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Yes, "sibling discounts" do exist at some schools. I haven't found anyone at USC who says they offer them, but they do offer discounts if a parent works there and we're discussing it since we've decided to stay in Southern California for awhile.

Cheers to you @BasketBaller. We're nearly done with our first through college and our other two have insisted they wish to attend USC like their big brother. I wish we could get a bulk discount.

You're kidding right? Surely you've seen the pics you posted on December 15th? Your body is impressive and worthy of praise.

Rapid rambling is a very common side effect of many different stimulants, like meth, cocaine, or amphetamines. Since I've never met this person, I have no idea if it's drugs or some other issue. There are other neurological issues that can lead to such behavior, such as mania in bipolar disorder.

Yes, @handiacefailure! Sorry! I thought I was replying to @cronin, @BasketBaller, and @escortrod but I accidentally replied to your post. So much failure.

I hate to question your personal experiences but the science is pretty sound on this point: CP has subtle and long-lasting psychological effects. The question is: how much CP has to occur before it causes negative effects. Personally, as parents, we erred on the NO CP side of this debate. Here's a very good article about an influential Canadian study and many other historical studies: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-me-in-we/201202/how-spanking-harms-the-brain http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2002/06/spanking.aspx

Caning is tricky as it is, to continue after bleeding begins to introduce other issues. Only the most experienced Dominants should go there. Lady Hugs wrote a good caning overview that's worth reading if you're into caning a sub or slave. Personally, were I to wish to make a caning session even more painful, I would do some "figging," from English-style canning, during the session to intensify the pain. Lady Hugs' overview discusses it near the end. Also, I refer you to Peter Masters' very informative and useful BDSM site for more info. https://www.peter-masters.com/wiki/index.php/BDSM_health,_safety,_and_risks

Don't worry about appearances. You're clearly a tasteful slut!

Awesome thread! This takes me back to the first time I realized I was into guys, reminds me of some wacky times playing football, and crazy frat parties. Men and Beer go well together.

Lucky you! I have a list too, but TIME is my nemesis. Enjoy!

That reply would turn me off because of the horrific grammar. Yes, I'm weird.

When we parted ways he was an excellent cocksucker, at least for me, but the last I heard, he still had a gag reflex that triggered a violent response.

He's in NYC now, so maybe update the thread title to reflect his current name and location? Adam MagicMasseur in NYC. His pics look promising, though kind of like a guy with a trust fund or a wealthy daddy.

Yes, it can be a distraction for me, but I'm working on it. For example, around 6 years ago, I ran into a guy who was very curious about sucking cock. I thought he was attractive and I'm a guy who enjoys being someone's first. It plays into some of my kinks. Training him required me to stay very focused and aware of his reactions because he loved to be choked and full of my cock but had an easy gag reflex that rapidly led to vomiting. I had to become very good at reading him responses and keeping him right on the edge. It was fun and definitely helped me improve my ability to remain focused on my sub even while I was taking pleasure.

I'm happy to mix sex with BDSM, even in the "derogatory/humiliation" way so many sometimes seem to want, but I've learned my limits and for me, it's easier to stay focused and aware in a heavy BDSM without the distraction of sex. Sometimes I felt like it compromised my ability to read my sub and gauge when we went too far or did too much.

Keeping underwear and or jeans/shorts on is pretty common in a nonsexual Discipline session. It helps the sub and Dom focus on the Discipline. BDSM can be completely nonsexual in intent and activity. As I said previously, I was the Disciplinarian for my frat and some friends. It was a fun exploratory time for me in college, but it was rare for a spanking session to be anything other than holding them accountable for whatever they did wrong.

@DMICS, I believe your job is clear: take one for the team and report back.

I have no experience with him, but a quick image search finds many of the same pics being used by an escort that was in Australia a month ago, so the story seems internally consistent. http://onlyescorts.com.au/MikeFit And searching on the name finds BP ads that are consistent as well, such as this one: http://brisbane.backpage.com.au/MaleEscorts/you-dont-believe-in-magic-but-you-know-that-im-real/19265550

Yes, is it any surprise that guys who likely workout together eventually talk about how they earn a living? All it takes is one of them to brag about "easy money" and "free" blowjobs and you'll find some guys who are down. As I've discussed in many other threads, the science supports how sexual activity orientation varies from sexual orientation. It's easy to see how some straight guys who want to focus on bodybuilding, modeling, etc. are willing to be worshiped even by other guys so long as the money is good.

Haha! Yes. Just because of this thread, I went into our storage and checked on the boxes of gear I still have from this time in my 20s. I'd forgotten some of the leather restraints I'd bought, but holding the wood paddles felt like slipping on familiar old gloves.

I haven't done any of this in many years, but back in the day, I was old school: my hand, my belt, or my paddle. Being the Disciplinarian in my frat was sometimes very fun!

I look at it as marketing. He's branding himself differently over time or to different website sites to appeal to different clients.

I haven't met him and Google doesn't link to the San Jose BP ad shared above in any way I can find now. Maybe Google messed up earlier? RM Ad: https://rentmen.com/AllAmericanN His BP Ad from May 2016: http://sf.backpage.com/MaleEscorts/clean-cut-jock/35123366 Or at least the BP ad is using pics of a male body that looks nearly identical. And apparently was also posting in San Jose in Feb/Mar: https://www.asexyservice.com/san-jose/classifieds/ad/572a7b580a609S3meFBjSD__s_tBEtOqyLjDe5ja9rnb2wFWc5/ Good luck! The area code is Phoenix AZ, so maybe he relocated to the bay area early this year?

Remember, porn is fantasy. As the disclaimer makes clear, the "nuts n bolts" of a true Discipline scene are critical, but "boring" from a fantasy perspective. https://powerfulpleasures.wordpress.com/for-dominants/punishments/ "Finally, no matter what punishments you have used, do not forget aftercare. A punishment session can be exhausting for the submissive, both physically and emotionally. Thus the same procedures for post-scene aftercare apply for mental punishment sessions as well."

Yes, you can see the Dominant's control. I had one sub who needed over-the-knee bare butt spankings to stay balanced and productive in college. It wasn't sexual. It was pure Discipline. I was responsible for holding him Accountable. We only went to black and blue bruising once. That was the most intense session of my BDSM exploration in my twenties.