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When I first began getting massages, I was caught off guard but was pleasantly surprised by the whole “happy ending” thing. And that’s as much as I hoped for - for a while. I’m afraid I’ve become spoiled by a few legitimate CMTs who are not on Rentmen but who give a massage that is more than sensual and sometimes segues into what could only be called “full service.” In every case it’s been initiated by the masseur; I neither expected nor asked for it (but I’ve tipped them big-time). At the same time, soneone on here wrote about his experience with one of the masseurs I’m referring to and said his experience was strictly therapeutic. So one’s mileage definitely will vary.

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For me, this ongoing discussion raises the crux of why I enjoy baths: You can't bullshit a bathhouse.
 
Unlike Grindr, where people Facetune/edit/crop/morph the hell out of their profile pictures, a bath is face-front and for better or worse, the most honest way to hook up. You can make a snap decision as to whether you want to mess around with the guy or keep walking. No harm, no foul.

“Hi. I’m a top looking for....” will do just fine.

I list "top" in my profile. If I'm unclear on someone's preference my intro message will include something like "In the past I have enjoy meeting guys who like to bottom. Please let me know if you think we are a good match". Same for kissing.

just check them out while NOT logged on.

I wrote about this in another thread after returning from a week’s vacation last fall. When I got settled in my hotel, I texted a masseur, introducing myself and offering dates/times good for me. Heard nothing, so I went down my list to a couple other masseurs and an escort from Rentmen. After not receiving a response from any of them after 24-48 hours, I bit the bullet and contacted a masseur who was not high on my list (and was just visiting the area). We made an appt, he turned out to be much more handsome in person than in his photos, and gave me a massage with great “extras.” So you never know.
 
Incidentally, on another more recent visit to the same area, I was able to finally make contact with the RM escort. He told me he escorts as a sideline to a regular 40-hour a week job, mostly when he needs extra money. He has some “regulars,” but isn’t always in the market to add clients, which may be why I didn’t hear back from him on my earlier visit.

In addition to asking for an iTunes card (or other gift card) + cash, the other things I’ve noticed these guys have in common are that they’re from Eastern Europe, sometimes their “about me” description is not in English, and under “location” they list 3 or 4 cities hundreds of miles apart all on the same dates. Maybe they’re willing to travel to one of those cities but they don’t make that plain.

In addition to asking for an iTunes card (or other gift card) + cash, the other things I’ve noticed these guys have in common are that they’re from Eastern Europe, sometimes their “about me” description is not in English, and under “location” they list 3 or 4 cities hundreds of miles apart all on the same dates. Maybe they’re willing to travel to one of those cities but they don’t make that plain.

There’s no reason a 70-year-old man can’t be in good shape, if he’s otherwise in good health. I work out every morning; squats, as any gym rat or Silver Sneakers member will tell you, are an important part of maintaining physical health, not only for the glutes and quads but also abs and back muscles. Anyway, masseurs seem to find my ass appealing as I’ve received many compliments, and more than a few masseurs have either asked if they might rim me or have just dived in. ;-)

There’s no reason a 70-year-old man can’t be in good shape, if he’s otherwise in good health. I work out every morning; squats, as any gym rat or Silver Sneakers member will tell you, are an important part of maintaining physical health, not only for the glutes and quads but also abs and back muscles. Anyway, masseurs seem to find my ass appealing as I’ve received many compliments, and more than a few masseurs have either asked if they might rim me or have just dived in. ;-)

I saw him a few times. His former space was small and quiet, with a nice feeling of intimacy. He moved a while ago and I haven’t seen him in the new space. The massage is OK; it always felt to me as though it was about to boil over into something erotic, but never did (in my experience). Nice guy, though.
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Conversely, I'd L O V E to see "cut."

Any experience with rubitgood99
 
https://m.adam4adam.com/profile/view/rubitgood99
 
Or Ron
 
https://rentmasseur.com/OpenMinded

Should be a capital offense.
 
I’m allergic to meditation. Put me in a lotus position and a swarm of inane thoughts attack my brain But put me on a massage table and I automatically achieve nirvana immediately - unless someone speaks.
 
One of the best massage experiences I ever had was with two very handsome guys who worked out of their high rise apartment several blocks west of Columbus Circle in New York. Their massage was deep and mainly therapeutic and rather asexual although we were all nude. They worked silently with balletic coordination: one on the upper body the other on the lower. And the one working on the lower body was completely blind. At the end they left the room quietly suggesting I could lie there as long as I needed. Even once dressed I needed to sit a bit before facing reality again. Wish I could find them again.

I've learned to say at some point in the message, "I'd like to unwind now, so I might nod off. Feel free to nudge me if I start to snore." That has been successful in getting the chit-chat to stop.

I’ll be in the Ann Arbor area for a few days and am wondering if anyone has attended one of the massage groups held on Thursdays and Saturdays. Or if anyone has info on these guys
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/29042/
 
or other masseurs in the area. Thanks for any suggestions!

Was recently visiting the Phoenix, AZ, area, and had hoped to have a massage while I was there. I review ads carefully to determine what sort of contact the cmt prefers, if they mention it at all. I introduced myself, wrote that I was visiting, and let them know what I was looking for.
 
I got no response from the first guy I texted. The next day I re-texted to see if he’d seen my initial text. Decided to phone but got a message that the number was not working (or something like that; it was unclear).
 
The second guy I tried to contact likewise did not reply. Neither did the third or fourth. I know they may be busy with appointments, etc., so I gave each of them 24 hours. Finally, I phoned a guy who didn’t live in AZ but was visiting from Palm Springs. The massage was OK; however, the masseur was very warm and welcoming, was much better looking than in his ad, and the massage segued into what I believe on here are called “extras.” ;-)
 
A couple days later I received texts from two of the earlier options, that they’d been out of town. Shouldn’t they put that in their ad? And I finally heard from the first guy - more than a week after my initial text to him - that he’d also been out of town. No explanation for the odd message with his phone number.
 
Sorry about the length of this post, but this experience kind of baffled me.

In all the years I’ve been getting massages, I can think of only a single instance (apart from at a gym) where I was expected to be draped - and I told the masseur that I preferred to be nude. However, I sometimes ask about draping/nudity to gauge the masseur’s attitude. Likewise, nearly every masseur I’ve hired has stripped naked without any discussion about it. One guy I was hiring for the first time said he wasn’t comfortable undressing for our initial time together, but about halfway through he said, “What the hell,” and removed all his clothes.

I’m surprised. I’ve seen Ty several times and he’s always been welcoming and thoughtful, both in email/text and in person. We had kind of an odd session about a year ago - we weren’t connecting as we have before - but I’d still recommend him. He’s also extremely handsome and has a great body.

If the entire time during the massage you must be clenching your ass tight and be on guard because rape is a possibility, well why the fuck get a massage at all? That sounds awful. To be on edge from the get-go is the total opposite of what a massage should be.
 
Here's an important fact about sociopaths and assholes who take advantage of people - they are master manipulators and appear to be "nice" and "sane" but will turn on you on a dime. If someone has been lulled into a relaxed mood and not on guard, someone physically stronger can force penetration. Sure you can push them off, but it ALREADY HAPPENED. Worst yet, if the masseur was already close to climax, and they pushed in AT THAT MOMENT, they could cum inside you. You can push them off, but it already happened.
 
It is not unreasonable to expect a safe experience.

Wow. No one is clutching any pearls, pal It’s just that you sound like the sort of person who says that a woman should’ve expected to be assaulted because she was wearing a short skirt. And if it’s not “rape,” then what would you call it? The natural progression of two men getting naked?

It seems to me that you’re saying that we should be prepared to fight off any masseur because we are, after all, getting naked and the masseur is also naked and may become aroused and not be able to control himself. Hmm. If I answer an ad from someone who offers sensual/erotic nude massage, I think it’s reasonable to assume that I won’t be raped while face down on the table.

It seems to me that you’re saying that we should be prepared to fight off any masseur because we are, after all, getting naked and the masseur is also naked and may become aroused and not be able to control himself. Hmm. If I answer an ad from someone who offers sensual/erotic nude massage, I think it’s reasonable to assume that I won’t be raped while face down on the table.

It seems to me that you’re saying that we should be prepared to fight off any masseur because we are, after all, getting naked and the masseur is also naked and may become aroused and not be able to control himself. Hmm. If I answer an ad from someone who offers sensual/erotic nude massage, I think it’s reasonable to assume that I won’t be raped while face down on the table.