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When I'm going to have sex I trim my balls and pubes. I feel it makes the "sucking" of my dick a more pleasurable experience and I prefer it as well. But I like public hair and an "ass" to be natural. I've adjusted over the years.

This occasionally becomes a topic of conversation on "clothing optional" beaches like the ones at Cape Canaveral National Seashore in Florida. (For example, at Playalinda's infamous lots 13 and 12, the single guys... gay, bi or bored with their wives at home... tend to gravitate to one section and sometimes pay the extra two dollars for a backcountry pass to the wild blue yonder of fun-fun-fun, the hetero couples tend to occupy the middle portions since anything they do won't get them arrested for indecent exposure and the homophobics who don't want any other dudes looking at them while they tan out their asses occupy the other extreme. Just go to where you will have the most insightful discussions.)
 
In a nut-shell...
 
Many between 18-40 and shave are going through a "Gothic" stage. Likely they will also sport tattoos and piercings.
Many between 40-65 and shave mistakenly believe that Just For Men might make you itchy down below. It does not. Trust me.
Many between 65-90 (and there is one 87 year old I have met who still looks young for his age and has no shame to his game) usually have been hanging at the beach so long and have tanned so much that you don't notice one way or the other at first.
Also some shave because they think their manhoods look... bigger.

I'm sure this thread has been discussed before, but this might be a slightly different take on it. Do you find you are getting more tolerant of the look of a shaved groin and balls? One of the things I longed for as a pubescent boy was the hairy crotch of a grown man, both for myself and in my anticipated sex partners. The guys in the locker room with a treasure trail commanded my attention, because they also had a fully grown cock. Hair= bigger dick= sexual maturity = woof!
 
Seeing the shaved hunks on sites like Sean Cody was somehow disturbing at first. Were they really old enough to suck and fuck? Was I turning into a pederast?
 
Now I'm seeing the beauty of a bare cock more, since so many are on display. What's your take? Is this look becoming more acceptable to you? Would you (do you) shave yourself? Is this a new standard of male beauty and hygiene, or just a passing fad like growing/shaving a beard?

Shaved balls & ass are fine especially if you like sucking balls & rimming but shaved pubes? NO! Trimmed is fine but a good bush is soooo sexy!

I hope it's just a passing fad. It looks completely wrong to me.

We've talked frequently about favorite porn sites. What about pornographic lit? I love the books of Josh Lawson and a few others, surprisingly, many that are female. Do you read porn? Do you prefer a well developed storyline or are you more in to gay erotica? I like both depending on whether I'm looking for entertainment or jack off material. One lack I find in many gay novels is a detailed descriptions of the cocks of the characters, such as smooth, veiny, cut, intact, lots of skin, dark or light, mushroom head, a mouthful or more, etc. The female authors in particular describe the hero's face in great detail, but simply say, "thick", when getting down to cases. LOL!

I'll take "Petty" for $500 Alex. You do realize paying more doesn't necessarily mean you get better service. Do you have anything constructive to add to this forum post other than demean everyone who isn't in this supposed big spender league gamechanger or seaworld are in?
 
It's all good though. You enjoy Ryan and pay the fee he wants. As I have said, if he can get whatever... more power to him.
 
I don't know Ryan personally, but from client posts and brief interactions (I had years ago) he seems like a good guy. He's not for everyone, just like not everyone is interested in him because of his muscles. I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate you demeaning people (i.e. potential clients) in his honor.

@body2body , you were in fact the first person to review me and someone who had been there throughout these years as a friend farrrrr more than a client and one who even gave freely of HIS time to help me help a friend out who had particular problems that I wasn't as experienced in dealing with! Your advice and expertise were pivotal, and will forever be remembered.
 
That's one of the things that I truly love about this forum, is that the guys on it all have something to offer that is FAR GREATER then sex, Money, or support. A lot of these escorts who only engage their clients on that superficial level and are afraid to open up to them, never get opened up to back...and that's where things are much more symbiotic. Don't get me wrong- there's some 'wham bam thank you ma'am's' that you only want to be on the physical level- but those are the type of people who just grab phone Numbers and emails off Rentmen or back page or Craigslist or whatever source; and haven't ever HEARD of daddys. The guys that put the time into researching / hiring or are in this community/discussion board are the BEST clients, bar none....they just have that added depth to them. #mytwocents

Wow, so anyone who does more for less then $45o is of a lower class than Ryan Steel, that's great to know. Well maybe Mr. Steel should stop advertising and just hang out with his billionaire friend and not deal with us peasants that work hard for our play money.

Sorry for the attitude. He wasn't unfriendly; he was pleasant enough. I really don't remember if the massage was good or bad, so I guess it was OK. It was clear that I wasn't satisfied, so the atmosphere was a bit chilly when I left. I never express dissatisfaction verbally, or by petulancy, but it was clear that I would not be returning.
I'll venture to say that reviews on those sites -- excellent or unfavorable -- don't mean much. We never know who wrote them. A masseur can easily ask a friend to send in a review, and the site doesn't know who or where the review is coming from. Also, masseurs sometimes ask (I've been asked several times) to write a review in return for a discout on the next session.
As I recall, my advice to "stay away" was primarily because the masseur didn't deliver what was promised.
There are SO MANY good masseurs in New York -- I think you can do much better.

Thanks for the info -- He used to live in suburban Philly/NJ when he was a puppy and had BIG HAIR - thought that he was to nelly then. So when he started advertising fetish/BDSM - I was intrigued and I was going to be in NYC for a week and wanted to book an all day /like a daytime overnight - and everything I asked him about he did not do -- I asked if he was a smoker and he said no - since it was to be a long appt that was important to me as I cannot deal with cig smoke --
 
When we talked to finalize the arrangements he basically said -- You know what I don't do long sessions with people I have not met before and offered me an hour of his precious time at a markup from his ad. I declined . . . Seems like I made a good call

That's not a good sign... I've never called someone a fagot because I'm gay and I don't like to be called that way.

Sorry guys. I suffered through season 2 but I cannot take any more. Martin Sheen is totally unconvincing. Fonda and Tomlin are just reading their lines without doing the acting of which they are capable. I certainly don't mind gay characters being depicted comically ( Will and Grace; Modern Family) but this show makes gay characters appear as cardboard cutouts. Let's demand a more realistic portrayal of gay characters.

I'm not sure I really have a favourite, but two do spring to mind, both by Queen:
 

Sheeran rocks!
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHgqXHJewhs

Is it spring yet?
https://twitter.com/i/videos/842430872431271936?embed_source=facebook

I do truly appreciate the vote of confidence that I look better in current form; then as the little twink boy I kinda started in. However, I don't lament the way the progression occurred...it kinda showed me the 'ropes' along the way and to appreciate things from all sexual positions, fetishes, and perspectives.
 
Here's a funny tangent about that scene, responding to the 'noise disturbance' for BukBuddies. Very fun group to work with....local to Connecticut...very informal and kinda amateurish...but the shoots were quick and the boys they partnered me with cute and compatible. That PARTICULAR scene..(filmed at my house, in the kitchen, by the way...where the kid is wearing the towel..)...the poor boy got into a car accident on the way to my house. Broken windshield, glass in his face and somehow he cut his big toe stepping on glass.(I mean...who the fuck drives barefoot, really?). However, he was a TRUE SUB...and whatever the guys at Bukbuddies told him to do, he did....so they told him...you WILL show up at Tristan's house...you WILL service him, and you can go to the ER afterwards.
 
Sooooooooo.....he shows up, we triage and dress his wound up nice and tight...and we shoot a scene as he's bleeding all over my kitchen.(Soaking right through the pressure dressing I applied.). I didn't have FunGuy on site to help with the medical stuff or as a 'grip' of some kind.
 
I'll have to get a pic for the Daddy's Forum in this thread before work on Saturday night, once I'm all oiled up and shaven again. Weighing in 194 again, only a few lbs off the MAX ever. TRYING TO GET READY FOR A CERTAIN POOL PARTY IN PALM SPRINGS!!!!!!!!
 
NOTE TO ALL OF YOU NOT ATTENDING- IT'S NOT TOO LATE TO GRAB PLANE TIX! Only a 2 hr drive in from LAX, 3 hrs from Vegas or Phoenix...and it's a great chance to meet not only guys from the industry, but to make lifelong friends amongst other forum members. Every single member I've ever harped on nonstop to come and try it has NOT regretted it, please PM me or Oliver for details, or see the appropriate thread for the Forum Gathering in Palm Springs 4/21-4/23!!!!

Wherever Trudeau is naked.

I'm blushing.
And masturbating....
....but mostly blushing!
 
❤❤❤❤ you guys!!!!
 
Plus, I will say this...when an escort scans his email box, his personality and what HES looking for are magnetically drawn towards certain messages, from certain people you just 'click!' With.
 
So articulate, educated, fun gentleman are my 'thing'. If you happen to message me one word statements saying 'Hey!' Or 'Want 2 Fuk' or simply 'I'm Horny'; you'll be waiting to the end of time for a response...there's a different way to word all that.
 
It's no surprise that the guys that see me are some of the most well written guys on this forum; and as educated as they are; there's no question as to whether we are connecting or whether something is up in the air.
 
Perhaps the earlier, poorly written 'apprentice' with his hidden profile(doesn't want everyone to see his posts because they're all similar flames) messages escorts with 'Hey.. I want 2 fuk!' And thinks that's an appointment...?
 
Tune in Tokyo...it's not! Lol.
 
Love all you guys on here and CANNOT wait to the springs...I may have a surprise guest to bring to the pool party!!
 
TB

I'm reading this thread with such interest and an awareness of how hard I worked to suppress my feelings as a teenager and young adult. I can look back and recognize times when I avoided acknowledging attraction, or even interest, in other guys, but in the moment my denial was so strong I wouldn't have ever admitted any such feelings. I was so determined NOT to be attracted to other guys that I can't think of examples back then when I let my mind go there. I had teammates and friends I wasn't comfortable showering with, and I now can see that it was because of how they made me feel, it was confusing at best so I avoided it. Celebrities who might have turned me on I just didn't look at. At a high school party someone had porn on VHS, straight porn but I remember seeing an erect dick for the first time and leaving because it "grossed me out," but of course it didn't really.
 
So no teenage crushes here, just a lot of effort to pretend I wasn't interested, mostly to myself. For me the realization started later, as a young father with my kids at the playground, when I let my guard down and began to bond with other young dads. One became a buddy and I'd be deeply disappointed when he didn't show up. But the truth was unavoidable when my kids started T-ball. There was a dad I kept looking at, and one day he took his shirt off and I got hard. I made friends with him and used to sit with him, often hiding a boner. One day, home alone, I jerked off thinking about him, and after that had to admit to myself that I was at least bi-curious. The journey took a long time after that but that was when I first acknowledged to myself what I'd been denying all along.

Leonardo Dicaprio in the Titanic, yes im talking about the love scene.

most of them end up in debt... a few are lucky.
 

Hey guys- Kenny here! Any questions feel free to contact me directly. Thank you for all of the interest and comments- positive or otherwise... I do enjoy hearing feedback as it helps me become better at what I'm doing.
 
As far as my personal life and income, I'm not exactly sure why it matters or why you'd put so much effort into figuring it out but I will say this- you never know what situation someone is in or why they may be doing something. All I ask is that you please be respectful.
 
And regarding my fees- I don't go online and complain that a Lamborghini costs $450k when I've never driven one
 
To those here that I've met with- I am grateful and hope to see you again. To those I haven't- thank you for all of the feedback and I wish you the best!
 
P.S.- new massage table is coming!

Nor allowed back to many hotels one would imagine.

This is considered awkward? I do this regularly...
 
No wonder I never get repeat overnights.