inthepit3

https://www.gq.com/story/why-straight-men-are-joining-masturbation-clubs
 
Somehow this both surprises me and doesn't surprise me. But where the hell was this when I was younger and single? College could have been a lot more fun!

thought this thread was going to be about exchanging shoes with an escort as an erotic activity...

thought this thread was going to be about exchanging shoes with an escort as an erotic activity...

Additional fee for kissing??....:oops:
Definitely if I am in FLL I know whom NOT to hire.

The only guy I met before seeing a face pic was YoungmuscleLA, and he turned out to be one of my best hires. If you're super into a guy's body then there's an extra thrill to not knowing what they look like before meeting. I'm up for taking a plunge like that again.

There was a time in LA when you could drive down Santa Monica and feast your eyes on the trade, many of whom were simply stunning, then turn up Laurel Canyon, park in the back and take the staircase down into Numbers, chat up Joe or one of the other great bartenders, catch up on the gossip with or about the management. The clients were often brilliant (on one memorable occasion Ashkenazy was there, to mention just one real star in the firmament) and the boys were ... also brilliant. God I loved it then.

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Kevin Selby:p:p:p:p:p:p

@inthepit3 Use the URL from the place you downloaded the picture... You cannot upload pictures directly to the forum. It's not designed to store kilobytes of pics. Rather uses the URL to display the pictures that are stored somewhere else... Does this help?

My favorite armpit shot:

My favorite armpit shot:

My favorite armpit shot:

It all really depends on what you’re looking for and into and expect from a hire. Not everyone gives oral not everyone expects reciprocation, and not everyone expects penetration. There’s someone for everyone and enough out there not to put down escorts or clients for what their tastes are. I’m on team Dillon btw.

He's sensational. Glad you had a great experience with him as well, I found his side of the events quite convincing.

You can just say/state your preference when you introduce yourself. Something as simple as, “I’m a top.” Most escorts want to know your preferences, but some just want an a simple intro with no overtly explicit talk with someone they haven’t met. So try to keep the language as pg as possible... unless your potential hire indicates otherwise.
 
If you search the forum there are a number of posts about how to introduce yourself to a working guy.
 
Most of all, don’t over think it. It will make you nervous. Happy hunting.

Ask a good mate you trust and smack a good one on them, they’ll tell you. If someone has never told you you’re a phenomenal kisser, you probably are not.
 
Truthfully, I loveee a transparent and honest client. Clients are so afraid to say I’m not good at x, y, z to an escort. You’re not getting paid to be good at anything you do, we are. I would much rather a client say, “how’s my kissing?” Or “how was that?” Or “I’m not sure I’m the best kisser” and I aid you in your “technique” rather than aggressively having my face eaten and being turned off. Really. Speak up.

Right up my alley...

Obviously I don't know the specifics of this party, but unless it's clear that the young men were open to such an approach I think he was out of line. There is nothing wrong with age discordant relationships but objecting to what Spacey did as stigmatising such relationships is an extremely long bow. Going uninvited into a room full of strangers at basically a private party is problematic although not unacceptable. His behaviour there, as described, is to me the use of a power differential (his status, not his age) to pressure young men to give him their phone numbers. He seemed to have one objective, and that was not to socialise in the hope of getting lucky. He's not 'just anyone', he's a celebrity. In that context, predatory and unacceptable as far as I'm concerned.

I get it. What I think is helpful to remember is that this whole escort business thing is difficult for a lot of us to conceptualize and understand in our heads. There's nothing quite like it and nothing similar enough so as to serve as an adequate comparison. Add to that the stigma that surrounds those of us on both sides of the deal and the lack of broad social support for even discussing this topic in healthy ways. Social isolation combined with shame and guilt versus experiences that for many of us are the most intimate, real, and vulnerable times we ever get to have can really fuck with ones mind.
 
Now you get a bunch of us dealing with all of this stuff to some degree or another and put us together on the internet At least we are all still mostly speaking to each other lol

Also - treating sex as pretty much anything other than an explorative conversation about connection and affirmation that we're having using our bodies and psyches is doing ourselves a disservice, in my opinion.