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Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Out gay since 18, had a nice period of fun from 18-21, then the deskjob and good paychecks added to my waist line.  28yo started a long term caregiving arrangement that last 12 years.  Somewhere along the way in my 30s, I started a strip club habit and then hiring occasionally.  It was easier than trying to date and explain how I can’t host because my mom lives with me.  
 
Now pushing almost 50yo and terminally single, I’ll occasionally look on Grindr but I don’t have an issue with paying for massage or other companionship. Go out of my way to treat everyone with some respect and kindness.  If I end up dating again, I’d be open to it.  Just don’t expect the strip club habit to go away.  Hiring negotiable.  I’m a bit set in my ways, and don’t want to date someone clutching their pearls at a little fun.  

Another trip, another quality night even on a Wednesday.  They have a rule that if a dancer wants a weekend shift they have to work a weekday shift.  So there’s a good variety of dancers!  

Another trip, another quality night even on a Wednesday.  They have a rule that if a dancer wants a weekend shift they have to work a weekday shift.  So there’s a good variety of dancers!  

Another trip, another quality night even on a Wednesday.  They have a rule that if a dancer wants a weekend shift they have to work a weekday shift.  So there’s a good variety of dancers!  

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Figured this might be of interest to some on here.  
 
I have less than 2 years before the big 50 at this point.  However, navigating getting older is an interesting path for sure.  
 
What comes next PR release on Palm Springs Post

Yeah, as @Vegas_Millennial stated, there’s no true “private” dance.  It’s a 1:1 lap dance, but things can’t get too wild. Back decades ago, your mileage may vary, but now the liquor license is too valuable to allow anything go too far. 
 
Inside the bar, your options are limited. It’s admittedly a downside of living in Chicago these days. Gogo boys are limited by the liquor laws and the days of the local police looking the other way stopped once families started moving in and against the bar’s nightlife.  

Agreed, it USED to be a hard rule that you didn’t take photos period in a strip/gogo bar for patrons and dancers privacy.  It became too hard to effectively enforce once all phones came with cameras and everyone expects that they can photo/video everywhere.  
 
Nightlife photographers had special permission, and made sure to get consent from everyone in the photo.  Those days are gone sadly.  

It’s been said before in the forums.  It bares repeating.  
Hire escorts. 
Get a massage from a masseur. 
Tip your Go-Go dancers. 
 
it’s tricky to pick up a go-go all my success has been after multiple nights of interaction. Exception being if I know they have an ad on RentMen.  Picking up a go-go after a shift is sometimes a long shot as well.  They are getting off of a shift at work, and may need to prepare before your time.  
 
All that being said, show interest with tips and conversation.  If it appears to going well after 15-30 min, you can always directly ask if they’d be interested in meeting up at your hotel.  Be prepared to get a brush off (at best), continued teasing expectation of tips/lap dances can drain your balance fast and there’s no guarantee they’ll perform as expected.  
 
Escorts / Masseurs / Gogo’s  all have different job profiles.  It’s rare to find someone versed in even 2 of those 3.  If you want to pick up an escort but want some face time, ask for FaceTime or offer to meet up for drinks before hand.  

It’s been said before in the forums.  It bares repeating.  
Hire escorts. 
Get a massage from a masseur. 
Tip your Go-Go dancers. 
 
it’s tricky to pick up a go-go all my success has been after multiple nights of interaction. Exception being if I know they have an ad on RentMen.  Picking up a go-go after a shift is sometimes a long shot as well.  They are getting off of a shift at work, and may need to prepare before your time.  
 
All that being said, show interest with tips and conversation.  If it appears to going well after 15-30 min, you can always directly ask if they’d be interested in meeting up at your hotel.  Be prepared to get a brush off (at best), continued teasing expectation of tips/lap dances can drain your balance fast and there’s no guarantee they’ll perform as expected.  
 
Escorts / Masseurs / Gogo’s  all have different job profiles.  It’s rare to find someone versed in even 2 of those 3.  If you want to pick up an escort but want some face time, ask for FaceTime or offer to meet up for drinks before hand.  

I’m guessing it’s due to foreign ownership.  Either they want to be 100% in compliance with some obscure IRS regulation 
OR it’s a European country thing.  In Brazil, I couldn’t buy tickets to a New Year’s Eve party because I didn’t have a Brazilian Tax ID. We had a local friend who helped us.  It’s not unusual in other countries to require tax ids for any commercial transaction.  
 
either way, agreed, I’d be less likely to “gift” a membership. 
also if you’re gifting a membership to an expired ad, it might be in bad form as the provider may be purposefully on hiatus.  

Just seeing if any one around is up for a friendly  meetup (not meaning in a professional sorta way)  in Fort Lauderdale this weekend 1/29?  I’m in tonight through Monday.  Probably will hit up Le Boy, Johnson’s or Boardwalk at some point.  

“Father was well off, very well off.  His considerable income was derived from fireworks, bunting and other patriotic accruements”.  - Ragtime 
I’m supposed to be comfortable I suppose but it’s mainly locked up in a 401k prison. Then in home equity as well….  I gotta get busy living.  I’d rather die while I’m living than live while I’m dying.  
 

Wholeheartedly endorse for a great actual massage. I opted for 2 hours to include guided stretching for my own mobility.  He has a nice setup massage studio - extra wide massage table, crisp linens/towels.  RentMasseur ad reviews are spot on.  Great guy great experience!   Would book again should our paths cross.  

Bump? 

@Vegas_Millennial I don’t know if the small-time gambler in me would be able to ask for $50s. The old gambler myth that $50s are unlucky and you will never see them in a casino.  Of course, I think the other is that they didn’t get a counterfeit redesign for awhile so the Casinos started that myth to keep the risk of accepting bad ones down.  
 
$2 bills would make leave mpression on the gogo’s and strippers!  And also really annoy the bartenders trying to cash up the singles at the end of the night.   

Posing this to the group.  From a privacy standpoint, I will always die on the cash in an envelope is the most traceless.  However, it’s getting hard to source cash.  Banks making it a pain in the ass to withdraw out in larger bills. $20s common in the ATM end up bulking up a wallet.  Add into that any extended hours, overnight, weekend rates. 
 
Short of paying in gold coins…  Has there emerged a preferred payment platform?  I’ve used Zelle a bunch.  But I know there’s also Venmo, PayPal and CashApp floating around.  
 
I know the short answer is the one you both can agree on!  

“Father was well off, very well off.  His considerable income was derived from fireworks, bunting and other patriotic accruements”.  - Ragtime 
I’m supposed to be comfortable I suppose but it’s mainly locked up in a 401k prison. Then in home equity as well….  I gotta get busy living.  I’d rather die while I’m living than live while I’m dying.  
 

Met up with friends at the Shoe last night.  
The dancer line-up on Saturday night is back to being fire. Literally something for almost every taste.  Twinks, twunks, all races, straight himbo's with the backwards ball caps.  
 
As usual the crowd is likewise friendly.  Definitely very pleased with how I spent my Saturday night there.  No double meaning, just a great evening, met some new dancers - likely going back in the near future. 

A gay with no college options joining up because there’s no other options that seem better AND his best friend is there? 

I know a sailor and coastie, who did just that to get out of their dead end min wage life post high school and they didn’t have a best friend joining with them.  
 
So in that, I can believe it. 18yos are sometimes that impulsive and listless. 

So Inhave one of those famcy bluetooth bodyfat scales that also calculates a "metabolic age." The number ticked down this week.