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harey

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  1. Greetings providers. So, how often do you get STD testing done? When I used to hire more frequently, I would get a general screening a couple times per year. And have your clinic or doctor visits been harder to arrange during the pandemic? So much of normal life has been altered, even checking one’s dipstick.

     

    This has probably been asked before but searching was a challenge. “STD” is too short, and “testing” brought back a bunch of COVID posts. ?

  2. I know. I haven’t updated my profile on RM for some time so now it shows I’m younger by a couple of years. I’m not in any hurry to update it especially since the last escort I saw a month ago said I looked a lot younger than my age (he quoted the outdated age he had seen). Lol.

    Same. Here I am with a regular provider. We’re both about 30. ;)

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  3. Anyone else seen escorts in their neighborhood? Maybe because I live in Denver's main gayborhood, I actually have seen several. Interestingly, I just saw one guy show up on the Nextdoor for my neighborhood using one of the same pictures he uses on Rent.men. I also consistently see some on Grindr/Scruff and have run into some at gay bars and even the grocery store in the past.

     

    Just curious if others have friendly neighborhood escorts?

    That was common when I used to live in West Hollywood. I suppose it would be more likely everywhere now that so many people are doing online porn.

  4. Hi. First post here. I put a question mark on the title because I’m not sure if I’ve seen him elsewhere with a different name?

     

    He’s on Massage (not masseur) Finder website now, but I thought I saw this guy on a different ad/site before. Hoping I’m wrong and he’s legit. 411?

     

    https://www.massagefinder.com/massage-therapists/36474/

    Welcome to the forum!

    I don’t recognize but hope he’s real. You might try searching for “Patrick” if that shows some useful info. I gave up after the Patrick Stewart posts.

  5. The question posed in this thread was about the morality of hiring, not the morality of hirers or escorts. Don't confuse the morality of the particular examples you cite with the morality of hiring per se. There are banking and finance practices that are immoral, but that does not make banking and finance immoral industries (although there are perhaps some people who would differ with me on that score).

    I’m not confused. Reread the first and last paragraphs of the OP. It’s a very broad question.

  6. I think there is absolutely nothing wrong or immoral with it. I think as long as its between two grown consenting adults, it's nobody's business but their own.

     

    I actually think since sex is part of what makes a human healthy, it's perfectly natural for companionship and intimacy to be a service just like any other.

     

    I do have to say that I'm speaking of men (hiring and providing) in general here.

     

    I do not believe that the government has any business regulating the private matters between two consenting adults. Period.

     

    As far as morality is concerned... lol. All of our "moral authorities" have proven themselves completely unworthy of being any authority about morality at all. It's a personal matter and we all have our own values.

     

    I'm curious as to what your views are about it. Has anyone dealt with any shame, no matter how small, over the decision to hire or provide and how have you dealt with that?

    Hello and happy new year.

     

    Your post seems to basically equate escorting with casual sex without factoring in the explicitly transactional nature of the exchange and possibly unhealthy motives or risks. Perhaps I missed something.

     

    For example, how would you feel if you were seeing an escort and then realized he hated what he was doing but was desperate for money? Any qualms?

     

    Or if you heard of an emotionally vulnerable client who was desperately lonely and being exploited by a manipulative escort who was bleeding the client dry, and the client was willing to take out loans and risk serious financial damage to have more time with the escort to live out a sad fantasy of real love. Do you see any moral concerns in that situation?

  7. https://rentmen.eu/Italianthickness

     

    Scheduled for an overnight. Lots of texting (and pictures) beforehand. Arrived, took the cash, and ran. Then proceeded to try to extort more cash over text.

     

    Calls himself Dante Toro on his profile, but also said his name is Dylan. Full on scammer.

    Thanks for the warning. Sorry that happened to you. I hope the replies here will give you some insight.

     

    I seldom pay in advance, but sometimes leave money in plain sight. A new provider will see that and be reassured. My regulars know they can take the money without asking when they leave.

     

    A few years ago I met a new escort in a hotel in the winter. He picked up the cash from the dresser when arriving, and I decided not to say anything. Then a minute later he said he needed to make a phone call, stepped into the hallway, and kept walking. He took my money and never came back.

     

    I texted him to say he was a thief. He told me the money would buy his son a Christmas present and I should feel good about that.

     

    Lesson learned, I was more cautious about first meetings after that experience.

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