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He is only doing outcalls of course. Like so many escorts.

I have never requested an Uber before, but there are some situations where I might do so.
 
Your offer to pick up and return is kind, but in actuality it could be good or bad. $70 each way is what a 30 -40 minute ride? If so, in Uber, the scort can look out the window, play with his phone or whatever. If its you, you will expect to be engaged in "getting to know you" conversation, that otherwise might not occur if he arrived via Uber.
 
Also when the session is over, there is another block of time to be filled with some sort of engagement. If for whatever reason the session did not go well it could be really awkward or uncomfortable..
 
It's a nice gesture, but I'd probably opt for the Uber or find a guy closer to your pad, or find a hotel closer to your scort's location.

Grrr, I love doing this to a guy. Already got him moanin' and groanin' while I'm poundin' him and then if the mood strikes, to grab one of his feet and start licking and sucking and kissing and worshipping (while also using that grabbing hand to massage at the same time) while continuing to nail him...just...new heights of pleasure for him and me. The ultimate.
 
Ya gotta clip those toenails, though. Hard on my teeth and mouth, otherwise. Not into that kind of punishment, heh.

I actually just had my first "exclusively feet" encounter a few weeks ago during a trip to DC. Had a client who spent the entire hour (and then some) playing with, licking, sucking, massaging, and grazing my feet with his teeth. No sex, not even any kissing. It was unexpected (he hadn't even mentioned a foot fetish prior to meeting), but definitely a good experience. I loved seeing how happy he was completely losing himself in the experience-- definitely one of the most satisfying encounters I've had.
 

Oof, this one is always conflicting. I love seeing my top enjoying himself while I'm in that position, but my feet are pretty ticklish and I'm always afraid I'm going to kick him in the face

EFF seems to be leading the charge against FOSTA at the moment, if you at still looking for an organisation to get involved with, @latbear4blk .
 
https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2018/06/eff-sues-invalidate-fosta-unconstitutional-internet-censorship-law

Here in SF, if you get out and about at all, you will see escorts and masseurs. In particular, if you go to a popular SOMA gym, you will see LOTS of escorts and masseurs. It becomes a commonplace experience. One time, I saw my favorite porn actor of all time, Tom Vaccaro, on a treadmill. He glanced over at me, we smiled at each other and we each went back to what we were doing. Only a couple weeks ago, I was waiting in line at Kaiser to pick up a script and right behind me was a masseur I had seen a few months before. It was an exceptional massage with a nice erotic component. We said Hi, I reminded him what my name was and we chatted in line while we were waiting - no discomfort at all.

this has happened to me 3x in the past 5 years. Once was at my gym, which was awkward. The other yesterday morning, when I was walking back to my place after a run. He was visiting a friend in my neighborhood. He later texted me that I was looking very, very fit, which made my morning. Fortunately, we are both discreet.

+1

What is wrong with you that you wish homelessness on someone just for being inexperienced and clumsy in a new environment? OP even said he had a good time, the kid was just green around the gills.
 
What exactly is the "lesson" here? Don't be poor? What was his crime, being new? Do you realize how soul-shatteringly hard it is to be homeless for any amount of time, let alone pull yourself out of it? Have you ever experienced poverty, or even spoken to an impoverished person?
 
Think before you speak next time.

He’s a nice guy, definitely green in the escorting biz. I WILL NEVER wish financial devastation or homelessness on any one. Your comment is unwarranted and abusive!!!!

What's the lesson?

As a novice, he probably needs to find the balance between establishing boundaries and a client base. He knows you're safe and you met his financial (and maybe physical) expectations. If he has a Rentmen profile, you can see when he opened the account. He also might figure flattery will get him more business with you, a proven entity. Regardless, you're wise to keep track of what both your budget and time will allow (as you mentioned in your original post). Write a nice review, if warranted, and then he'll expand his clientele.

Yes, they're trash because they encourage violent, useless ideologies like:
 

 
Additionally, PETA is comfortable using racism and sexism to promote their agenda, and I'm not down with that. I believe in thoughtful, holistic, and intersectional advocacy, not "eye for an eye" or "If you cant' beat em, join em" apporaches. I don't use my animal advocacy as a cover for some hidden loathing for humans. I want peace for all animals, and humans, believe it or not, are animals, too.
 
Anyway, this whole thread is just meatheads bashing on plant-based folks, and I'd rather not get dragged back into this through a quote. Happy to continue the conversation through PM. Thanks.

San Francisco to Los Angeles to San Diego on old Highway 1 has some of the best scenery in the nation. http://www.visitcalifornia.com/trip/highway-one-classic
 
The Aids/Lifecycle bike ride from SF to LA takes seven days. lots of info here on that portion of the trip: https://www.aidslifecycle.org
 
Lots of fun places to visit on the way.
 
http://www.visitcalifornia.com/sites/default/files/styles/medium/public/VCA_trip-map_highway-one-classic.png

One of the things you should consider is viewer traffic. I don't know how many people watch the RM cams, Chaturbate seems the most popular now, so you're most likely to get viewers there.
 
There are apps that let a model broadcast on at least 2 sites, maybe more. I see a lot of guys on CB and Cam4 at the same time, same stream.

I love watching cams, and it's exciting when the ones with viewership in the multi-thousands reply to a simple compliment from me. I don't know if I could ever bring myself to cam, as those that use hashtags for having tiny or small cocks are still at least a good inch longer than I am when fully hard. Then again, the market for cut guys who cam are vastly outnumbered by their uncut counterparts at a ratio of 1 to 14, so I would be a "rare breed".

I'm not an escort, but I watch a fair amount of camming. It takes time to build a following of people who tune in when you cam. Some of the most successful ones I've seen chat with their viewers, telling them about their lives, what they are thinking. These men seem to have the most stable income as far as I can tell. PM me and I'll give you some links to some successful models, I would suggest watching them to see how they do and emulate what works for you.
 
I know this may not be your thing. I have seen some that just get on and jerk it, but but generally there are a lot of hot guys who talk, and that brings in the cash. It's (in my mind) a lot like escorting. You are there to show the client a good time, to seem to (or actually) make a connection. The viewers want that too. It's much more exciting for me when a guy talks to me or response in the chat, or even better gives me a PM.

Racism is racism. Period. There are no degrees or levels to it. The idea of there being levels to racism is as much a lie as the entire construct of race which was made up by racist whites to devalue & dehumanize Blacks, and other indegenous people.

I agree with others on disclosing that info upfront. Not to make the escort comfortable, but to avoid an awkward situation for yourself. Or to avoid wasting your valuable time. And no you can't assume just cause their ad doesn't say they have racial hangups that they don't have them. Now if they say they are open to all types then yeah it's a safer bet. But most guys that have racial hangups probably are NOT going to put it in their ad. In my case I once had a client not tell me his race. I got there and he had this nervous look on his face that could have been avoided by just telling me beforehand. The whole time he waited for me to arrive he had to wonder... Of course I was okay with his race and we had a great time together. But not everyone is open, so save yourself the trouble.

Forgive me but I looked at the initial question and didn't read through the 3 pages of responses since I just wanted to throw out a quick answer. Unless you're hiring someone in an area that's extremely racially divided and would make sense for clients to openly put it out on their ads that they don't have any qualms with race, I would definitely assume that a lack of mentioning race at all in their ad would signal that they have no qualms with race. I've actually never even thought about writing in my ad that I don't really care about a client's age or race or anything like that, because it's just not even something I think about in terms of potential clients. I can't speak for hiring, but if I ever hookup in my personal life, the idea of someone not being "attracted" to a certain race is a complete pass and turn-off for me, even though generally that isn't my race since I'm pretty white.
 
I'll try not to start this up but I bet if I went through this and read everyone's comments I'd find this same observation pretty quickly. How many times do you really see guys with a "racial preference" that excludes white guys, as opposed to any other race...? I think most of the time when people have a "racial preference" it's not necessarily outright, angry cross-burning racism.. but it's certainly a level of like, subconscious, ingrained, institutionalized racism. To be completely honest when I was a young teenager, I used to think I didn't find black or hispanic men attractive at all, but still well before my 20s I started to wonder why I felt that way and let myself push that boundary a bit more, and I very quickly learned it wasn't at all a lack of attraction towards certain races, it was just weird institutionalized racism in my subconscious that without challenging it a bit, would barely let me even look at black or hispanic men in a physically attractive/sexual way. Once I realized that I challenged myself A LOT and got over it rreaalll quick because I'm personally not at all ok with living my life like that, and now I don't have any issues with finding any races unattractive because honestly no one really does, it's seriously an entirely socialized and institutionalized thing that sticks into the back of your head until you acknowledge it and ask yourself if you're really comfortable with having that preference or not.
 
Also just as a quick end note I'll add in that I also have an aversion to, especially in porn, terms like 'BBC' or whatever. Like on the other end of having a 'racial preference', it's also totally ingrained, institutionalized racism to fetishize race. On some level, if a provider were to advertise themselves in a way that fetishized their own race, I could understand them doing it in the sense of the niche they want to fill and they image they want to project, but I still do think providers advertising themselves that way is kinda problematic... but it's part of a much, much larger problem and if someone advertises themselves as like
"the asian sensation straight from the silk road" or whatever I think that's horrible but also it's not really solely that provider's responsibility to outwardly try to fix the problem if playing to it is something they actually want to do.
 
TL; DR: I don't think people with racial preferences are necessarily full-blown racist, although some certainly are... they're just too comfortable with ignoring and not doing anything to challenge that 'preference' that they seem to have.
 
 
EDIT: IF ANY of the random tagline things that I put in quotes and came up with on-the-fly are like taglines that anyone on this forum or any escort uses... I'M SO SORRY I PROMISE I'm not coming for ANYONE I was just coming up with a couple of dumb things on-the-fly to make a point. This is like the South Park disclaimer only unlike South Park I really was not at all trying to imitate or throw any shade.

Yes, they're trash because they encourage violent, useless ideologies like:
 

 
Additionally, PETA is comfortable using racism and sexism to promote their agenda, and I'm not down with that. I believe in thoughtful, holistic, and intersectional advocacy, not "eye for an eye" or "If you cant' beat em, join em" apporaches. I don't use my animal advocacy as a cover for some hidden loathing for humans. I want peace for all animals, and humans, believe it or not, are animals, too.
 
Anyway, this whole thread is just meatheads bashing on plant-based folks, and I'd rather not get dragged back into this through a quote. Happy to continue the conversation through PM. Thanks.

I've never thought of this as a fetish, but that describes me perfectly. I always linked it in my mind with being somewhat on the sub side of things (to use another fetish/kink as an example). Part of why I enjoy escorting is because I genuinely like making others feel good, especially folks who are considered "less than" because they're not conventionally attractive, able bodied, or whatever.

Your comment might warrant further research and maybe it's already out there. I've met many guys (aside from my BF) that has a strong urge or gets a strong pleasurable reaction from satisfying others. It might be a sense of control. I'm no expert. In my BF's case, he can please me many times over and not even think about his own desires. He says that he loves watching and helping me build up to a bursting moment. I've seen him do this with others too. It's somewhat odd, because in my humble opinion, he's gorgeous. He always was model type material. But, he has an insecure side (I think many hot guys do) that drives him to physically please others. In a sense, it gives him complete control (the little bitch).
I also have friends who are escorts and it's seems they also have this trait. It's what makes them enjoy the business so much. I bet there's research out there on the subject.

If you're into guys with TINY feet hit me up! I'm in NYC around 4x per year. I also make/sell custom videos.
 
I wear boys size 4.5. Totally impossible to find shoes in the men's section anywhere...