IronMaus

On 8/12/2021 at 4:24 PM, Cure69 said:

Your advice is very helpful. But what about men like myself, I'd love to add images of myself but because I'm new to exploring my sexuality (unknown to everyone in my family), I'd refrain from posting a photo but would likely include lots of information about my likes and dislikes ...

... So, would an escort ever consider profiles without photos?

Of course! Photos aren't necessary. Just describe who you are, what you are looking for, and use the "physical" and "preferences" sections to be more thorough. This lets us know what you are looking for, removes a lot of pretense, and will attract more desirable attention for you.

I'm really happy to be working and seeing people again, but it's difficult getting back to where I was psychologically and physically in 2019. I'm seeing vaccinated clients and I always kiss - but because STIs have skyrocketed and Covid is still a thing, I limit new connections to longer occasions to limit exposure to either.

On 7/11/2021 at 9:25 AM, mkm556 said:

https://rentmasseur.com/CoachPaxton

Looks like he does @Antonio1981

I hired Coach for naked training a few years back and he did a lot for me - I still adhere to several aspects of his workouts like splitting a workout into thirds: stretching, yoga, resistance. He is kind, handsome, and gives a great massage too.

M4Mforum and RentMen can work well for this. When a client puts enough information in their profile for me to understand whether I could offer what they want, I'm inclined to message them and say just that. Many of my long term clients began with me messaging them first.
The reviews used to work for this when people reviewed more - based on who you review and what you say, escorts can get a good sense of your desires and whether we'd get along.

I haven't met him but I hope someone does - film school in Atlanta is EXPENSIVE lol

I haven't hired a trans men but I've played/filmed with several and love it. All the providers I know are great and I would recommend them (slide into my DMs)
Pussy is different than asshole, feels just as great, and for me its nice to be able to go in balls deep and not worry about the bottom wincing in pain or shitting on me 😍
FTMs can be great tops too. Outside of strap-ons and toys, if you've ever wanted to be fisted or never thought you could be, an FTM is a great place to start.
Also, an FTM's crotch can smell like a sweaty Cis-man's jockstrap. Their pheromones really get me going.

I used to think a big cock was a hassle for first timers, but that was only true when I/we were younger. It's an all or nothing thing when it comes to big cock. Your entire hole opens at the same time and provides a clear path for the top - no uncomfortable jabs and less likely to slip out in the moment. But really, as long as the provider is experienced and can take his time - and hopefully loves to eat ass - that's all you really need 😇

My gayness bloomed at a very young age but didn't have sex with a woman until I was 35. I have dealt with feelings of regret in regards to female-bodied people, and my insecurities concerning this have come along with some interesting baggage I've been unpacking.
We all come to things at different points in our life, and sometimes we don't come at all. If you ever tell your life story to someone, they are more likely to be inspired by the moment you decided to act on these desires than critical of how long it took you to do so. I agree with @Epigonosthat regret is a waste of time. Our experiences our as accumulative as they are sequential - moving forward is the only way to get the best of both.

CBD works great for relaxing your hole, and for muscle pains and arthritis - shit I've seen it help with a myriad of medical issues and even cancer. CBD from Hemp is the OTC variety and isn't as strong as CBD from Cannabis - but it can still work. I've been using (Hemp) CBD oil made for pets in my fisting lube and its helpful. Haven't tried the pre-made CBD lube, but it's one of those things that either works or doesn't for people. Being an occasional or moderate consumer of cannabis can change your bodies reaction to it as well.

See this is why they need Fox News over there - so the truth can get out like the children on those boat need to!

 

https://www.newsweek.com/qanon-ship-suez-canal-hillary-clinton-1578428

QAnon Claims Stuck Suez Canal Ship Used by Hillary Clinton to Traffic Children

Restaurants are top notch in P-town - atmospheric, delicious (sea)food, and they poor as heavy as strip clubs! Aside from the occasional Masshole, Ptown is more of a small town friendly with a stronger sense of community. Everyone knows everyone and people help each other out a lot. I asked a guy if he knew where I could get pot and he said himself, and these two other options and why I might prefer them - that has NEVER happened to anyone I know- and this guy was a squatter! You won't find that sort of friendliness in PS unless you are young, hot AND willing.

 

Hotels are nicer in Palm Springs, there is a larger variety of hot older guys, and house rental options are top notch - can't get your own pool in Ptown! CCBC (15 minutes form PS) is also a must-see in Palm Springs.

A new book shows that men's sperm counts are declining. By 2045, there may be no sperm! Penises are shrinking too! (Had you noticed?)

:... hormone-disrupting chemicals ...are decimating fertility at an alarming rate around the globe."

Among the "staggering" findings, author Shanna Swan says: “The current state of reproductive affairs can’t continue much longer without threatening human survival,” ... adding: “It’s a global existential crisis.” That’s not hyperbole. That’s just science. (Guardian)

 

As if this wasn’t terrifying enough, Swan’s research finds that these chemicals aren’t just dramatically reducing semen quality, they are also shrinking penis size and volume of the testes. This is nothing short of a full-scale emergency for humanity. (Guardian)

 

The Guardian review is here: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2021/mar/18/toxic-chemicals-health-humanity-erin-brokovich

The book is Countdown.

 

This is pretty awesome.

We can't seem to keep our own populations to a reasonable level - so what's wrong with the universe being like "KNOCK IT OFF"?

 

Economically, many of our systems don't do well with population decline - but that's OUR fault for designing these systems as such. Perhaps this development will encourage earthlings to re-think their systems based upon constant growth and conception.

 

Besides, even if we lose our ability to procreate biologically, by THAT time we'll have clones, androids, and incubation stations that will help remove the burden of gender roles from the female sex. Say hello to a possible Star Trek future! ? ?

MMMM yes. I want a piece of that! I better get on it before one of you get him PS weekend ;-)

I noticed a few guys I've reached out to through RM's messenger are using auto-reply messages recommending contacting directly by text using a number listed. Even when you reach out to them using the number, they don't respond. The last one I just tried was Joseph_fit and he's pushing his OnlyFans at the same time. What it looks like to me is some of these guys might actually have handlers and they are not the ones coordinating meet-ups.

We use to have our messages forwarded to our emails and rarely have to touch RM at all - they changed to this messaging system so now we have to log on to look for messages. The auto-replies are very handy for this reason. We can't keep logging in and out of RM because that makes a lot of people think we are available, online looking for work, or working at all - gives us a LOT of unwanted traffic, which can only be handled on RM.

 

I am not working but I have to keep my ad up to keep the price I have (way cheaper than most people's memberships) - so my auto-reply tells them "thanks, but..."

Unfortunately, many will text me anyways after receiving the autoreply ?‍♀️

 

Also, there are services managing people's paysites and social media - if you use Twitter, their paysites, or other social media to reach them, sometimes you aren't talking to them. That's not very common though. If they aren't responding to their phone, that's on them.

I had to cancel my Madrid/Morocco/Lisbon trip in May - same one I cancelled last May

To be safe and see all my loved ones in the US, I'll do a 2 month road trip this summer. If Canada will have me, I might drive to Toronto. If I love the road enough, I'll end up in Mexico ?

My international travel wishes: China, Myanmar, Australia

Would you consider the PS aerial tram a must-see for first timers? I'm also debating whether to rent a car or just use uber/lyft.

YES! The tram is a must-see. It's the biggest tram you'll ever ride, spins while it moves so you get all the views, and the giant forest on top of the mountain is like no other. Don't plan a big hike though because the oxygen up there makes a pleasant walk feel like run.

So he wants something you want when he wants it, and is willing to give you the other thing at the same time to get it? That's a pretty good deal but I understand your frustration. Masseurs that only have one foot in SW have these sort of hybrid relationships.

If you would feel comfortable with a higher (SW) rate to schedule on your terms (and still get that great mini-massage!) that might help coax him into a more professional commitment.

https://rent.men/arikoyoteFTM is a dear friend and a lot of fun in bed...or in The Eagle bathroom...or on the hood of a car by the airport runway...I'm going to masturbate now.

The crown is adorned with diamonds and jewels that wreak of death and shame. The woman who wears it may not reflect the worse side of the monarchy (the best if you ask me) but I believe she knows well why this is happening and believes that it should. I believe her and Meghan planned this together with Oprah, and that putting the crown in a museum is a lifelong dream of the Queen. No one can stop her by defending her - she can accomplish anything she puts her mind to. Long live the Queen! Please burn the house down on way out!

I'll have had my 2nd shot and plan to maintain social distance/mask practices - hugs will be more than welcome ?

They said I should be able to count on them for 3 months, but that was 4 months ago.

Unfortunately, the 2nd time you get Covid has higher chance of worse symptoms, hospitalization and death. Antibodies aren't guaranteed to exist or defend. I know several people who suffered Covid and didn't develop antibodies - and several more that have gotten it twice.

If you want to be safe and come to Palm Springs, try to get at least one shot of vaccine, drive if you can, isolate for a few days (5 is best - especially if you flew in), get tested, and keep your mask on around others.

I know there are more invasive swab tests, I’m not doing those at this point in time.

Unless you get the appropriate swabs (if you suck dick or get rimmed/fucked) you won't know if you have gonorrhea and/or chlamydia. Blood and urine covers junk in your dick and syphilis in your system.

 

Most STIs are asymptomatic. One CAN get chlamydia, gonorrhea, even syphilis from kissing. The incidence of STIs in the Gay community (or those who are sexually active with men) has never been highest....

 

PS. I'm a physician on the East coast and I treat STIs All.The.Time. For some, 3 months is far too long of an interval in my professional opinion.

This is the absolute truth - every 3 months is not regular enough for people in this industry, and frankly it's not great for people that pay for our time. Testing for PrEP every 3 months is great for the larger lab results that give me a better understanding of my overall health - but getting tested regularly in between and specifically before working is what makes me feel safe.

Being "tested recently" doesn't mean someone didn't fuck 4 guys before trying to put it in me - so I try to work/shoot/play with people right after they are tested, and if I've been busy since my last test I try to be honest about it.

STI's were awful going into this pandemic, and by the time we come out of the pandemic we'll barely have enough data to understand the current levels. I'm very worried about the gap that lack of prevention/treatment services over the last year has created and I'm personally shocked that porn studios are shooting. To put it politely, it'll be a frustrating couple of years for us and y'all.

I would like to see total number of deaths pre Covid, compared with total number after Covid over the same time period.

I hope "after Covid" is sooner than later - but this Economist page has loads of data so far...

https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/coronavirus-excess-deaths-tracker

what are you thinking about?

I hate it. Makes me forget what I'm thinking about every time.

1. Empathy

2. Patience

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