ScavengerHunt

Why the racism? Please don't. 

You need to keep my handle out of your posts. We already litigated this over a year ago. As the screenshots you shared upthread prove, it had nothing to do with you having a different price for couples. It was your insistence that it be you and your friend. You never offered to meet with the two of us. Rather, when you asked if us having to include your friend was a dealbreaker, we said it was. And then you decided not to see us because we were not interested in your friend. No one said you flaked or ghosted. Instead, we wanted to hire you. Your insistence that your friend be included - and that we pay him - was brought up the day we were supposed to meet. 
The whole point of this forum is to share information about experiences with providers. I shared my experience, which was similar to that of at least two other clients. So, yeah, clients should know that you have a history of wanting to include your friend in appointments. If that's how you want to work, just be upfront about it. Put it in your ad. No one would object to that. 

AxelZar quoted 500. Nice is my top requirement but that is pretty steep. 

Slightly off putting interaction: I requested to see his RM private pics to help decide if I was interested in him - but his response was “looking in NYC today?” I said I was looking for later in the week. He said he was leaving town Wednesday and refused to share the pics then stopped responding. Had he asked, he would’ve found out that I was looking to book him for 3 hours and could’ve made Tuesday work. I will avoid based on that as it seems to align with the arrogance mentioned in other threads about him.

Many of us can live in the present and still remember the recent past. It's a very helpful skill that provides context for life and helps you make decisions.
Those of us who knew Ben can remember him and give him credit for making 27 a really well run spa. It's reasonable to comment on the fact that customer service has declined since Ben's untimely death. 
Why would anyone feel the need to register a snaky remark in this scenario?. 

I’m confused by these last 2 comments about “slander” and “lies.” What is that a reaction to? The word “escort?” This is a sex positive venue and not one where we shame “escorts” whether or not this particular person “worked” as one or not. These reactions are over the top.

If you’re in NYC - I suggest reaching out to Chris Harder. He used to teach and might still. If not he’d surely give you a good rec.
And I don’t understanding shaming people for asking questions more than once. Not everyone is monitoring these boards every minute of the day so often times posts go unnoticed by the people who can help. 
https://www.instagram.com/thechrisharder/

I had a very similar experience. I tried to reschedule after HE canceled for some emergency. When I reached back out, he said something like “well now you want an appointment, I thought you lost interest”.  He had canceled on me!  
Anyway, maybe these guys get a lot of annoying messages, but a way to avoid so many inquires and messages that lead to nothing: Publish your rates. This should not be a guessing game! And tell us where you are located because that can make all the difference in whether I wish or have time to come see you. 
Provide customers with basic information in your ad and get fewer pointless inquiries. It’s a win-win for everyone and it’s basic common sense.
What am I missing that makes this more complicated than necessary?  
 

Note to providers: If you keep your rates reasonable the tips and return visits will provide more income. Some of the best experiences I have had have been in the 150-180 range and continue to be. I stay away from guys who charge 250 and list no experience. If I wanted a hot guy to play with I would hire an escort. 

I don’t usually like to share convoluted stories like this because they’re often easy to take out of context, but...
He found me on Sniffies and said “I saw you looking at me on RM.” When I told him I didn’t remember him but that I sometimes use RM for casting (I produce for a top adult content site) so maybe I clicked on him while doing my regular search of newbies, he said something like “Well I’m not interested in being casted (sic) because I don’t like to put my face out there.” I explained that - as I hadn’t contacted him after seeing his profile, I had no interest in casting him. Then he blocked me.
So possibly arrogant just from his presumption that, from a series of faceless photos, I’d be interested in offering him work with a worldwide brand. Also odd that someone who claims to be a PHD student and fine dining sommelier doesn’t know the proper tense of “cast."

I don’t usually like to share convoluted stories like this because they’re often easy to take out of context, but...
He found me on Sniffies and said “I saw you looking at me on RM.” When I told him I didn’t remember him but that I sometimes use RM for casting (I produce for a top adult content site) so maybe I clicked on him while doing my regular search of newbies, he said something like “Well I’m not interested in being casted (sic) because I don’t like to put my face out there.” I explained that - as I hadn’t contacted him after seeing his profile, I had no interest in casting him. Then he blocked me.
So possibly arrogant just from his presumption that, from a series of faceless photos, I’d be interested in offering him work with a worldwide brand. Also odd that someone who claims to be a PHD student and fine dining sommelier doesn’t know the proper tense of “cast."

I don’t usually like to share convoluted stories like this because they’re often easy to take out of context, but...
He found me on Sniffies and said “I saw you looking at me on RM.” When I told him I didn’t remember him but that I sometimes use RM for casting (I produce for a top adult content site) so maybe I clicked on him while doing my regular search of newbies, he said something like “Well I’m not interested in being casted (sic) because I don’t like to put my face out there.” I explained that - as I hadn’t contacted him after seeing his profile, I had no interest in casting him. Then he blocked me.
So possibly arrogant just from his presumption that, from a series of faceless photos, I’d be interested in offering him work with a worldwide brand. Also odd that someone who claims to be a PHD student and fine dining sommelier doesn’t know the proper tense of “cast."

I don’t usually like to share convoluted stories like this because they’re often easy to take out of context, but...
He found me on Sniffies and said “I saw you looking at me on RM.” When I told him I didn’t remember him but that I sometimes use RM for casting (I produce for a top adult content site) so maybe I clicked on him while doing my regular search of newbies, he said something like “Well I’m not interested in being casted (sic) because I don’t like to put my face out there.” I explained that - as I hadn’t contacted him after seeing his profile, I had no interest in casting him. Then he blocked me.
So possibly arrogant just from his presumption that, from a series of faceless photos, I’d be interested in offering him work with a worldwide brand. Also odd that someone who claims to be a PHD student and fine dining sommelier doesn’t know the proper tense of “cast."

I don’t usually like to share convoluted stories like this because they’re often easy to take out of context, but...
He found me on Sniffies and said “I saw you looking at me on RM.” When I told him I didn’t remember him but that I sometimes use RM for casting (I produce for a top adult content site) so maybe I clicked on him while doing my regular search of newbies, he said something like “Well I’m not interested in being casted (sic) because I don’t like to put my face out there.” I explained that - as I hadn’t contacted him after seeing his profile, I had no interest in casting him. Then he blocked me.
So possibly arrogant just from his presumption that, from a series of faceless photos, I’d be interested in offering him work with a worldwide brand. Also odd that someone who claims to be a PHD student and fine dining sommelier doesn’t know the proper tense of “cast."

my advice was sincere - good luck finding a provider based in NYC who has a rate lower than 300.   If 300 is out of your budget, you will have to find other hobbies.  Where is the lie or arrogance there?
I'd do a lot more things before I would take advice from someone like YOU who posts photos of discreet providers faces on the forums outing them like you do. 

We don't need to make arrogant replies to our fellow forum members. There are ways to tell somebody to go to hell and they'd be glad to do it!  

Slightly off putting interaction: I requested to see his RM private pics to help decide if I was interested in him - but his response was “looking in NYC today?” I said I was looking for later in the week. He said he was leaving town Wednesday and refused to share the pics then stopped responding. Had he asked, he would’ve found out that I was looking to book him for 3 hours and could’ve made Tuesday work. I will avoid based on that as it seems to align with the arrogance mentioned in other threads about him.

Slightly off putting interaction: I requested to see his RM private pics to help decide if I was interested in him - but his response was “looking in NYC today?” I said I was looking for later in the week. He said he was leaving town Wednesday and refused to share the pics then stopped responding. Had he asked, he would’ve found out that I was looking to book him for 3 hours and could’ve made Tuesday work. I will avoid based on that as it seems to align with the arrogance mentioned in other threads about him.

Looking for a guy in NYC with large nipples, sensitive a plus. Ideally they’re also a little hairy, bottom leaning, thick pecs, willing to massage. Thanks!

Ok so took the plunge. Glad some of you had a good experience. Me, not so much. Asked for a combo session - some deep tissue massage then more. He seemed eager and was available on short notice. 
As soon as he arrived I realized he couldn’t understand much of what I was saying but I had communicated my wishes via text which I assume he translated. There wasn't much pressure or technique for the 7 minutes of massage before he moved onto the “more” portion which was not what I asked for. Still, he was friendly and pleasant so I tried to make the most of it - until he tried to upsell me - twice. First with a “trio” with his friend who drove him who was apparently waiting in the car - then with a menu item I hadn’t ordered. Both at more than double what we agreed on. All done in his broken English/ my broken Spanish and with the help a translation app on his phone. Anyway - when it all ended and he was packing up I realized he’d been there far less than 1 hour. Maybe he’s a YMMV type - but I’d not repeat or recommend. (For reference, I’m 40s, thin/ average body, have always been told I’m handsome/ attractive and larger than average endowment.)

Ok so took the plunge. Glad some of you had a good experience. Me, not so much. Asked for a combo session - some deep tissue massage then more. He seemed eager and was available on short notice. 
As soon as he arrived I realized he couldn’t understand much of what I was saying but I had communicated my wishes via text which I assume he translated. There wasn't much pressure or technique for the 7 minutes of massage before he moved onto the “more” portion which was not what I asked for. Still, he was friendly and pleasant so I tried to make the most of it - until he tried to upsell me - twice. First with a “trio” with his friend who drove him who was apparently waiting in the car - then with a menu item I hadn’t ordered. Both at more than double what we agreed on. All done in his broken English/ my broken Spanish and with the help a translation app on his phone. Anyway - when it all ended and he was packing up I realized he’d been there far less than 1 hour. Maybe he’s a YMMV type - but I’d not repeat or recommend. (For reference, I’m 40s, thin/ average body, have always been told I’m handsome/ attractive and larger than average endowment.)

Ok so took the plunge. Glad some of you had a good experience. Me, not so much. Asked for a combo session - some deep tissue massage then more. He seemed eager and was available on short notice. 
As soon as he arrived I realized he couldn’t understand much of what I was saying but I had communicated my wishes via text which I assume he translated. There wasn't much pressure or technique for the 7 minutes of massage before he moved onto the “more” portion which was not what I asked for. Still, he was friendly and pleasant so I tried to make the most of it - until he tried to upsell me - twice. First with a “trio” with his friend who drove him who was apparently waiting in the car - then with a menu item I hadn’t ordered. Both at more than double what we agreed on. All done in his broken English/ my broken Spanish and with the help a translation app on his phone. Anyway - when it all ended and he was packing up I realized he’d been there far less than 1 hour. Maybe he’s a YMMV type - but I’d not repeat or recommend. (For reference, I’m 40s, thin/ average body, have always been told I’m handsome/ attractive and larger than average endowment.)

Ok so took the plunge. Glad some of you had a good experience. Me, not so much. Asked for a combo session - some deep tissue massage then more. He seemed eager and was available on short notice. 
As soon as he arrived I realized he couldn’t understand much of what I was saying but I had communicated my wishes via text which I assume he translated. There wasn't much pressure or technique for the 7 minutes of massage before he moved onto the “more” portion which was not what I asked for. Still, he was friendly and pleasant so I tried to make the most of it - until he tried to upsell me - twice. First with a “trio” with his friend who drove him who was apparently waiting in the car - then with a menu item I hadn’t ordered. Both at more than double what we agreed on. All done in his broken English/ my broken Spanish and with the help a translation app on his phone. Anyway - when it all ended and he was packing up I realized he’d been there far less than 1 hour. Maybe he’s a YMMV type - but I’d not repeat or recommend. (For reference, I’m 40s, thin/ average body, have always been told I’m handsome/ attractive and larger than average endowment.)

Ok so took the plunge. Glad some of you had a good experience. Me, not so much. Asked for a combo session - some deep tissue massage then more. He seemed eager and was available on short notice. 
As soon as he arrived I realized he couldn’t understand much of what I was saying but I had communicated my wishes via text which I assume he translated. There wasn't much pressure or technique for the 7 minutes of massage before he moved onto the “more” portion which was not what I asked for. Still, he was friendly and pleasant so I tried to make the most of it - until he tried to upsell me - twice. First with a “trio” with his friend who drove him who was apparently waiting in the car - then with a menu item I hadn’t ordered. Both at more than double what we agreed on. All done in his broken English/ my broken Spanish and with the help a translation app on his phone. Anyway - when it all ended and he was packing up I realized he’d been there far less than 1 hour. Maybe he’s a YMMV type - but I’d not repeat or recommend. (For reference, I’m 40s, thin/ average body, have always been told I’m handsome/ attractive and larger than average endowment.)

I saw him about a month ago. Nice guy... Pretty good massage... good HE... looks exactly like his pictures. He's in LA about once a month - I think he does Airbnb when he's in town. Communication wasn't too good, but that's because his English isn't great - he speaks Spanish. Would definitely repeat.