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I have never been disappointed at Greenhouse (Tony, Allen, and Owen), with the exception of those face pillows. The massages have always been solid and the provider more than accommodating. The pillows on the other need to be cleaned and have washable covers added.

I have never been disappointed at Greenhouse (Tony, Allen, and Owen), with the exception of those face pillows. The massages have always been solid and the provider more than accommodating. The pillows on the other need to be cleaned and have washable covers added.

LMGTFY -- ymmv

That was my experience as well and I had verified the availability of MT and HE before hand.

Many escorts are young, and somewhat naive, or flat out don’t care about being exploited for the almighty dollar.
 
Approach a regular, intelligent, black gay man in a social situation and refer to him as a “mandingo”, and the response you’ll get may not be too pleasant.

Well the comparable relationship that a white man has to a black man is that of a cuckold.
 
Have you ever seen those porn flicks where a big dicked black man, fucks a white woman who is married, but her small endowed white, effeminate husband can’t satisfy her? Well that’s the “mandingo-cuckold” stereotype.
 
I’ll also add a little bit more trivia to, concerning the marginalization of the black man and the big black dick.
 
Centuries ago, european scientists equates penis size with one’s level within the hierarchy of human civilization, and European men with smaller penises were consideeed the ideal. A black man’s big black penis was poked fun of and used as scientific “proof” that he is primitive, and sub-human.
 
The fetishizing of black men dates farther than you realize

“Thanks for that black lives matter 101”, was the specific quote of passive-aggressive, dismissive sarcasm.
 
1.) blacklivesmatter wasn’t referenced here at all. There was no need for him to reference it here.
 
2.) other posters explained to this dude why the term “Mandingo”, is a negative term used to describe black men, and he, in turn, responded by using another point of reference that’s a sensitive issue to many black people as well.
 
It was purposefully sarcastic, and to say that you didn’t see any sarcasm in it, is yet another form of flippant behavior and the nonchalant mindset that’s so offensive to others.

Tried Daniel at Greenhouse today, all of my favs were taken. He’s been there about 3 months. Asian, young, cute, 5’7ish, not twink, but slender/strong. Great combo thera-sensual session. The new and interesting part was at the beginning which he referred to as the “relax your body” part. Climbs on the table, sits right on me, and glides himself up and down the length of my body. Kept asking if too strong. Almost yes, but it was great. Different than having your back walked on. Would have been even better had he been nude, but alas no. Will repeat.

I totally agree with you and Spursy. I had
a Mindblowing massage at TSMS with Adam.
He cracked every bone in my body and always checking to see if I am fine. After a Stressful
Working Week I feel totally relaxed and Stress free and a happy Camper. Ready for my weekend. Thank you guys for your recommendation.

Ian visiting NYC from Hawaii is probably the most technically excellent massage I've ever had anywhere. He's also an exceptionally nice guy.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/29960/
 

Ian is a gem! Don't wait to book him for a session. A lovely man and an excellent massage!
https://rentmasseur.com/AussieHotHands

Ian is a gem! Don't wait to book him for a session. A lovely man and an excellent massage!
https://rentmasseur.com/AussieHotHands

Just saw Pasha again and man he’s good.

Hahahahahaha!!!! loved it!

Bencleve29, my experience with Danny was definitely a "bust" too and not in the good sense of the word.

I think you just answered your own question. To quote you: " The obvious problem is jealousy. Giving erotic massages to other men. Not a fan of open relationships." Well, if he is giving erotic massages to other men, you ARE in an open relationship. It's your decision whether to stay or not, but from what you said , it does not sound like he's a good fit for you.

Stories like this (from grown men) really baffle me considering the resources available and the money being poured into sexual health campaigns about PEP and PrEP. If you’re an adult and not well versed on the risk surrounding a “slip up,” you shouldn’t be (excuse my language) fucking at all.
 
While I realize your situation is different..there’s nothing I detest more than reckless clients who reach out requesting BB and inquiring if I’m on PrEp, only to find out upon further investigation that they are not on PrEp themselves. Don’t panic after playing Russian Roulette. You were not held against your will. Clients should be held to the same gold standard of sexual health as providers.

As a total bottom (and trying to own it lol), I actually prefer that masseurs don’t actually stick their finger in my hole. First of all, a lot of guys’ fingers don’t feel that good to me because they are bony and/or have nails that I can feel. Sometimes it does feel good but I guess I really have to be into it.
 
Secondly, for me, massages are a time when I can let go and actually get pampered/worked on myself without having to reciprocate. If I had to think about douching etc then that puts me in a different mindset. But I usually shower and stick a finger in there just in case ?‍♂️

Call me a sceptic, but this sounds a little over the top...

Providing a link to the masseurs MF or RM profile wouldn’t be considered a review.....

Not sure how this thread turned into an evaluation of bigdale or whomever but let’s get back on track or close the thread. Personally I couldn’t care less about him.

If you want young, hard model worthy body, good looking, you make an appointment with Jorge at Shangrila Spa. You will not be disappointed especially if you like a hard message. Jorge is from Columbia. His English is limited so there wasn't much conversation during the message but it didn't matter to me.

Darnit. I emailed him for a pic, but he didn't send it to me.

Picture it....Christopher Street, West Village, NYC. 1994.
 
21 year old me, and new to the "big gay city."
 
One evening, while getting my hair cut, I noticed the salon also offered massage. I decided to give it a try and scheduled an appointment for the following weekend afternoon. I think it was a Sunday. I arrived and was introduced to my therapist. I wish I could remember his name, but OH MY GOD was he handsome! Tall. Athletically muscular. From Central America somewhere, Belize I think?
 
The room was small, and in the basement. Lit only by candlelight. I removed my clothes and covered myself with a towel. I distinctly remembering it being a dark green. The massage was great; I had experienced one or two professional ones before, spa-quality and completely nonsexual atmospheres, etc. With this one I got aroused and quite hard during some work on my butt and inner thigh, but rolled over at the appropriate time. The masseur re-adjusted my towel and the massage continued. My erection subsided completely until he began to massage my abs. In a circular motion, small circles and then larger. Going as low on my body as he could, until my erection got in the way. Then he would work around my cock. He bent down and whispered in my ear, "Just breathe, and let go." I was in ecstasy. I could feel an orgasm building. He spent a good 5-6 minutes just on my abs, varying the pressure, touch, and speed of motion, and eliciting various moans from me.
 
And he got me off, without ever touching my cock.
 
Every time the same ending, every massage, over the course of a few years.
 
No one has been able to replicate his touch. Not professionals, not amateurs, not partners.
 
As far as I am concerned, that man's touch was magic.
 
And I'm very sorry I lost track of him.

Not mine, but I saw this on Reddit a while back and thought it was pretty hot: [MEDIA=reddit]gaystoriesgonewild/comments/95hx6m[/MEDIA]