Cody Converse

Why is it a leap? Is it because he's a black man? A sex worker? I'm genuinely curious.
 
http://www.jasmyneacannick.com/breaking-journal-documents-how-wealthy-democratic-donor-hooked-young-black-gay-man-on-meth-before-his-death/

Remember all those discussions of racial preferences and who gets hired? If Buck is doing what is alleged, he is an example of someone with a dangerous and racist fetish.
 
There are plenty of other people who do less dangerous things to their partners that are also racist (dominating a black man because he's black, using slurs, etc.) or are based on racial stereotypes (black man dominating a non-black partner, prison rape roleplay, etc.)
 
To me, this article is not primarily about drugs.

Of those mentioned philadelphia seems the most like what I’m looking for. I’m in the southeast so I can just take the I-95 and be there in 6 hours. How is the crime comparable to say Baltimore or Newark? Are there places to avoid? I’m a young, big and tall ethnic male, who’s never been a victim of violent crime. Mainly just wondering about property crime. I would like to be able to drive around the city without worrying about getting lost in a bad part of town.

I suppose you could have replied "you really ought to have your gall bladder removed because it seems to be producing an overabundance of bile," but you are not that kind of man.
 
What a shit head.

If you make me feel both desirable and cared about then you get an A+

Everyone needs a break from time to time, let's hope he's just enjoying a little R&R and will be back in the game. Until then, be well Anthony!

Go to your doctor. Being bedridden for three days is not normal and should be investigated by a medical professional.

This! "What are your limits," etc. usually indicates that the client is looking for something more than vanilla, and more often than not means they have a specific interest that they want to explore. For a lot of clients, especially ones with niche interests, hiring is one of the only ways they can explore their kinks (whatever that may be) and they want to make sure they're going to actually be able to engage in the type of play they're looking for.
 
If anything, asking the question indicates more respect for the provider as a person, not less. Considering how obscure (or even risky) some fetishes can get, it's always best that everyone is on the same page.

Uh, I think we're saying the same thing. They're asking because they have a specific interest they can't otherwise satisfy, so they ask to make sure they'll be okay.
 
As someone who has a WIDE variety of sexual interests, it's best if everyone is on the same page. It's no fun to get your hopes up for a specific scene and find out your partner has no interest.
 
I think you're making a bigger deal out of this than it needs to be.

Yeah, I pretty much stopped getting colds altogether when I started doing two things:
1)Using the alcohol wipes at the gym on the treadmill/bikes BEFORE using them as well as after; and
2)mostly avoid touching the poles on mass transit unless wearing gloves.

Go to your doctor. Being bedridden for three days is not normal and should be investigated by a medical professional.

Rehoboth is nice, but definitely more geared towards nuclear families than gay men these days. Double L is a pretty fun leather bar, the other gay bars in town are pretty run-of-the-mill beach town bars. Poole Beach (or Poodle Beach depending on who you ask) is decent, absolutely swarming with instagays on holiday weekends tho.

I'd recommend coconut oil. It's easy (and good for) the skin.

I used to really be into that. We would get covered with baby oil and slip and slide and suck and fuck. My partner and I have a rubber sheet and we tried it once. He didn't like it. He found the feeling of being covered with oil icky. I would do it again, slipping and sliding against a sexy guy is great.

I think it was initially a combination of higher rates of IV drug use(or maybe just higher rates of needle sharing) and more people in the closet in those communities. Being closeted tends to lead to higher number of different partners which increases the risk.
The first is a function of poverty, the second is a function of higher rates of church membership.

The different levels of systemic racism in the USA perhaps

This! "What are your limits," etc. usually indicates that the client is looking for something more than vanilla, and more often than not means they have a specific interest that they want to explore. For a lot of clients, especially ones with niche interests, hiring is one of the only ways they can explore their kinks (whatever that may be) and they want to make sure they're going to actually be able to engage in the type of play they're looking for.
 
If anything, asking the question indicates more respect for the provider as a person, not less. Considering how obscure (or even risky) some fetishes can get, it's always best that everyone is on the same page.

This! "What are your limits," etc. usually indicates that the client is looking for something more than vanilla, and more often than not means they have a specific interest that they want to explore. For a lot of clients, especially ones with niche interests, hiring is one of the only ways they can explore their kinks (whatever that may be) and they want to make sure they're going to actually be able to engage in the type of play they're looking for.
 
If anything, asking the question indicates more respect for the provider as a person, not less. Considering how obscure (or even risky) some fetishes can get, it's always best that everyone is on the same page.

This! "What are your limits," etc. usually indicates that the client is looking for something more than vanilla, and more often than not means they have a specific interest that they want to explore. For a lot of clients, especially ones with niche interests, hiring is one of the only ways they can explore their kinks (whatever that may be) and they want to make sure they're going to actually be able to engage in the type of play they're looking for.
 
If anything, asking the question indicates more respect for the provider as a person, not less. Considering how obscure (or even risky) some fetishes can get, it's always best that everyone is on the same page.

Hmmm... let me guess. His "issue" is that he lives in a world where people are judged negatively if they don't match someone else's physical ideal.

It should definitely be asked for and agreed upon beforehand. I know this is not your question, but taking pictures of a provider without explicit consent is wrong, end of discussion.
 
I did have a client "ambush" me with a desire to film our encounter. I was new and hesitantly agreed to it (he had flown me across the country for the encounter), but I now regret it. I went back through our correspondence and it was never mentioned. I have a no-photo policy now, because I also have tattoos that I've edited out of my pictures to remove identifiable features.

It should definitely be asked for and agreed upon beforehand. I know this is not your question, but taking pictures of a provider without explicit consent is wrong, end of discussion.
 
I did have a client "ambush" me with a desire to film our encounter. I was new and hesitantly agreed to it (he had flown me across the country for the encounter), but I now regret it. I went back through our correspondence and it was never mentioned. I have a no-photo policy now, because I also have tattoos that I've edited out of my pictures to remove identifiable features.

I believe the act of coming out is so dependent upon the individual's personality, family environment, employment environment, social environment and personal introspection that there is no good time to do it that fits all. In Martin's case, as it should be in all such cases regardless of age, he made an important life decision and he feels good about it.

I actually just had my first "exclusively feet" encounter a few weeks ago during a trip to DC. Had a client who spent the entire hour (and then some) playing with, licking, sucking, massaging, and grazing my feet with his teeth. No sex, not even any kissing. It was unexpected (he hadn't even mentioned a foot fetish prior to meeting), but definitely a good experience. I loved seeing how happy he was completely losing himself in the experience-- definitely one of the most satisfying encounters I've had.
 

Oof, this one is always conflicting. I love seeing my top enjoying himself while I'm in that position, but my feet are pretty ticklish and I'm always afraid I'm going to kick him in the face

I hate to be the “get off my lawn” guy in this thread, but I suspect had they not been “total hotties,” they would’ve wound up taken away in handcuffs. The double standard is real.