jayjaycali

I suppose I've always been a bit of an exhibitionist, and as I also have an underwear fetish I enjoyed posing in skimpy underwear for amateur photographers. I'm now in my 70s but still in good shape, so was excited to learn about a website which brought models and photographers together to produce adult content.
So far I've had 6 photoshoots which started off being mainly underwear focussed. Since then I've enjoyed being naked and erect for the sessions, and on one occasion was photographed having sex with another model. I'm hoping to take part in a videoed shoot, fucking a younger guy.
Anyone else love being photographed naked?

Thank you, Simon, for attending this year. I remember last year how interested you were in attending, and glad you had such a great time - and gave me a post-visit cookie education. (wink)

Thanks to everyone for a great weekend, the usual suspects who did the heavy lifting, @Oliver and Phil, @David-SF, @sam.fitzpatrick, @azdr0710 for his tireless taxi service (and bit of In N Out). Thanks @Simon Suraci for your invaluable advice on things to do in San Diego, if only I'd had time to more of them. The zoo is worth it in itself. I know there are things and people I've missed and for that i apologise.  À l'année prochaine!

I was prepared to pay about $500 US for my HPV vaccines.  It turns out my insurance covers 100% all vaccines regardless of age.  Thank goodness for private insurance!  But I was prepared and willing to pay out of pocket.  An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.

naughtiness around the pool? *clutches pearls*

Another amazing year! Unfortunately, I am still recovering from a touch of sun poisoning on Sunday so I missed the breakfast yesterday, and had to call out of work today but overall, it was definitely worth it. 😈A huge thank you to @David-SF who always kicks the weekend off in style and to @Oliver for making sure it ends with a bang. Also a special thank you to @purplekow and Vin for allowing @Robster and I to invade their space while we were 'visiting' Inndulge. 

Me and maturedmuscle/Steve had a wonderful time (PM me if you want to know more), but I'm actually tired and glad it's over (there were a few setbacks on my trip), and as always, it's the people we met that made the biggest difference and joy. Making friends and meeting new people is the highlight of the trip, and I can't thank @Oliver @azdr0710 @sam.fitzpatrick and @David-SF enough for their kindness, attention to detail, gregariousness, and all in all making this year a wonderful success.

Sorry I missed this year's event. I had a travel conflict last week. I love your reports and was privileged to be phoned by samfitzpatrick yesterday while he was lounging around the Inndulge pool with sfwestcoaster and mikecarey. Sam updated me on some of the participant's naughtiness and the talent that strutted around the pool.  😘  Sounds like I missed a good time. 😁
Hope to see y'all again soon!

This reminds me of the difference between kinky and perverted
Kinky is using a feather.
Perverted is using the whole chicken.

Those friends don't happen to have sharp teeth, and only come out at night, do they?

Yes this is highly regulated. The Association for Sexwork Knowledge (ASK) has a pamphlet that stipulates the exact content of an erotic massage.
The pamphlet describes that all erotic massages must include at least 3 touches of the client’s genitals (and the final or 3rd touch has to keep hold until the client climaxes or the time runs out). A minimum of one nipple must be tweaked and at least one ball gently cupped or caressed. If the client has a non standard number of nipples or balls the masseur has to ensure that 50% of the total ball / nipples available have to be touched. 
Clients with a preference for bum work should indicate this either verbally or by parting their legs wider than table width. If the client does this then the pamphlet requires that the masseur insert a lubed finger (spit acceptable if no lube is available) past the first knuckle. 
The pamphlet is called Hire for Intimate Massage. In short it’s the ASK HIM document 😉

 

More like create your own!😝

As I recall, in previous years there was some muss.  Most of us are not looking for a muss free Time.  So do we need to bring our own muss?   

ass clenching bottoms who are having multiple orgasms as they service....

yet another fetish, bottoms who orgasm just by the thought they are serviceing men, any men, community service boys who pleasure themselves through service. who are they? i know a few in. nyc...one in pittsburgh.

Bottoms who experience an "anal orgasm", and bottoms who cum hands free while being fucked are both major turn-ons 🐷

FriendBoyPro is an alternate. I got a client from that one today. It’s has a small fraction of the popularity of RM in the US though.
I use MintBoys as well. Same story, a small fraction of the popularity, seldom get clients from there.
Adam4Adam has “pro” profiles and you can filter for those in search.
I would like a solid competitor to give RentMen a run for their money. 

I may be in the minority on this but I systematically offer the Uber, especially with a new hire. It sends the signal that I’m serious. It also lets me know when the provider is actually on his way and gives me a real-time estimate of when he’ll arrive. All for an extra $20-30 which is not much really.
The only thing I don’t like about it is when a provider tells me he’s ready for the pickup but isn’t and makes the driver wait. I don’t appreciate having my Uber rating dinged.

I'm seeing more guys in porn in chastity (caged / locked).   As a dedicated top, I'm finding this hot.  Is this becoming more of a "thing" or am I just discovering it?  
I watched a vid this morning where a caged guy came hands-free thru his chastity device, apparently the top was "hitting his spot".
I think this fetish surrounds the top being in control of his sub, and the sub can only experience pleasure at his master's discretion.   For me, the "hotness" is more about the fact that the bottom views their ass as the center of their pleasure universe, and their masters'.
Jack

So never quite the Cream Pi but getting close.

Palm Springs has the best mid century modern architecture.  You can drive or bike thru the many neighborhoods in the Greater Palm Springs area and admire the history and beauty of the homes and buildings. It’s very old Hollywood if you appreciate that era. 

I've enjoyed the Palm Springs Art Museum each time I have visited, and also going up on the aerial tramway and spending a few hours on the mountain walking around.  I'm not a hiker, but the views are great.

Welp....I pulled out my travel bag; it's time to pack. Flying to Columbus Friday, and y'all know what that means.....the westward migration is drawing nigh! 😃
Looks like it's warmer up yonder this week than last. Thanks Oliver and SamFitz for turning on some heat prior to my arrival......😋

More of an escort than a masseur here so maybe it’s different.  
 
But I love getting that kind of a direction from a client.  Especially on a first meeting.  Gives me a real sense of what he’s about and what gets him off. 

After a long absence from Johnson's Tampa, I spent last Friday night being very entertained! Went early to meet up with a fav dancer. Nate was behind the bar looking REALLY good. Clearly he's been hitting the gym. Great service from this sexy man. Eros (Argentinian Stud), great smile, shredded, a bit hairy .. one of my favs from FLL was there. He is in the Tampa area now. Another dancer was seen... used to, maybe still does work at LeBoy. He has beefed up. Longish curly dark hair. Sorry, don't know his name. Very diverse group of dancers. Something for everyone. Hit the lap dance room 5 times and had a blast. Sat with Matt for a bit and enjoyed a cocktail with him. Off to Wilton Manors this weekend for more Johnson's and a bit of LeBoy too.