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    + pitman reacted to Rod Hagen in Something in NYC smells Ripe   
    If there were no women, sign me up.
    https://www.nytimes.com/2022/02/09/style/this-party-stinks-thats-the-point.html?referringSource=articleShare
     
     
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    + pitman got a reaction from + nycman in Ice Fishing?   
    Can anyone recommend a provider who is into ice fishing?  Better yet one who can build an ice shanty.
    https://www.cleveland19.com/2022/02/09/hudson-mayor-suggests-that-ice-fishing-could-lead-prostitution/
     
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    + pitman reacted to BeamerBikes in Ice Fishing?   
    Midwest reaction. I won't give away the punchline.   https://twitter.com/CharlieBerens/status/1491553404170166272
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    + pitman got a reaction from claym in Ice Fishing?   
    Can anyone recommend a provider who is into ice fishing?  Better yet one who can build an ice shanty.
    https://www.cleveland19.com/2022/02/09/hudson-mayor-suggests-that-ice-fishing-could-lead-prostitution/
     
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    + pitman got a reaction from rvwnsd in Ice Fishing?   
    Can anyone recommend a provider who is into ice fishing?  Better yet one who can build an ice shanty.
    https://www.cleveland19.com/2022/02/09/hudson-mayor-suggests-that-ice-fishing-could-lead-prostitution/
     
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    + pitman got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Ice Fishing?   
    Can anyone recommend a provider who is into ice fishing?  Better yet one who can build an ice shanty.
    https://www.cleveland19.com/2022/02/09/hudson-mayor-suggests-that-ice-fishing-could-lead-prostitution/
     
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    + pitman got a reaction from HoseMaster in Ice Fishing?   
    Can anyone recommend a provider who is into ice fishing?  Better yet one who can build an ice shanty.
    https://www.cleveland19.com/2022/02/09/hudson-mayor-suggests-that-ice-fishing-could-lead-prostitution/
     
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    + pitman reacted to xyz48B in Hugh Hefner's Playboy Bunnies' heartbreaking confessions - from abuse to humiliating sex rituals   
    I don’t like gender studies much myself but it seems an abnormal antipathy here among some toward it…Talk about a broken record. 

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    + pitman reacted to xyz48B in Hugh Hefner's Playboy Bunnies' heartbreaking confessions - from abuse to humiliating sex rituals   
    Even still. That doesn’t excuse weird sex rituals, for instance. I believe you can do certain things that bring with them a certain set of expectations. But there are things that can happen that shouldn’t and you shouldn’t accept them, nor should we, if they shouldn’t. To be completely frank, I thought Hefner was better than that, but because it’s a sex house, I’m not surprised it happened. Precisely because I did think better of him, I didn’t expect it to happen. When I hear it did, in a place it’s likelier than, say, on the set of The Bachelorette, I believe that it happened until otherwise proven it didn’t. Just because it could happen doesn’t mean we expect it to. Nor does it happening because of a higher likelihood make it something we accept because it could happen. And the fact that centuries of power structures are in place to enable men to do this kind of stuff to women without serious repercussions (i.e. they should just say “no” or leave) also doesn’t excuse it. It only serves to show just how insidiously intracted in our lives this is. The question is whose side you’re going to take – the victim’s or the culprit’s.
    There was a remark above about being a victim. It’s worth noting that no one wants to be a victim and some people will deny a serious problem exists simply to avoid the shame of victimhood. The responses of many a man like “you should’ve said ‘no’ if it was so bad” just highlights the shame that’s attached to being a victim. You don’t want that shame, you don’t want to be the victim of that either, so you keep quiet. Again – a facet of the system to keep itself going. 
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    + pitman reacted to + FreshFluff in Hugh Hefner's Playboy Bunnies' heartbreaking confessions - from abuse to humiliating sex rituals   
    It’s terrible. That’s why Rikers is overrun with preppy white inmates with bogus rape charges. 
     
    Oh wait. 
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    + pitman reacted to xyz48B in Hugh Hefner's Playboy Bunnies' heartbreaking confessions - from abuse to humiliating sex rituals   
    I don’t care if sex is understood. If you say “no” then it’s “no.”
    The victim blaming here is really unsettling. There’s an inherent power imbalance between these women, no matter how un-unprivileged their upbringing, and Hugh Hefner, known round the world as a playboy.
    There’s no misunderstanding about sex when we hire either, but if someone – escort or client – insists on something that makes either party uncomfortable, that’s wrong. Full stop. That’s not a difficult concept.
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    + pitman reacted to xyz48B in Hugh Hefner's Playboy Bunnies' heartbreaking confessions - from abuse to humiliating sex rituals   
    That’s not necessarily the case at all. The assumption that it is drips with misunderstanding of how sexual coercion and abuse work – particularly when the culprit is rich and famous. 
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    + pitman reacted to + IronMaus in Providers - problems with racism?   
    POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
    It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

    White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

    The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".
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    + pitman got a reaction from + E.T.Bass in Has Anyone Here Ever Been Bitten By An Otter?   
    Some very sexy otters have bitten my nipples and I loved it!
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    + pitman reacted to + bigjoey in Porn actors you have fucked   
    Or Joan Crawford😀😀
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    + pitman got a reaction from tennisjock in Nate Grimes "selective clientele"   
    From personal experience I can say he's an excellent top.  I hope his new standard does not mean he will only bottom.
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    + pitman got a reaction from + PapaTony in Nate Grimes "selective clientele"   
    From personal experience I can say he's an excellent top.  I hope his new standard does not mean he will only bottom.
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    + pitman got a reaction from Luv2play in Nate Grimes "selective clientele"   
    From personal experience I can say he's an excellent top.  I hope his new standard does not mean he will only bottom.
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    + pitman reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in 411 HungSchmuck in Boston   
    On the name alone, he gets my approval.
    A general sense of humor is severely lacking in this business.  It's nice to see it with this guy.
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    + pitman reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Nate Grimes "selective clientele"   
    Agreed.
    The true dilapidated assholes in this thread are those who take anonymous cheapshots.
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    + pitman reacted to curiousbynature12 in Nate Grimes "selective clientele"   
    Good for him. Like Sean Zevran, it's good to see submissive bottoms be more explicit about the type of experiences they offer and put limits that will save you time if you do not have compatible interests.
    I happen to appreciate a really nice big ass and a gaped well used hole. If you don't, all the more reason to move on to another escort who's a better fit.
    Besides, it's not as if that's the only way to meet him if you're in LA/WeHo 😈
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    + pitman got a reaction from ketut in WillTantra in LA   
    He was a regular of mine when he lived in San Francisco.  Great guy.  Excellent massages and superhot connected sex.  And he smelled great!
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    + pitman got a reaction from Joeysf in WillTantra in LA   
    He was a regular of mine when he lived in San Francisco.  Great guy.  Excellent massages and superhot connected sex.  And he smelled great!
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    + pitman got a reaction from + Just Sayin in The Power of the Dog   
    I knew very little about this film going in, so the unexpected homoerotic parts and other plot twists were a delightful surprise.  Highly recommended.
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    + pitman got a reaction from + Charlie in Has Anyone Here Ever Been Bitten By An Otter?   
    Some very sexy otters have bitten my nipples and I loved it!
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