from (someone like) him. At other times, I feel more buoyant, reassured of my attractiveness and my skill as a partner. Depends on my mood, obviously, and the nature of our interaction. Sometimes somebody who more closely resembles the type I fall for leaves me filled with yearning when he goes. Oh, Lipe, Lipe! You are so lush!

I've been stung a few times, but I've got a very hard line about such matters now. Had seen a pretty young guy--blue collar--for years and was surprised he'd throw it all away for an advance of $100, but apparently he has. I've had a few who got $ out of me because they claimed their compulsive gambling left them in bad straits. Watch out for a Brazilian named Jeffrey who completely abased himself to get $ out of me without having sex. Hot-looking, hair, athletic guy but WHAT A CREEP. In any case, never again!

Gone are the days where one didn't have to think about the rates! I truly wonder whether some boys have any takers at £1K/night and the like. I tell myself that there's a health benefit in being caressed and kissed, at least. Keeps my blood moving in ways different from my weekly athletic massage. When I try someone new and it's 'meh', it can put me off my meat for a while. My libido is less, the prices are higher and, yes, too many beards and tattoos. Sometimes I find the attitude of a professional escort off-putting; I like them to be really customer-oriented. DoubleList is no CL; that's for sure!

I miss the days when one could browse the Praha talent at the National Railway station, pre-Internet.

Use your dirty imagination to answer your own question! x