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“Father was well off, very well off.  His considerable income was derived from fireworks, bunting and other patriotic accruements”.  - Ragtime 
I’m supposed to be comfortable I suppose but it’s mainly locked up in a 401k prison. Then in home equity as well….  I gotta get busy living.  I’d rather die while I’m living than live while I’m dying.  
 

I’m adjusting my retirement at 55 plans because of a recent hiring spurt. Why? I’ll likely need the disposable income.  I’m still saving for retirement, but when I run across someone whose company I enjoy, I’m not going to trade the present for a future where I’m older.  
 
I don’t know where my budget number will end up - just yet for the year. The next couple months will show if I stay mainly in Chicago market or travel occasionally. 
 
Previous years I ran somewhere about 5k between massage and the occasional provider.  I’ve blown through that a bit when you include travel to escape the winter this year.  
 

I’m adjusting my retirement at 55 plans because of a recent hiring spurt. Why? I’ll likely need the disposable income.  I’m still saving for retirement, but when I run across someone whose company I enjoy, I’m not going to trade the present for a future where I’m older.  
 
I don’t know where my budget number will end up - just yet for the year. The next couple months will show if I stay mainly in Chicago market or travel occasionally. 
 
Previous years I ran somewhere about 5k between massage and the occasional provider.  I’ve blown through that a bit when you include travel to escape the winter this year.  
 

You can also rent lockers.  I haven’t been yet myself.  I should check it out as it’s in my backyard.  You never know if someone will find you a hot dish!  I’m 48, and never thought I’d actually have dancers/escorts that genuinely want to hang out for a night out. I’ll pick up dinner/drinks, but it’s definitely not their regular rate.  

in addition there’s this event, I haven’t been yet https://www.cumunion.com/?page_id=576
This might be best moved to the travel section.  

@BuckCanucked if I’m in town, I’ll buy you a drink at the Lucky Horseshoe the local gogo boy bar.  It’s been a fun time lately.  Not too much fun, they don’t have private rooms or anything.  

You can also rent lockers.  I haven’t been yet myself.  I should check it out as it’s in my backyard.  You never know if someone will find you a hot dish!  I’m 48, and never thought I’d actually have dancers/escorts that genuinely want to hang out for a night out. I’ll pick up dinner/drinks, but it’s definitely not their regular rate.  

in addition there’s this event, I haven’t been yet https://www.cumunion.com/?page_id=576
This might be best moved to the travel section.  

@BuckCanucked if I’m in town, I’ll buy you a drink at the Lucky Horseshoe the local gogo boy bar.  It’s been a fun time lately.  Not too much fun, they don’t have private rooms or anything.  

Just bumping this to report. Met up with additional times, and good times. 

It’s been said before in the forums.  It bares repeating.  
Hire escorts. 
Get a massage from a masseur. 
Tip your Go-Go dancers. 
 
it’s tricky to pick up a go-go all my success has been after multiple nights of interaction. Exception being if I know they have an ad on RentMen.  Picking up a go-go after a shift is sometimes a long shot as well.  They are getting off of a shift at work, and may need to prepare before your time.  
 
All that being said, show interest with tips and conversation.  If it appears to going well after 15-30 min, you can always directly ask if they’d be interested in meeting up at your hotel.  Be prepared to get a brush off (at best), continued teasing expectation of tips/lap dances can drain your balance fast and there’s no guarantee they’ll perform as expected.  
 
Escorts / Masseurs / Gogo’s  all have different job profiles.  It’s rare to find someone versed in even 2 of those 3.  If you want to pick up an escort but want some face time, ask for FaceTime or offer to meet up for drinks before hand.  

Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Another trip, another quality night even on a Wednesday.  They have a rule that if a dancer wants a weekend shift they have to work a weekday shift.  So there’s a good variety of dancers!  

Another trip, another quality night even on a Wednesday.  They have a rule that if a dancer wants a weekend shift they have to work a weekday shift.  So there’s a good variety of dancers!  

Another trip, another quality night even on a Wednesday.  They have a rule that if a dancer wants a weekend shift they have to work a weekday shift.  So there’s a good variety of dancers!  

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Yeah, as @Vegas_Millennial stated, there’s no true “private” dance.  It’s a 1:1 lap dance, but things can’t get too wild. Back decades ago, your mileage may vary, but now the liquor license is too valuable to allow anything go too far. 
 
Inside the bar, your options are limited. It’s admittedly a downside of living in Chicago these days. Gogo boys are limited by the liquor laws and the days of the local police looking the other way stopped once families started moving in and against the bar’s nightlife.  

Agreed, it USED to be a hard rule that you didn’t take photos period in a strip/gogo bar for patrons and dancers privacy.  It became too hard to effectively enforce once all phones came with cameras and everyone expects that they can photo/video everywhere.  
 
Nightlife photographers had special permission, and made sure to get consent from everyone in the photo.  Those days are gone sadly.  

It’s been said before in the forums.  It bares repeating.  
Hire escorts. 
Get a massage from a masseur. 
Tip your Go-Go dancers. 
 
it’s tricky to pick up a go-go all my success has been after multiple nights of interaction. Exception being if I know they have an ad on RentMen.  Picking up a go-go after a shift is sometimes a long shot as well.  They are getting off of a shift at work, and may need to prepare before your time.  
 
All that being said, show interest with tips and conversation.  If it appears to going well after 15-30 min, you can always directly ask if they’d be interested in meeting up at your hotel.  Be prepared to get a brush off (at best), continued teasing expectation of tips/lap dances can drain your balance fast and there’s no guarantee they’ll perform as expected.  
 
Escorts / Masseurs / Gogo’s  all have different job profiles.  It’s rare to find someone versed in even 2 of those 3.  If you want to pick up an escort but want some face time, ask for FaceTime or offer to meet up for drinks before hand.  

It’s been said before in the forums.  It bares repeating.  
Hire escorts. 
Get a massage from a masseur. 
Tip your Go-Go dancers. 
 
it’s tricky to pick up a go-go all my success has been after multiple nights of interaction. Exception being if I know they have an ad on RentMen.  Picking up a go-go after a shift is sometimes a long shot as well.  They are getting off of a shift at work, and may need to prepare before your time.  
 
All that being said, show interest with tips and conversation.  If it appears to going well after 15-30 min, you can always directly ask if they’d be interested in meeting up at your hotel.  Be prepared to get a brush off (at best), continued teasing expectation of tips/lap dances can drain your balance fast and there’s no guarantee they’ll perform as expected.  
 
Escorts / Masseurs / Gogo’s  all have different job profiles.  It’s rare to find someone versed in even 2 of those 3.  If you want to pick up an escort but want some face time, ask for FaceTime or offer to meet up for drinks before hand.