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58 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

is this about the specific dancers, or more about the experience in general ?

i used to love Spunk & Fairytale (Fairytale before Adonis) for years before pre-Covid.  Went regularly and had great times.  Then it got boring & predictable - the faces changed, but essentially the same game: get your money with no actual sex. 

I’d still go on occasion to people watch a bit - but not expecting anything else. 

For the most part Fairytale was Adonis pre-Covid

You can try Spunk at the Monster Thursday night 

It’s not in Paddles. Venue is near Times Square.

2 hours ago, 12is12 said:

Please LostUpstate, 

I've failed in my previous attempts to undrstnd what actually goes on in BB meetings. 

Could u please elaborate here or in a PM.

Thx (-:

You make a buddy, you blow him or viceversa. 
 

Can we see a draft first?

jk don’t do it 

19 hours ago, dan631 said:

I’ve been to Adonis, and I can’t say I enjoyed myself. The guys dancing didn’t look like they were having fun. Definitely good-looking guys, everyone is fit, but for me if a guy doesn’t seem like he’s enjoying himself, it’s a total mood killer.  I don’t think I’ll be back. The owner is nice though. 

Hmm they usually light up when they see me. 
Maybe Coolwave is standing behind me. 

Yes, it’s a not a set rate. I’m thinking 70ish is the new 50.

Lol yes, indeed. 

I’ve been on a Spanish tour and finally got to Thermas. It is indeed €21 entry. €50 for fun is rare now lol, seems to be what you get from your provider. I went on a late Friday afternoon and it was a decent amount of providers but most of them were latin Twinkish. A few muscle guys around but they look annoyed. I found a muscle Brazilian guy with a nice personality and we had fun. I also haaaate that they serve food in Thermas, I don’t get the point. 
 

It’s 10 dollars 

Criticism is not really against Tim, but management of these bars. Evolve was kept somehow alive thanks to Adonis but the place itself never really cared to make any improvements. That being said, it really depends on the customers. Nude parties have generally good crowds but the go go events can be very hit and miss nowadays.  
Fairytail got really crowded on weekends when Adonis was there pre-COVID. Owner wanted more of that money and kicked Tim and Spunk out ( which makes this Fairytail comeback kind of odd).

Evolve was good space but management was terrible. 

Adonis was there for a few years pre-COVID and it’s never changed. I thought Phoenix was a great venue but there were no customers unfortunately. 

1 hour ago, tsgarp said:

Does anyone else feel it's just a sub-par venue?

It’s always been. I think they were actually going for that lol

His non stop tantrums make him look 12. 

4 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

We met up at 10:00 in my hotel lobby. When he saw me, he gave me a look. I smiled and said let’s try this one more time. We went up to the room and I told him I’d give him $1,000 an hour for a sober BFE in NYC the way he would spend the night with a guy he was into. I told him the one condition was no alcohol, vape, or drugs.

He made it to the 4 hour mark. The company was really good and I enjoyed hearing more about his story and how he wound up in NYC. 

We made it back to the hotel.  The company was really really good he brought his A game. The sex was mediocre, but at least I got what I had wanted. 

Good company and mediocre sex. BFE at its finest  . 

No

It’s definitely a good sign that you blew more cash than expected  

Ah, damn. I’m most likely going to miss the nude party. Can’t wait for the full report and PCow full house reply. 

1 hour ago, purplekow said:

Well either that was a compliment, and I thank you.  Or it was a slap in which case I would suggest this is more a dysfunctional family and if we don't call people out on their stuff, who will?

It wasn’t a compliment. I also don’t think giving a sarcastic retelling of the events helps Coolwave in any sense. I also don’t know if it helps calling him foolish, insecure or cheap. Then again I guess posting the whole experience leave you vulnerable to criticism. 

35 minutes ago, purplekow said:

Frankly, I think my fellow forum members have been extremely delicate with you.  You agreed to meet a guy with whom you have had previous issues.  You buy him clothes because you think he is handsome.  You believe that some new duds are just what he needs to make this a perfect evening for you.  He spins and twirls in his new clothes and you break out the credit card.   Now dressed appropriately to go to a "dive bar", you are surprised that he selects out the only black TV reality celebrity there to hook him up with cocaine.  The reality star, then warns you against guys like this and their penchant to be users, and then suddenly Mr. Survivor has a sufficient supply of cocaine to satisfy your guests desire.  A quick trip home leads to more shopping, this time for men for a party.  Once you have selected out your guests, you add another less attractive guest so you will not feel out of place with all the pretty people.  Problem is, your "normal" friend is a closeted party freak and gets all into the well of cocaine and associated alcohol and of course the pretty boys.  The house starts to get a bit rambunctious.  That comes as a surprise to you despite inviting a large number of men you do not know to your home at 11:45 PM to have a party.  Your boorish friend/fb and your initial guest make the party a fiasco and people start to leave.  One can only wonder what they had to do bad enough to frighten off people who had come out to party at a stranger's house and who had arrived and what sounds to be an opulent house filled with hot men and drugs.  Even though your party is quickly failing, you, ever the good host, wish the guests well as they leave, presumably with a nice parting gift, or perhaps not.  You then lock yourself in your bedroom breathing heavily as the remnants of the party slowly crumble until there is one, guest left, drunk drugged out and in a new set of clothing, who decides he wants to cuddle.  Petulantly, you refuse and he begs.  That I would guess is when you really start to get off on all of this.  He heads to the guest bedroom and stays there.  Surprisingly, you stay in your room rather than forgivingly cuddling him through his drug and alcohol fueled night sweats, and in the morning, you are surprised the hung over guest is sleeping late and confused about the events of the night before.  Fortunately you are saved by an unexpected call from yet another acquaintance. 

Your question is then, how much did the first guest deserve to be paid for all of this.   

In a later post, you confess to realizing that you could have stopped this at any point but choose not to do so because, hey he looks so cute in those new clothes and you want him to like you as much as the Academy likes Sally Field.  That would be "Really like,...  Really really like".  

What strikes me as the most interesting touches to all this are the responses to your post.  One response from someone who can only see potential in this man, suggests you mentor this young man.  I am not sure what you would be mentoring him about but the preposterousness of that suggestion is surpassed by your response which states that you have no need to mentor this young man as you already have two other young men you are paying a total of $300000 a year to work on investments and real estate development.  Perhaps these gentlemen are a wise investment but the way you phrased it, it left me wondering.  

In conclusion, you give him $300 and thank him for playing your game.  He gets to keep the wardrobe and presumably the cocaine hook up with the realty star.  After all this, frankly, to me you come off as foolish, insecure and surprisingly cheap.  I would agree with you, it was not your finest moment.  Learn something from this and be better.  It seems you have the skills to make an opulent life, use them to make it one in which you are not lying face down on a bed wearing a poodle skirt and alternately beating your legs into the mattress like Gidget..  

 

Yes, this is a community. 

On 3/17/2023 at 8:49 AM, Pensant said:

Viva España!

None of these guys seem to be from Spain

On 7/15/2023 at 4:17 PM, jeezifonly said:

 I also think greed at the top will only increase, and production will move offshore as much as possible. 

Yeah,  I agree with this. They’re already greedy enough without AI in full potential. Some of the residuals actors get from streaming are laughable. 

Too much whine and not enough wine it seems  

I find the scorpion outfit pretty hot lol. 
 

I’m confused about the direct and efficient thing. Is it a bad thing ?