peter831

A regular client eats lots of fiber

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

How do they know how many providers you’re reaching out to? That’s an assumption unless it’s said upfront. And then you’re just stupid. No one knows how many people I’m in communication in general let alone about services.

I think that "what are your massage services?" is too vague from a provider prospective. The professional massage therapist is not likely to go into explaining neuromuscular, deep tissue, and swedish techniques. The client would likely receive a response if they say what exactly they are looking for. The therapist can say yes I provide that or no I do not do that. And if the client is actually looking for more of a sensual or nude experience with mutual touch than they should ask for that. A professional therapist is not likely to just offer that from the get-go (even if they are fine with this type of service). They can imply a "yes" I offer that more discreetly if it is brought up by the client.

In a way, I’m glad when they don’t reply. It goes to show how they don’t care about clients.  They’re automatically taken off my list.

as you say you're doing, sending a text seems to be the preferred method these days, so you're good there.....whatever method they request in their profile
there are many varying reasons why you're not getting a good response rate:  the provider is very busy and can't reply to all inquiries, they are only fishing for replies to see if a trip to your city is worth it, they sense something askew in your inquiry and are spooked by it, they think you aren't serious, they prefer a date-and-time request in the first inquiry and aren't in the mood for chitchat.....etc., etc........not all providers are guilty of all of these possibilities, of course, but there are many possible reasons.......
you aren't the first one to lament lack of replies!!!!

 

There are a decent amount of options in Boston, for those who live in Boston - 1 hour South of Boston might as well be Virginia, and at "rush hour" 1 hour might be 3 hours.  You will have enthusiastic responses if you are willing to travel into Boston, you might also consider Providence or Provincetown on Cape Cod (fewer options, but less daunting then driving into Boston).  You may consider taking the train (MBTA) to/from Boston.   There are options on RM to search by towns - try Plymouth or Fall River to see who is located South of Boston.  If you offer to pay for travel time you might have better luck, good luck!

OP said in his question that he wanted to know what orientation would generate interest from the greatest number of clients. OP is having a tough time drumming up business with no kissing, no bottoming, and charging $350/hour.  He wants to know if changing his advertised sexual orientation would attract more customers willing to pay the price for the company he offers.
Consensus on the replies is that changing his advertised orientation to "straight" is likely not the solution.

I have a bit of a fantasy of being with Twins or maybe brothers. 
 
Anyone know of any providers that do this? 

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Not kissing is a deal breaker for me.

Rarely do I tip unless the service is above and beyond. If they charge $200 and expect to receive $250 ($200 + $50 tip) then they should just charge $250. They control their own prices. 

I don’t pay much attention to what guys state as their “orientation” in their profile. What matters to me is their performance in bed which, as I make abundantly clear when setting up a date, involves among other things very very passionate kissing. If they deliver, I will repeat. If they don’t, they are gone. I couldn’t care less with whom they enjoy sex in their private life. 
I have had many absolutely spectacular meetings with boys who, after kissing me hard, rimming me deep, sucking me hungrily, and getting my load up their willing hole, used to take their girlfriend out to dinner with the money I paid them. C’est la vie. 

I'm married, but for me kissing is still a part of  hot🔥hot sex.

I've had providers who listed "Kissing" on their ad. When I contacted them, they said they kissed with their tongue. When we met, they wouldn't.
One kid that happened with, he told me that he "only kisses on a second hire." Cute, but that ensured that I'll never feel his lips.

Or telling him that the session has to end and pay him 1/2 his fee or NOTHING!!

I, too, most definitely "prefer a more interactive experience."  To date when I'm interested in a particular escort, I peruse his "I Am Into's" in his ad.  If his interests are not similar to mine, I pass and go elsewhere.

From what I understand, some potential clients don't even read profiles in detail, so it may not matter whether you omit it from the list of what you do or explicitly state so in your profile text.
Either way, I think it would be helpful for both you and potential clients to confirm you don't kiss in your first reply to an initial inquiry.

I love kissing, and an happy to do it with clients but I agree, many clients don’t want that level of intimacy. They’ll be fine to do everything else but kissing is seen as indicative of some kind of emotional attachment, especially with straight clients. 
If a provider really doesn’t want to kiss ever then I think he should say so in his adverts. If kissing is conditional then that should be discussed with clients if they specifically ask about it. 
However, the most important thing is that if you’re going to kiss…you MUST kiss properly. Kissing is a skill, it’s so much better with a good kisser. 

 

I don't really care. If I find the guy attractive and he is an active participant/seems to be enjoying himself (even if it's only acting)... I'm good.