Dmitri

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

After reading thru all these posts I got so horny I had to make a massage appointment for tommw! (Seriously) With a naked masseur of course!

After reading thru all these posts I got so horny I had to make a massage appointment for tommw! (Seriously) With a naked masseur of course!

After reading thru all these posts I got so horny I had to make a massage appointment for tommw! (Seriously) With a naked masseur of course!

Hi @MikeBiDude, I put the HWP info in there since I had to Google it. I had no idea what it meant so thought others might not know either. What I was implying by my comment that "it is ironic Pan is Asian, yet seems to judge others on their body type" is that discrimination can take many forms. I have heard from my friends that are Asian, that when they call for a massage session, due to their accent, the masseur will ask the client if they are Asian. If they say yes they are Asian,some masseurs will turn the Asian clients away due to their ethnicity. I think that sucks. So I found it ironic that now an Asian masseur was turning away clients due to their body weight. Wow, everything seems to be coming full circle. Discrimination in any form sucks, just wish we could all get along, and accept each other for who we are, any race, skinny or fat, young or old

For someone who does only strictly therapeutic massage he sure posts alot of hot, sexy photos. Total of 9 pics in many adorable poses. If he does only strictly therapeutic massage I would imagine he would post maybe 3 face shots and leave it at that. But he goes overboard with 9 hot pics. Guess he is just using his hotness to get you to come in for a Therapeutic massage. (playing the "aren't I cute card" ) and he IS cute! Dr. Massage McDreamy! Would be to frustrating for me....he is way to cute....I would explode as soon as he put his hands on me. In fact, I would take that a step further and pull him onto the table with me. Best if I stay away from him.

Hi @MikeBiDude, I put the HWP info in there since I had to Google it. I had no idea what it meant so thought others might not know either. What I was implying by my comment that "it is ironic Pan is Asian, yet seems to judge others on their body type" is that discrimination can take many forms. I have heard from my friends that are Asian, that when they call for a massage session, due to their accent, the masseur will ask the client if they are Asian. If they say yes they are Asian,some masseurs will turn the Asian clients away due to their ethnicity. I think that sucks. So I found it ironic that now an Asian masseur was turning away clients due to their body weight. Wow, everything seems to be coming full circle. Discrimination in any form sucks, just wish we could all get along, and accept each other for who we are, any race, skinny or fat, young or old

For someone who does only strictly therapeutic massage he sure posts alot of hot, sexy photos. Total of 9 pics in many adorable poses. If he does only strictly therapeutic massage I would imagine he would post maybe 3 face shots and leave it at that. But he goes overboard with 9 hot pics. Guess he is just using his hotness to get you to come in for a Therapeutic massage. (playing the "aren't I cute card" ) and he IS cute! Dr. Massage McDreamy! Would be to frustrating for me....he is way to cute....I would explode as soon as he put his hands on me. In fact, I would take that a step further and pull him onto the table with me. Best if I stay away from him.

A few thoughts, @Kody S :
 
1) You sound like a really sweet guy who is genuinely wanting to just practice their massage skills on a masseur. Most gay masseurs that provide services are into the massage....but also into the erotic part with HE, etc. And as we all know this is a looks based gay massage business. So asking a gay masseur if you can massage them will probably sound like you are hitting on them in a lecherous way, no matter how sincere you explain to them about just wanting to hone your massage skills. I am sure they get clients all the time wanting to massage them, with sexual intentions. Even if you pay them for their time, there may be some sexual tension, and most will probably refuse. With that being said, it does not hurt to ask...the worst they can say is no.
 
2) Mu suggestion is to Google "gay massage exchange websites". See what is out there. I am sure there are a few sites that offer what you are looking for. (for free) Another idea is to post an ad on Craigslist under "Men Seeking Men" and explain in your ad just what you said in your post....you want to exchange massages to hone your skills, where you can hook up with someone else who is in the same situation as you are. ( also free)
 
Good luck and maybe you will become a full time masseur...let us know how it goes!

Zman, I like what you said....there is no hard and fast rule about age.....but I also feel there is no hard and fast rule about getting a recommendation about anything......whether it is about a masseur.....an escort....or a restaurant. I have received massages from men in their 20's all the way into their 50's......and have had good and bad from all age groups. ( I am 47 y/0)......I also have had massages from men that were glorified in reviews on this site and other sites....and had bad experiences, even though they were raved about. Also had some great experiences from guys that were dissed on this site and other sites. Same with restaurants.....people have said " don't go there...food is terrible".....but went since it worked for me that day....and had a great meal. To summarize.....as far as age goes, good and bad in all age groups. As far as being reviewed.... I have had some lousy massages from guys that have had positive reviews here and on other sites......and great massages from ones on sites like Backpage or my local gay newspaper that I stumbled across and have never been mentioned here. This site and other sites are a great resource for a start.....but you need to go with your gut instincts to see what works for you....trust your intuition. And always remember.....it is only a "first world problem".......we are always looking for that next great massage......let's all be thankful we are always just musing on this site about who to choose to massage us.....while people in third world countries are looking for where their next meal is coming from....or where they will sleep tonite.....helps keep things in perspective

Zman, I like what you said....there is no hard and fast rule about age.....but I also feel there is no hard and fast rule about getting a recommendation about anything......whether it is about a masseur.....an escort....or a restaurant. I have received massages from men in their 20's all the way into their 50's......and have had good and bad from all age groups. ( I am 47 y/0)......I also have had massages from men that were glorified in reviews on this site and other sites....and had bad experiences, even though they were raved about. Also had some great experiences from guys that were dissed on this site and other sites. Same with restaurants.....people have said " don't go there...food is terrible".....but went since it worked for me that day....and had a great meal. To summarize.....as far as age goes, good and bad in all age groups. As far as being reviewed.... I have had some lousy massages from guys that have had positive reviews here and on other sites......and great massages from ones on sites like Backpage or my local gay newspaper that I stumbled across and have never been mentioned here. This site and other sites are a great resource for a start.....but you need to go with your gut instincts to see what works for you....trust your intuition. And always remember.....it is only a "first world problem".......we are always looking for that next great massage......let's all be thankful we are always just musing on this site about who to choose to massage us.....while people in third world countries are looking for where their next meal is coming from....or where they will sleep tonite.....helps keep things in perspective

I hear all your feedback re: masseurs such as Tai that text for more business after they massage you. When a masseur texts me after a massage, whether it is subtle such as " great meeting you! When you are ready again let me know!" Or more direct such as "So when can I massage you again?" In either case I text the masseur back right away and tell them " Do not contact me in the future, I will contact you. I need to be discreet, In a relationship" This stops it right away. I never hear from them again. You gotta stop them right away, or else they will continue. Be direct!

I hear all your feedback re: masseurs such as Tai that text for more business after they massage you. When a masseur texts me after a massage, whether it is subtle such as " great meeting you! When you are ready again let me know!" Or more direct such as "So when can I massage you again?" In either case I text the masseur back right away and tell them " Do not contact me in the future, I will contact you. I need to be discreet, In a relationship" This stops it right away. I never hear from them again. You gotta stop them right away, or else they will continue. Be direct!

NJmusclelover, Kenny is so lucky to have you as a client and a friend. You are such a great advocate for him. I have never seen a client promote his masseur so much in a forum thread. It is awesome that you to hit it off so well. As clients we should all be so lucky to click with our masseurs like you have with Kenny.. And for masseurs, they all should be so lucky to have an advocate such as yourself. So glad you found each other. Looks like you found a "keeper." Wishing you both many years of awesome massage sessions

NJmusclelover, Kenny is so lucky to have you as a client and a friend. You are such a great advocate for him. I have never seen a client promote his masseur so much in a forum thread. It is awesome that you to hit it off so well. As clients we should all be so lucky to click with our masseurs like you have with Kenny.. And for masseurs, they all should be so lucky to have an advocate such as yourself. So glad you found each other. Looks like you found a "keeper." Wishing you both many years of awesome massage sessions

Capitano, I have read things all over the place re: what people are willing to pay for basically a non-erotic massage on this forum. I am exactly like yourself. I find pricing of $150/hr for just a massage insane. I feel if someone is pricing in the $120-$160 range they should be offering nude massage with HE. No finger painting massage, with underwear on, and no HE for $120-$160, that is crazy and does not work for me. But I have seen many comments in this forum from people who are just happy to be around a hot guy, and will pay this price for a non-erotic massage if the guy is incredibly hot. ( even if the masseur claims to be straight, which maybe turns the client on more being massaged by a straight guy) So we all get to choose our turn ons when it comes to massage, and we all get to choose how much we will pay. I, like yourself, Capitano, would never choose this type of massage at this price. Way to expensive for getting back so little.

I am sure she does not care. Just do the math. He is in high demand, so with 4 clients a day at $150/hr that is $600/day. Even in a 5 day week that is $3,000 =$156,000 a year. Probably all cash. And working 4 hrs a day is a part time job. So $156,000 a year in cash for a part time job is something I am sure she can live with!

Did notice his Rentmasseur profile has 6 reviews.....all spaced VERY close together...all posted right after he signed up on the site....11/7....11/13.....and then TWO on the same day no less!....11/16 AND 11/16......11/17.....11/18.....wow! a quick flurry of reviews......none posted before or since.....isn't that kind of a red flag?

If he ever visits my city I will take a pass. From what I understand from reading the comments all he provides for $160/hr is a massage....no HE or anything else. Amazing! What's the point then? But the deal breaker for me was when I read his reviews on his Masseurfinder ad......all spaced neatly a few days apart (?).......no one gets reviews posted every few days......unless the masseur is posting them. So it appears Dave writes his own reviews. I guess when you charge $160/hr for virtually nothing no one else will write a review, so you have to write your own.......so obvious.....wow, are those reviews posted close together......August 13th.....August 14th.....and TWO on the same day no less! (August 16th, 2016).......huge red flag.