I'm getting what the problem is for me: I see 21st century dance music and Fuck music as two distinct categories. (and, additionally, I don't like 21st century dance music).
This helps me because now I understand that others (most others?) feel sexually stimulated by the music that makes me run away. Yay thread! If I find some time, I'd love to post my Sex playList, but 1. it probably won't go over well, 2. it'd be way time consuming. But, it would be fun, for me at least, to assemble it.