Rod Hagen

I have a VAST collection of porno films from the 70s. It doesn't creep me, but it does bum me, out when I look up the creators and stars of the films on https://gayeroticvideoindex.com/ and read that they died in the early 90s or late 80s. Stupid fucking disease, all these creative beautiful men, all they wanted was to share their fucking with the world. I'm glad to own a piece of their legacies, but I dearly wish more of these men were here, now, in their 70s and 80s, getting the admiration they deserve.

I read the book, All I remember is very much not liking it, and apparently I disliked it so much I don't remember this, very cool, scenario happening.

Lucky, the original poster, is presumably in his 70s now, or nearly, given his reference points in other posts, so in this case assume we are defining "older" as 65 and up.

Oh, I see the eggs don't go up the ass, they go over the dick. Sounds like something I'm gonna try. Take a look at the links I put in above, especially the last two. I know they are expensive, but they are VERY worth it, and the company is a very good, responsive, company. Enjoy! Here is their Website https://www.wedoltoys.com/collections/male-masturbation?spm=..index.header_1.1

Got it. Thank you. I'm still morbidly curious about the Eggs. :-)

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I was totally unfamiliar with these toys, and the website seems, at first glance, to be a bit coy about how to use the products. So, the cups go over the dick and the eggs go in the ass, is that right? If that's the case, are the cups automated at all, or are they "self" powered, and how do folks go about not losing the eggs!?

Don't know if you read the article yesterday, but Elizabeth Purcell talked about just that: In what shape is queer cinema now? It’s remarkable that queer cinema has grown into this gigantic ecosystem of filmmaking. But I want more. I want trans filmmakers to make the films they want to make. I want to see filmmakers push boundaries. Queer cinema should be more than just X film but make it gay — thriller but make it gay or horror film but make it gay. I want to see what’s next. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/09/movies/elizabeth-purchell-queer-film-historian-interview.html

Drive my Car was a bit long, and very good. The main actor is absolutely beautiful.

One of my longest-term clients, and a very good friend, is still quite happy with me, and me with him. I was in my 20s when we met, I'll be 50 soon. He was in his 70s when we met, now he's 94. So, in answer to the OP, YES!

It's a fucking phone number. I never cease to be amazed how excessively SOME escorts bitch about "time wasters" and "Blocked numbers" and "Fake numbers" WAHHHH. you took 2 minutes of my day for the second time this month, and I want it back GODDAM IT!

I'm looking for a specific scene, so I'm hoping one of you Mad Men fans can tell me: what episode was it where Megan Draper prepared that uniquely beautiful 1960s breakfast for herself and Don on the balcony of their Manhattan apartment? I would love to see that table again. The way she'd set it, the view from their balcony, it was a perfect city breakfast. THANKS! E

In case you didn't see it, there's an interview with half of the Ask Any Buddy Podcast, a really outstanding podcast, see above, in today's New York Times: https://www.nytimes.com/2022/06/09/movies/elizabeth-purchell-queer-film-historian-interview.html

Saw, and liked, The Irishman at the Director's Guild theater when it first came out, so got to hear a great interview with Scorsese.

Doesn't sound like you've seen ALL of WeHo :-)

don't spend much time in West Hollywood, do you? :-)

Yeah, that would be great :-)

I re 15 years ago he came to WeHo for a book signing, still beautiful.

I remember when I was a much younger escort, less aware I could say no, and an overnight client and I drove around West Hollywood so he could find Tina. We went from house to house to meet several suppliers he'd found on AOL. Honestly, later that night I could barely tell he was on Meth. Still, bad. 15 years ago, I was with a celebrity (minor) former client of mine at his pretty cool house in Beachwood Canyon. We went in to his giant walk in closet (so gay) and he took some Crystal out of his safe. I was shocked, it seemed out of character. Haven't seen him in years, but when I looked him up, just now, I see he's sober. Yay! In both instances I should have walked away, but, you know, money.

Just tell the provider that someone else, friend/electritian/whoever, is scheduled to be at your apartment/house 30 minutes or so after you two are supposed to be finished, so "PLEASE show up on time. I'd hate for you to arrive, and then just have to turn around and leave because we won't have enough time to avoid the friend/electritian/whoever,. Thanks, very very very much looking forward to seeing you :-) " If your appointment is at night, it's more difficult. Maybe tell him you have an early flight?

it's not. and before someone says that's cuz I'm old :-), it never was.

I workout at home, the only thing I have on is a playlist.

"Rawhide". What a great name for a show centered on men wearing leather boots, ladies party hats, and chaps. Also, when you think about it, "Bonanza" is pretty much on the nose, gaywise.

Sure...in fantasy land. Clearly, you don't, often, talk to therapists outside of professional situations, or, when you do, they are on guard. Truth is, they bring their shit to every session. And, sometimes they check it, and sometimes the shit slips by.

My sense is that a gay, older, male, mental health therapist, would be more likely to handle the information that you hire much better than a younger, gay, male therapist. They, and women of all ages, are likely to see it as exploitive, and you'll waste too much time explaining how you think/know it is not the case, in your experience Remember, the 50 minutes is about you, and you are not helped by working against their ill-informed prejudice. Good luck!