MrMattBig

OMHFG! I just added a dozen or so Pornhub links to my favorites on Sunday night, and today I find them and dozens more suspended or deleted!
 
I don't get boiling mad very often. I've put up with virus lockdowns and scavenging for toilet paper. I've tolerated separation from friends and cancelled family and social occasions. I've even become adjusted to a somewhat more monastic and cerebral existence, and that has had some benefits. I know I'm not alone in in facing such challenges.
 
BUT do not fuck with my Scotch or my porn!!!
 
Said in bold print, because that's the only thing I can do. I am otherwise powerless -let's not say impotent- to effect a change in this circumstance.
 
I even saw some videos that were "not available in your country." Well, they fucking were yesterday! And you're not in Armenia! You're next door in fucking Canada, eh?
 
Some asshole writes an article and a group of gutless pussies over react on an unprecedented scale. As I am perhaps doing now.
 
But my safe harbor, my "happy place" -so long as the electricity's on- has been raided and made a pale reflection of its former self. And it hurts. And it's enraging. All the more so because I'm powerless to change it back.
 
It is so odd a mix of emotions on this day. The Electoral College has officially disavowed DJT. But this happens on the day the so-called Sexual Revolution is over. And we lost.
 
It's also ironic that the managers of site that handles more balls than the NBA have none of their own. Eventually the only thing pornhub will show will be married couples in the missionary position.
 
To them, three things: fuck off, drop dead, and go to hell.
 
 
Well, that felt better. For a while.

Appreciating being an introvert. I've noticed the isolation and distancing are taking quite a toll on some of my neighbors. I wish I could share some of my introvert nature with them.

Some tend to view providers of an experience, as providers of a lesser than service; I would supect akin to a car wash or dry cleaners. Of course, one also has to take into account that some may think they just simply sound cool and edgy by saying 'scort.
That's a whole other psychological profile to unpack.
If any abbreviation is to be used, it should be SWer...for sex worker.

Some tend to view providers of an experience, as providers of a lesser than service; I would supect akin to a car wash or dry cleaners. Of course, one also has to take into account that some may think they just simply sound cool and edgy by saying 'scort.
That's a whole other psychological profile to unpack.
If any abbreviation is to be used, it should be SWer...for sex worker.

I generally agree and frequently call out
"pulling a “you, on “you” myself,
 
but as sex workers our job is not just bjs penetration and getting off...but providing a level of comfortability and being non-judgmental. Additionally, if escorts are going to pick and choose who they take as clients...they should indicate that in their profile to be as upfront as possible.

Some tend to view providers of an experience, as providers of a lesser than service; I would supect akin to a car wash or dry cleaners. Of course, one also has to take into account that some may think they just simply sound cool and edgy by saying 'scort.
That's a whole other psychological profile to unpack.
If any abbreviation is to be used, it should be SWer...for sex worker.

I share this curse. I’m a much better written communicator. Even with good friends. Thomas Jefferson was rumored to have been a poor oral communicator, but he wrote magnificently.

Havent read all the posts here yet...but it will be opposed so hard it will never happen...and for reasons rightfully so.
 
However, this is where character limiting is beneficial...and it could be a sub thread on here, and monitored by the admins here, with the advantage of potential rebuttals, just the the review site for escorts
 
Example:
Title: Chicago 6/1/2020 warning
 
312-xxx-5555
Called on phone asking for pictures, sent one then asked when he is available to meet and never got a response back.
Game player and pic collector.
 
To be clear, clients should be entitled to complete discretion and anonymity.
That is also a 2 way street.
 
Insistence on electronic payments via Zelle instead of Venmo or Cashapp where you can protect identity...infringes on escorts privacy
Insistence on address often before setting a time, and in often cases never showing up anyway...puts escorts in the lines of stalkers or worse.
Not willing to travel without apartment number/room number of escort...same as above
 
There are so many instances where escorts encounter frequently, situations and behaviors of those that contact us, that put our discretion and identity in vulnerable circumstances as well.

Absolutely loved it! Always appreciated chess, now have so much more respect for the strategy and flow of the game

To eliminate the potential of mess as much as possible, I would clean out.
Additionally, that will be the best course of action towards easy cleaning of said toys afterwards.
Happy pleasures!?

Don't fake it, embrace it?

Don't fake it, embrace it?

Totally crazy game as Rays win in the bottom of ninth on an error by the Dodgers with two out. Rookie Randy Arozarena in the middle of everything for the Ray's as usual
 
Series is tied 2 to 2

Don't fake it, embrace it?

This is actually the only way to survive escorting from a mental health aspect.
*Not to mention manage scheduling and income expectations against flakey, scamming, and potentially s
dangerous clients.
The trick is to manage those suspicions in a healthy realistic way, as well as very cognitively honing your critical thinking skills for each individual client and interaction separately.
Even regulars can turn bad sometimes.
But those suspicions should never be allowed to take over or get in your own way.

This is actually the only way to survive escorting from a mental health aspect.
*Not to mention manage scheduling and income expectations against flakey, scamming, and potentially s
dangerous clients.
The trick is to manage those suspicions in a healthy realistic way, as well as very cognitively honing your critical thinking skills for each individual client and interaction separately.
Even regulars can turn bad sometimes.
But those suspicions should never be allowed to take over or get in your own way.

Don't fake it, embrace it?

Don't fake it, embrace it?

I do have an oral fixation?
Unfortunately, probably close to 75% of 30 minute or quick inquires start with me receiving "just want to blow you and swallow your load"...maybe for me it's skewed because of certain, um features, but who knows lol?

I do have an oral fixation?
Unfortunately, probably close to 75% of 30 minute or quick inquires start with me receiving "just want to blow you and swallow your load"...maybe for me it's skewed because of certain, um features, but who knows lol?

I do have an oral fixation?
Unfortunately, probably close to 75% of 30 minute or quick inquires start with me receiving "just want to blow you and swallow your load"...maybe for me it's skewed because of certain, um features, but who knows lol?

Would you be the top or bottom in this situation?
As @keroscenefire mentioned some of us offer 30 minutes...I myself do if asked. I do not advertise it, and also depends on my schedule for the day, both personal and work. If in this situation the person wants to blow me, I decline or don't offer 30 minutes. Why waste a load and effect possiblity of overall performance, when someone could easily come through and pay a full hour instead. If I'm really really slow, and really horny, it's a possibility. However, while in 30 minute circumstances I offer a rate at a competitive proportion to the hour, I find most who ask for 30 minutes are either: looking for something way less still, too hesitant to part with their funds even at a less than advertised rate, or too really short on time sneaking around a partner/spouse, on break or before/after work or Uber discreet to actually come through.
So there is virtually no incentive to offer quick visits.

I do have an oral fixation?
Unfortunately, probably close to 75% of 30 minute or quick inquires start with me receiving "just want to blow you and swallow your load"...maybe for me it's skewed because of certain, um features, but who knows lol?

Bng-blow n go
BL-really supposed to be craigslist...which over the years had an erotic services section...then eliminated that and had personals and massage services, to now eliminating personals and massage services.
BP-backpage...was set up similarly to Craigslist in the sections it had but was basically for finding escorts till if was shutdown all together

Would you be the top or bottom in this situation?
As @keroscenefire mentioned some of us offer 30 minutes...I myself do if asked. I do not advertise it, and also depends on my schedule for the day, both personal and work. If in this situation the person wants to blow me, I decline or don't offer 30 minutes. Why waste a load and effect possiblity of overall performance, when someone could easily come through and pay a full hour instead. If I'm really really slow, and really horny, it's a possibility. However, while in 30 minute circumstances I offer a rate at a competitive proportion to the hour, I find most who ask for 30 minutes are either: looking for something way less still, too hesitant to part with their funds even at a less than advertised rate, or too really short on time sneaking around a partner/spouse, on break or before/after work or Uber discreet to actually come through.
So there is virtually no incentive to offer quick visits.