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    Daniel84 got a reaction from Simon Suraci in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I actually deposit all of my money I make into my business accounts and pay taxes. I have tons of write-offs so I don't have to pay that much. I spent on hotels over 25k last year. 
    I also have a Roth IRA and stocks ect. 
    I love Brazil hence why my husband is Brazilian:-)
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + Drew Collins in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I have only been escorting for 2-3 years and I'm living the American dream. I opened a portrait studio, bought a 3b/2.5 bath in Brazil , have a great car and lovely husband. Soon I will stop advertising and only keep select clients and continue with my other business. 
    I see a lot of escort friends that have nothing saved, travel hotel to hotel and just think about today and not tomorrow. 
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + Charlie in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I actually deposit all of my money I make into my business accounts and pay taxes. I have tons of write-offs so I don't have to pay that much. I spent on hotels over 25k last year. 
    I also have a Roth IRA and stocks ect. 
    I love Brazil hence why my husband is Brazilian:-)
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from marylander1940 in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I actually deposit all of my money I make into my business accounts and pay taxes. I have tons of write-offs so I don't have to pay that much. I spent on hotels over 25k last year. 
    I also have a Roth IRA and stocks ect. 
    I love Brazil hence why my husband is Brazilian:-)
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I actually deposit all of my money I make into my business accounts and pay taxes. I have tons of write-offs so I don't have to pay that much. I spent on hotels over 25k last year. 
    I also have a Roth IRA and stocks ect. 
    I love Brazil hence why my husband is Brazilian:-)
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from Luv2play in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I actually deposit all of my money I make into my business accounts and pay taxes. I have tons of write-offs so I don't have to pay that much. I spent on hotels over 25k last year. 
    I also have a Roth IRA and stocks ect. 
    I love Brazil hence why my husband is Brazilian:-)
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I actually deposit all of my money I make into my business accounts and pay taxes. I have tons of write-offs so I don't have to pay that much. I spent on hotels over 25k last year. 
    I also have a Roth IRA and stocks ect. 
    I love Brazil hence why my husband is Brazilian:-)
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + Charlie in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I have only been escorting for 2-3 years and I'm living the American dream. I opened a portrait studio, bought a 3b/2.5 bath in Brazil , have a great car and lovely husband. Soon I will stop advertising and only keep select clients and continue with my other business. 
    I see a lot of escort friends that have nothing saved, travel hotel to hotel and just think about today and not tomorrow. 
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I have only been escorting for 2-3 years and I'm living the American dream. I opened a portrait studio, bought a 3b/2.5 bath in Brazil , have a great car and lovely husband. Soon I will stop advertising and only keep select clients and continue with my other business. 
    I see a lot of escort friends that have nothing saved, travel hotel to hotel and just think about today and not tomorrow. 
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I actually deposit all of my money I make into my business accounts and pay taxes. I have tons of write-offs so I don't have to pay that much. I spent on hotels over 25k last year. 
    I also have a Roth IRA and stocks ect. 
    I love Brazil hence why my husband is Brazilian:-)
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + glycine in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I have only been escorting for 2-3 years and I'm living the American dream. I opened a portrait studio, bought a 3b/2.5 bath in Brazil , have a great car and lovely husband. Soon I will stop advertising and only keep select clients and continue with my other business. 
    I see a lot of escort friends that have nothing saved, travel hotel to hotel and just think about today and not tomorrow. 
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I have only been escorting for 2-3 years and I'm living the American dream. I opened a portrait studio, bought a 3b/2.5 bath in Brazil , have a great car and lovely husband. Soon I will stop advertising and only keep select clients and continue with my other business. 
    I see a lot of escort friends that have nothing saved, travel hotel to hotel and just think about today and not tomorrow. 
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from marylander1940 in Can you achieve the American dream escorting?   
    I have only been escorting for 2-3 years and I'm living the American dream. I opened a portrait studio, bought a 3b/2.5 bath in Brazil , have a great car and lovely husband. Soon I will stop advertising and only keep select clients and continue with my other business. 
    I see a lot of escort friends that have nothing saved, travel hotel to hotel and just think about today and not tomorrow. 
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    Daniel84 reacted to CuriousByNature in Providers, how do you get laid outside of client relationships?   
    If you feel you have a calling for politics or public service, try not to let your past choices determine your future possibilities.  While I imagine the road could be very difficult, if you have the inner strength to navigate the public criticisms and judgements, then I would encourage you to follow your dreams.  And if holding public office does not become a reality, your lived experiences could probably help you become very successful in advocacy work.
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    Daniel84 reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Providers, how do you get laid outside of client relationships?   
    I agree. I think we need sex workers to run for office and win. There are a few who have run. So I wouldn't assume that will prohibit you. It may also depend on where you're planning to run. In NYC it probably won't stop you but in Texas, it would. 
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from Jamie21 in Providers, how do you get laid outside of client relationships?   
    I'm covered in tattoos so no hiding who I am lol
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    Daniel84 reacted to Jamie21 in Providers, how do you get laid outside of client relationships?   
    I don’t show my face on the Onlyfans, which does impact on the number of subscribers but that’s ok, I get plenty of subscribers and the revenue is welcome. I’ve got a back catalogue of over 100 films on there so it’s kind of a passive income to supplement my other work. 
    I’ve never done any drugs, and I don’t see clients who are wanting to use drugs (they can use poppers). 
     
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    Daniel84 reacted to Simon Suraci in Providers, how do you get laid outside of client relationships?   
    My personal sex life is a casualty of being in this biz. It’s one of the tough costs of doing this work that clients fortunately don’t have to think about. The question for me is not how, but if I do it at all.
    Oftentimes I lack desire for sexual intimacy outside work for a number of reasons:
    1) At any given time, I’m emotionally and sexually spent, and can’t do any more if I wanted to. I would have to do double duty work of advocating for my own needs in addition to (yet again) focusing on others’ needs in order attract their interest and commitment to meet. I don’t hire, but I see the appeal. I’d rather have someone focus on my needs and not their own for a change.
    2) Opportunity costs. I’m concerned that wasting my mojo on something unpaid may affect my ability to provide a stellar experience for the next client. That next client may only be willing to request a same day appointment. I have to be ready, or prepared to miss out on that income I need to make my life work.
    3) there’s the psychological mind fuck dynamic of: “I could be getting paid $XXX for this right now and I’m giving it away for free.”  Almost like volunteering your professional skills and time for an uncharitable cause. My personal fulfillment in the experience has to exceed that psychological barrier by so much that I can let it go and actually enjoy myself. That’s a tall order, at least for me.
    4) I have no time, patience, or energy for it. I could spend weeks on apps and never get anywhere. Lots of frogs out there. I know because I use apps for work and man, it’s pretty bleak. What little time left I have outside work is better spent on other things.
    5) Clients are all over the apps. It would be a nightmare trying to manage who’s blocked, who’s a client, who’s a potential client that I just don’t know yet. People know what I do and want to hire me or talk about work on the app, or spend chat time comparing hiring with hookups as if they are exactly the same thing. Boring. Then there’s worrying about presenting yourself the wrong way and losing clients because of it…it’s all just too much to manage. 
    6) STIs. The fewer encounters I have, the less likely I will be to contract or transmit an STI. I constantly consider my clients and want them to feel comfortable that I’m not being unnecessarily reckless. I have way less sex compared to many of my non-provider peers, even though this is my job. My clients, on average, aren’t having that much multiple partner sex either, but it varies. When I’m out of commission due to recovery time from clearing an STI, that’s lost income. So yeah, it’s a cost to consider, and one I want to minimize.
    7) Few people are worth my time.
    😎 I have a partner. His needs come first after work obligations. Recreational activity is necessarily limited to the periods we decide we’re open. So…the preceding points notwithstanding, it ain’t gonna happen when we’re not open anyway!
    9) Considering all the above, the planets will sooner align before I get some off the clock.
    So my answer is: I just don’t. The deck is stacked, at least for me. Then again I’m sure other providers don’t put as much thought into all this as I do, and they’re probably better for it. 
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    Daniel84 reacted to ketut in Boston Massage Therapist   
    https://rentmasseur.com/DannyJay
     
    Danny has been endorsed by members of the forum before.  He's also a member as well @Daniel84  sadly our schedules haven't aligned so I have yet to get on his table
  20. Agree
    Daniel84 reacted to Your Man in Arlington in Why Do Some Providers Avoid RM Messages?   
    As a client, I always switch to text soon after first contact on RM Messages. As a Gen X-er, it's better for me, and I would think better for the provider to communicate that way rather than RM.
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from Your Man in Arlington in Why Do Some Providers Avoid RM Messages?   
    I won't book a outcall unless I have there phone number. I've had on too many occasions I would arrive to the location or the hotel and then the client would block me. 
    Maybe they got cold feet or they already relived themselves and they don't have a basic level of respect. I also require a number as I can protect myself by looking up there number on MrNumber. The amount of time money and patience that app has saved me. 
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from chadLA in 411 on Awesome Brazilian   
    We both will be in Palm springs for pride Nov 2-7th
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from chadLA in 411 on Awesome Brazilian   
    I would love to meet you 🙂
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    Daniel84 reacted to Tblica in 411 on Awesome Brazilian   
    I hired him a while back and would repeat. Hoping to eventually hire him along with partner.
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    Daniel84 got a reaction from chadLA in Recommendations for Boston MA   
    Here is my profile 
     
    The Art of Touch by Danny - massage/bodywork in Everett, MA - masseurfinder
    WWW.MASSEURFINDER.COM  
    DannyJay on RentMasseur
    RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com  
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