PapaTony
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+ PapaTony reacted to + Lucky in 🔥🔥 ¡¡HHHOOOOTTT Padre!! 🔥🔥
Pray with me, Father, for I want to sin.
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+ PapaTony got a reaction from Simon Suraci in If the bottom does not have an erection and does not ejaculate is he really enjoying it?
THERE! That’s the ticket. I agree (w)hole-heartedly.
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+ PapaTony reacted to + Charlie in Our roles as community elders
I guess I qualify as a gay elder, since I came out when Dwight Eisenhower was President. In my 20s, I was active in the small, pre-Stonewall gay rights organizations, and I took part in the first gay picketing of Independence Hall in 1965. I was living with my second partner a few blocks from the Stonewall the night of the riot. In my 30s, I was active in the new post-Stonewall national gay rights organizations, and carried the flag at the head of a Gay Pride parade during the Bi-Centennial in 1976. I also taught the first gay literature course ever offered at my college. In my 40s, I was active as a volunteer in AIDS organizations, and ran an AIDS information hotline. By my 50s, my energies were starting to flag, and I turned to professional and family responsibilities. In my 60's and 70s, my contributions to gay life were mostly financial.
This topic made me realize that I have almost no contact with "young gays" any longer. When the head of the LGBTQ student organization at my alma mater recently asked alumni for information about "gay life" at the school for a historical retrospective video she was preparing, she told me I was the oldest alumnus who responded. I told her there was no "gay life" at the school when I was there, because homosexual activity was illegal then. She asked to interview me to use as a prologue for the video, and I agreed, the closest I have come to any kind of mentoring of young gays in recent years. Like many old men, I live in the bubble of retirees in the age-segregated divisions that characterize modern American society. The "younger" men who have posted here are probably my only audience. However, if the Supreme Court tries to take away any of my hard-won rights, I'll probably be back at the public demonstrations again.
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+ PapaTony reacted to + nycman in If the bottom does not have an erection and does not ejaculate is he really enjoying it?
I actually find it kind of hot when a bottom is clearly enjoying himself but is flaccid.
To me it means I’m doing such an amazing job that he’s totally focused on his hole.
Everything else, even his dick, is secondary.
Feel free to create your own fantasy. Mine works for me.
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+ PapaTony got a reaction from Antonio1981 in I’m getting tired of drag queens.
Such a nice story and a welcome refrain to the bigoted divisive comments peppered throughout this thread.
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+ PapaTony reacted to marylander1940 in I’m getting tired of drag queens.
Your post was well-intended and honest but unfortunately some gay men love to punch down trying to feel good about themselves and their lifestyle...
no need for you to make clear your intentions, thank you for posting this thread, it's been a useful way to expose meanness among us!
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+ PapaTony got a reaction from + nycman in I’m getting tired of drag queens.
Such a nice story and a welcome refrain to the bigoted divisive comments peppered throughout this thread.
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+ PapaTony got a reaction from HornyLatinBi in I’m getting tired of drag queens.
Such a nice story and a welcome refrain to the bigoted divisive comments peppered throughout this thread.
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+ PapaTony got a reaction from marylander1940 in I’m getting tired of drag queens.
Such a nice story and a welcome refrain to the bigoted divisive comments peppered throughout this thread.
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+ PapaTony reacted to savantsav in I’m getting tired of drag queens.
Yikes.
Drag is no different than being a mime or a clown, the only difference is that they wear "opposite gender" clothes (clothes are genderless). If you don't like them because "I don't like that kind of entertainment" is one thing, but not liking them because "as a gay man I don't want to dress up as a woman" it's like, "then don't? nobody is asking you to". Hating on drag queens for no real reason screams of internal homophobia. Figure out what about a man dressing as a woman triggers you so badly, especially when it's not you doing it, it's someone else. Drag shows aren't my cup of tea, but I don't care enough to make a post about it complain about it, that's the difference.
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+ PapaTony reacted to jeezifonly in I’m getting tired of drag queens.
Let’s keep one thing in perspective: When Pride originated, there were locations in the US where you could be arrested/jailed for being homosexual. For being suspected of it.
The relief we currently enjoy from that very real threat (and more) is something that powerful interests do not want to continue. Let’s stay united at this time to protect all people whose sexuality and/or gender make them targets! Drag is not dangerous to anyone, except for the few who haven’t rehearsed enough in the heels!
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