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Yeah, flakes are the bane of escorting, especially those that ghost with no explanation. I had a client not show up to our meeting place just yesterday afternoon. Guess he got cold feet, or his wife found out what he was doing I'm still learning how to detect the cold-feet types, but the few I've had the (mis)fortune of encountering usually are new to hiring, are very nervous-sounding in the phone, rather hurried to meet you ASAP (like "can I see you RIGHT NOW?"), and didn't really do their research about you, your rates, your specialities, etc. Of course, this doesn't get to the guys who pre-book a month in advance, only to flake 20 minutes before the appointment time.
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I enjoy kissing and thus far, my clients have been pretty decent at it, too. For me, the #1 thing is fresh breath. Brush and floss your teeth, and wash your ass (dick, too, but you'd be surprised by how many forget the backside), and we'll have a great time
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Rude messaging escorts have to put up with
AndreFuture replied to + StLouisOct's topic in Questions About Hiring
Funnily enough, I get contacted in waves usually around the same time each month. I'd say up to 50% of them are time wasters (including scams/phishing attempts, wanting to sext/phone sex, or otherwise are not not serious about booking). The other 50% are from people who show genuine interest and aren't trying to jerk off through our communication, though they may not complete a booking. -
Perfect. Funds are a bit tight now, but I hope to donate more (and more often) when business picks up. Maybe I'll be able to donate enough to be let into the Cabana
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Alternative form of Communication
AndreFuture replied to FigureSkater's topic in Questions About Hiring
I use a tracfone for work and try to get people to use Signal or some other secure messaging service. -
Yes to sugar baby; maybe to husband; and no to the need for sexual attraction. I'd have to probe why he wanted monogamy (possible control issues/jealousy/etc. there), but it wouldn't be a deal breaker. The amount would need to be significantly more than what I could possibly earn on my own (through my conventional profession or this), so the chance of this realistically happening are slim. I used to joke about marrying a very rich, estranged, childless octogenarian, but I enjoy my freedom too much and I'm not sure I could stomach the institution of marriage IRL.
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I also sent a donation via the cash app with the note: "Forum support." I've never used the Cash app before, so please let me know if it went through.
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Any developments in accepting bitcoin payments?
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It's always weirded me out, and I don't let people use it to refer to me. That said, it's not a hill I'm willing to die on as far as others using it generally.
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How long have you been an Escort?
AndreFuture replied to + VictorPowers's topic in Questions About Hiring
I saw my first client during the winter holiday season of 2015, so almost 3 years now. Feels like just yesterday... -
"Last longer go vegan", Peta's Super bowl censored ad.
AndreFuture replied to marylander1940's topic in The Lounge
Yes, they're trash because they encourage violent, useless ideologies like: Additionally, PETA is comfortable using racism and sexism to promote their agenda, and I'm not down with that. I believe in thoughtful, holistic, and intersectional advocacy, not "eye for an eye" or "If you cant' beat em, join em" apporaches. I don't use my animal advocacy as a cover for some hidden loathing for humans. I want peace for all animals, and humans, believe it or not, are animals, too. Anyway, this whole thread is just meatheads bashing on plant-based folks, and I'd rather not get dragged back into this through a quote. Happy to continue the conversation through PM. Thanks. -
WORKING at Palm Springs Weekend 2018????
AndreFuture replied to + freecahill1965's topic in Questions About Hiring
I know I was hoping I could take part in any extended birthday celebrations with you, too. Maybe next year. -
WORKING at Palm Springs Weekend 2018????
AndreFuture replied to + freecahill1965's topic in Questions About Hiring
Unfortunately, I won't be able to make it after all. -
I have not, but that's because I use the street address when asked for a home/physical address. You usually get a street address equivallent of your PO Box: e.g., for PO Box #123 located in a Post Office on 1000 Happystreet, San Francisco, CA, the street address would be 1000 Happystreet, Unit #123, San Francisco, CA 94000
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I suppose it's merely a notion for guys who haven't experienced it yet
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I didn't fully convey my thoughts on this: The use of SW as a synonym for prostitution is often at the exlcusion of acknowledging SW is a broad umbrella and descriptive of a host of other professions that are not prostitution (as was previously mentioned). At least, that's what I've come across. With the example I gave, it would be like someone using "automobile" to talk about their car, but insisting a truck and bus are not automobiles. Admittedly, humor is often context and culture dependent, but I personally find that amusing.
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It's a bit amusing to see people use "sex work" as a synonym for prostitution, since the latter is a subset of the former. It's also fascinating to see how other people understand and utilize terms (e.g., "escort" being distinctly not sex work or sexually related, as though "cars" can be distinct from and unrelated to "automobiles"). I'm fine with whatever terms are used, even if inacurate, so long as they're used respectfully. I often use "provider" and to a lesser extent "sex worker" and "escort" in a general and professional manner; among other providers and on Twitter, I'll use "hoe" as reclamation and in reference to myself, but admittedly be put off if a non SWer used it for me (unbalanced power dynamics being what they are).
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WORKING at Palm Springs Weekend 2018????
AndreFuture replied to + freecahill1965's topic in Questions About Hiring
I'll be attending again and staying at Canyon Club from the 14–18th. I still have some availability, especially towards the last few days. -
How does PIA compare to, say ProtonVPN (which you can get along with a supporter encrypted email account with ProtonMail)?
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Never, even for clients who emphatically ask for condoms. I find the discrepancy bizarre, but *shrugs*
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Yes, it really does happen! I quit my professional job because the people I worked with were awful and this is way more fun.
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Finding Out an Escort's Real Identity
AndreFuture replied to samandtham's topic in Questions About Hiring
Personally, I would prefer to be told that I have such a information leak. Right now I'm racking my brain trying to figure out how my escorting persona got linked with my private/professional social media accounts, as I *thought* did a decent job keeping them separate. It really hurts my whole "discreet services" angle if my business is all out there. So...if any of you gents have come across my real identity, I'd appreciate a heads up -
Happy birthday!
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Ever gotten a meeting off twitter?
AndreFuture replied to + Lefty82's topic in Questions About Hiring
I haven't had hires from Twitter. Mostly chatty guys DM me or try to cyber sex me for free. Most of my connections there are with other providers. -
How would escorts feel about this request?
AndreFuture replied to newtotheworld's topic in Questions About Hiring
I wouldn't. I love cuddling, with or without sex involved.
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