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I can't stand the thought of providers just not answering messages. Currently I'm not listing my contact info because traffic is too heavy and I'm limiting sessions to reduce exposure to STIs and Covid - but I try to get back to people within a day of their message. However, if the message I get is "Hey" or "Where are you?" or "Available now? Rate?" I'm less likely to reply. Complete sentences, description of what they are looking for or what about me interests them makes a big difference in my reply rate to clients on RM.

Don't stop there - there are other gay bars in Boston you might find better luck at. Cathedral Station, The Alley Bar, Dbar, and Trohpy Room are all unique and I think they all have food. Jacques' Cabaret has nightly drag shows. Contemporarily, gay bars are a tough scene to navigate as a loner. I find making friends with the bartender is the best way meet other people - especially sitting close to the service bar.

I was 8 years old and downstairs in my parents house with my 11yo neighbor. He got me in the storage closet and said he was going to teach me out to French kiss. He told me to spit in his mouth. Confused and probably aroused, I did as he told me. Then he returned the favor. Apparently this was a segue to get his dick sucked. So I did that too, definitely aroused, and thankfully he returned the favor. This wasn't the most accurate introduction to kissing and was probably confusing for my subsequent childhood sexual partners - but it definitely laid the ground work for my adult sex life. 20 years later when spitting into each others mouths became a more common variety of oral interaction, I thought about my childhood neighbor to myself, "ooooooh that's what he was going for...where the hell did he learn that?"

Either rent a car or find a tour of the swamp/marshlands nearby - a unique environment with friendly alligators. River street is a fun stroll - fresh laffy taffy, to go drinks, drunk college kids. Clube One is the premiere gay bar. I don't know if Lady Chablis is still performing (or alive) but they have drag and such. The Old Pink House is a lovely restaurant and bar with a piano. Bed and Breakfasts are the place to stay in Savannah. Be careful where you are at night because it can be unsafe.

Who (age, gender, ability) doesn't make much of a difference unless your idea of a BFE is a scowling at each other silently over dinner and getting in an argument about leaving the toilet seat up. I pull off a BFE with someone your age the same as anyone else. A BFE is a BFE. I don't deliver BFE's while thinking "this COULD be my boyfriend". If you are concerned that it wouldn't feel like a BFE because of your age, telling us your age and that you want a BFE will help you find what you are looking for. If they can't deliver, don't assume its you or your age.

"Recent federal guidance says health insurance companies must cover all of the costs for the treatment, including the medication, doctor's visits, and lab tests." I understand you want to be discreet, but thought you should know. There are also websites to order these meds through India via Canada. There is also a way to stretch these pricey drugs a lot further: The 2-1-1 method. Take two pills 2-24 hours before sex, one pill 24 hours after the initial dose, and one final pill 24 hours later. This works just as well as taking it every day and can help a one-month or 90 day supply last a lot longer if you aren't having sex weekly or more. The FDA hasn't done extensive studies or approval on this, but other countries are way ahead of us on this. Soon there will be injections and implants for PrEP, lube to prevent the other STIs, and the HIV vaccine is (still) on the horizon. Also, it's worth mentioning that taking 200mg of Doxycycline within 24hours of sex greatly reduces chances of Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis. This is called Doxycycline PEP and its still in a study phase but the results are incredible.

Celebrities, fashion models, musicians, yoga instructors, and many other use OnlyFans for non-nudity content. But don't get it twisted: sex workers made OF what it is today and that wouldn't have happened if a major porn player hadn't invested in the company after its launch. Much like Twitter, people live on one side or other of this content. Here are some examples: Drag Queens because duh: https://onlyfans.com/sheacoulee Consultation for independent music artists because why not: https://onlyfans.com/melissakeklak But all this pales in comparison to the royal highness who doesn't need to be naked to wow our pants off: https://onlyfans.com/iamcardib

OnlyFans does have a lot of non-sex content - it's a huge website. The banks and credit cards haven't changed a thing as far as I've heard so this is OF backpaddling. Their intention was to get evaluated as a billion dollar company shortly after getting rid of porn and selling the company to cash out. My guess is that they realized how much they jeopardized how much the site is worth and what they could sell it for. Tumblr sold for big bucks but is worth next to nothing now in comparison - I imagine investors saw the writing on the wall for the and they were about to leave OF hanging high and dry.

I love when clients want to film or take pictures! Sometimes, if their phone is near the bed, I'll ask if I can use it to take a video - and often they end up watching the video while I continue doing what I was doing in the video haha I'll ask if I can have it and post it because some clients like making anonymous cameos. But if not, I don't care - what are they gong to do? Put it on the internet? Oh darn.

I say see more new clients to establish a larger availability of earnings when you return to that city - if the client wants to see you again so soon, he'll probably feel the same when you return. But don't tell him why you can't see him - and especially don't mention multiple clients in one day. Some clients really don't want to know or think that they aren't the 1st person you've had fun with that day.

Many if not most people are using their bank cards to pay and get paid with these sites - they don't get to choose if it's a Visa card or not. Opening a new bank account/having a 2nd bank account to get around this is a lot of effort on the part of the consumer/worker to get around a problem that other cards are likely to develop - especially if its a business checking account. And starting a credit card to pay for porn...well that's asking for trouble lol

For every 1 case of revenge porn on Pornhub or porn sites, there are 20 on Twitter and Facebook. But Exodus Cry isn't trying to take down Twitter and Facebook because so much of what they accomplish happens because of these websites. All of our attention is being directed and our opinions being formed by entities we aren't aware of or barely hear from.

It's not right-wing to want these sites to be as responsible as they can - but this is just the excuse others are using to take them down. The truth is we wouldn't have this sort of material and behavior if we viewed sex differently, and no matter how much you spend on preventing this sort of behavior someone will get through the cracks and the right-wing entities will exploit that. If it were the real concern, then we would actually be going after the people that exploit others sexually, post revenge/rape porn for money. But we don't hear about individuals who have done these things and what is being done to address them. We are blaming the site for their behavior and supposing that if the site weren't there the behavior wouldn't be either. Backpage worked hard to prevent sex traffickers and such on their site - even helped the US government sting and catch people using the site. Makes sense to use sites to help track people down and such right? Because it benefits not only sex workers but other intended victims. This didn't help them in the end. They were a website that provided a safe environment for SWers all over the world, making it harder for people to take advantage of us. Nobody cared in the end because groups like Exodus Cry found a way for the world to see them as "the largest sex trafficking site in the world" - and Democrats/Republicans alike rejoiced in "taking them down". Meanwhile, when you shut these sites down, you only move this behavior to other - often harder to track and monitor - venues. Sex traffickers have it a lot easier now than they did before SESTA/FOSTA becuase we've moved them onto the dark web and hiding in plain site on the street. But we are constantly hearing in the news about sex traffic operations being shut down. But actually its mostly massage parlors, with employees that are way more fucked when they are sent back to where they came from or put into the system in America.

I could have sworn someone just mentioned Lewis Prothero - thought this clip was relevant here.

For me, "passionate" means making out, making eye contact, enjoying it as much as they are. Escorts can do fine without this because many men aren't looking for passion.

I've asked clients for their vaccination proof and offered mine and it hasn't been a problem - in California we have a WEBPAGE that verifies your vaccination and sends you a validation that lasts for 24 hours. Either way, are masseurs wearing masks these days?

The best way to avoid this scenario is telling people upfront. If this bugs them, so be it - its you and if they aren't interested in you as a sex worker then fuck them. Or don't. Many of my friends and lovers are not in the industry. Some of my older friends and family had concerns in the beginning - but after seeing me be happy, successful, and never in need of money from my parents 😇, they came around. You could be the reason someone changes their mind about sex workers. Or they can be the reason you don't feel comfortable being honest. It's up to you.

Because of how well this is working, we can't see the forest through the trees. This effect is happening as a result of Evangelical, Conservative, and Nationalist efforts in many arenas. They create the perfect firing squad: a circle. So we sit around arguing with each other about what we think are the problems and solutions, meanwhile the source of the problems are pulling the strings and accomplishing more than we see until it is too late. IMHO I believe this movement is also being supported by Porn at the top - they want their money back before its too late and they aren't in business anymore.

Credit Card companies change of policy is the result of greater efforts and the middle of the story - we are going to see a lot more sites go down in the near future. Porn is under attack systematically and the industry's opposition have enough resources to seriously jeopardize Porn's availability and relevance. Here is an overview of the situation I copied from https://twitter.com/PostCultRev/status/1428584133555482630 "A lot of people are getting the OnlyFans story wrong, and the reality of it is a lot more damaging and concerning to both the livelihood of sex workers and online freedom in general. OnlyFans isn’t ditching porn and sex workers because it’s trying to get new investments. It’s ditching them because on October 1st of 2021 MasterCard is implementing new rules governing sites with adult content that use their payment processing systems. These rules will basically require that OnlyFans (and every other site that accepts MasterCard payments) not only fully verify every user and every person who appears in every adult video, but review all posted content before publication, including real-time review of livestreams. The new records-keeping, review processes, verification and other requirements are going to be expensive and time-consuming. OnlyFans seems to have decided it’s not worth it. More importantly though, these rules will put incredible pressure on smaller sites and indie creators. Of course, they could just decide not to accept MasterCard, but it’s likely Visa and others will follow suit eventually. So why the rule changes? Because last December the New York Times published an opinion piece by Nick Kristof caller “The Children of Pornhub” that accused the site and its parent company of profiting off revenge porn, child porn and sex trafficking. Which, to be clear, they kinda were. PornHub was notoriously bad among the tube sites for its reckless lack of content moderation and exploitation of the people whose videos ended up there. Because of the story, Visa and MasterCard both cut PornHub off. PornHub has since moved to a model where it only posts verified users, but the big payment processors haven’t relented, and are looking to remove themselves from any other business that might be involved in sex trafficking, non-consensual content, etc. Hence the rule changes. But here’s the thing: Kristof’s story might have been correct on some of PornHub’s abuses but it was deeply manipulative and painfully wrongheaded about sex trafficking in porn and, like almost anything he writes about sex, a filtered version of Christian dominionistic propaganda. One of the primary sources in Kristof’s article is Traffickinghub founder Laila Mickelwait. She also works for the group Exodus Cry, a Christian group that is among other things anti-sex, anti-homosexuality and, naturally, anti-Semitic. Groups like this don’t care about sex trafficking or non-consensual videos on a porn site. Those are footholds to their broader goal, which is to destroy the entire sex industry. That the majority of it is legal and consensual is pointless; they want it all gone on principle. Sex trafficking makes a good narrative toward that goal. It’s why the old anti-porn Morality in the Media group from the 1960s is now called “The National Center on Sexual Exploitation” Kristof has played this role before. His basic tactic is to use manipulative and manipulated stories of sexual abuse to attack broader institutions. Then he ends up a mouthpiece filtering deeply regressive Evangelical Christian anti-sex mythology to the mainstream is a given. The attack on PornHub did nothing to stop sex trafficking and a lot to take money out of the legal porn industry. The new MasterCard rules are a direct result of this, which basically means an overwrought Christian anti-sex fever dream is now dictating sexual content online. Almost the entire anti-trafficking movement is an Evangelical project to get liberal supporters to sign off on a laundry list of Christian anti-sex policies. It’s been one of their most successful propaganda projects. It’s also likely gotten a lot of sex workers killed. It’s the reason Craigslist and Backpage don’t do classifieds for sex workers, because of trafficking scares, removing a relatively safe way to meet clients and moving workers back to more exploitative and dangerous venues. Anti-trafficking groups have shut down AIDS programs that worked with sex workers and replaced them with abstinence-only programs. They’ve gotten police doing “trafficking raids” that are just giant crackdowns on consensual sex work, sending more sex workers to jail. Because that’s the whole point of this. It’s a giant propaganda push, one with real teeth to it, to attack all sex work, legal or otherwise, consensual or not. OnlyFans dropping porn is just the next step. It’s only going to get worse. Some sources: MasterCard’s rule changes https://xbiz.com/news/258606/heres-what-the-new-mastercard-rules-mean-for-adult-sites-producers… Kristof’s use of Evangelical propaganda https://newrepublic.com/article/160488/nick-kristof-holy-war-pornhub… OnlyFans actual statement on why they changed policy https://xbiz.com/news/261183/onlyfans-releases-official-statement-about-upcoming-ban-on-sexually-explicit-conduct… Just going to make sure one point of this thread is clear: MasterCard’s rule changes will do nothing to stop sex trafficking. They might have a marginal effect on non-consensual videos in general but overall these rules are about their own liability, not concern for victims. The end result of the change is it will be harder to sell sexually explicit content online unless you are part of a major player that can afford the costs to meet the new requirements. Indie sex workers will be driven out and larger companies will be more powerful. So little to zero assistance for any actual victim of a sex crime and enormous overbearing punishment directed at the creators of legal, consensual work."

I've offered money back to clients when I felt I did not deliver. Clients don't try to pay me less after the fact, but sometimes when they book 2+ hours they'll tap out after 1 hour and want to only pay me for 1 hour. I'm honest with them about how shitty that is but take what they will give me and make note in their contact info so I can navigate the next occasion without disappointment.

7 days is a long time to spend with ANYONE - make sure you want to spend that much time with them. Find mutual interests and things to keep you busy. Unless they intend to do all the panning, research where you are going and have suggestions/reservations ready so you can both have a great time without spending the morning and afternoon what to do next. See if there is a bath house where you are going, cruise the local escorts to suggests 3ways or groups. Make sure he knows what to expect of you and vice versa - if you are going somewhere you would go on your own and he wants a lower rate, secure some time for yourself during your trip so you can accommodate them and please yourself in the meantime.

Drew Dixon is a doll and I've had a lot of fun with him. He's versatile, enthusiastic, and great for FF too.

It's a nice upscale suburb so it's pretty boring and littered with chain restaurants and shopping for visitors. I'd rather live in a higher crime area with more culture 😊

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If they've viewed my page a lot and have descriptions and such in their profile I I'll strike up a conversation. I don't really see it as window shopping when they can see my butthole. It's more like they are picking up the sweater and I'm asking them "Is there anything I can help you find today?"