Reputation from AndreFuture - Page 32

AndreFuture reacted to + stevenkesslar in Would you rather overweight clients inform you about their expectations before meeting? February 6, 2016

Thanks. But here's a warning to all of you. I actually consider myself a whore.

AndreFuture got a reaction from mike carey in "Last longer go vegan", Peta's Super bowl censored ad. February 2, 2016

PETA doesn't represent vegans, just saying.

AndreFuture reacted to MikeBiDude in "Last longer go vegan", Peta's Super bowl censored ad. February 1, 2016

Animal fan here, not at all a fan of PETA

AndreFuture reacted to marylander1940 in "Last longer go vegan", Peta's Super bowl censored ad. February 1, 2016

AndreFuture reacted to MrMiniver in Seeking arrangements success! February 1, 2016

I agree completely with that. Currently, I am getting tons of messages by a personal trainer who is 6'4" (too tall for me) and who says he's straight. That's just not for me but he keeps sending pics and messages and sounds so desperate which when you look at his pics seems hard to fathom. But I guess he moved to a new state recently and the dream hasn't worked out yet. He said "I made out with a guy once playing truth or dare and it wasn't bad."

Yikes. It is an interesting place to peruse, as the poster said.

AndreFuture reacted to + Keith30309 in Seeking arrangements success! February 1, 2016

Perusing SA is an interesting exercise. I spent a little time scanning profiles and saw several people I knew/know including a companion I saw fairly consistently (I.e. 2-3 times/week for ~4 months) but disappeared. There's a number of guys who had been actively on RM and M4RN but fell off the radar, in some cases with completely different back stories (e.g., guy who was fairly well reviewed and I informally understand had several upscale clients but dropped his ad a few months ago; his SA profile says that he is homeless and living in an abandoned building.)

I was amazed at the number of people who seemed entitled ("impress me" & "in need of champagne and caviar")... One guy in search of an arrangement has a photo perched on the hood of a late model Mercedes and another pics from Paris and what looks like a Mediterranean coastal spot.

Some stories are sad - broken relationships and broken people - and others reflective of youthful wide-eyed excitement at the possibilities of life.

If you have time to kill it's an interesting anthropological exercise.

AndreFuture reacted to cany10011 in Seeking arrangements success! February 1, 2016

An arrangement of sorts can be considered "compensated" dating. I think it is fine if you've met someone you click with and don't mind helping out financially. It has worked for me and does not feel like I am paying someone on the clock, so to speak.

AndreFuture reacted to jimboivyo in Seeking arrangements success! February 1, 2016

I can't imagine many here being real sugar daddies. not with the regular commentary about high escort rates and penny pinching

AndreFuture reacted to cany10011 in Seeking arrangements success! February 1, 2016

Being a SD requires deep pockets for wooing the sugar baby: clothes, exotic trips, restaurants. After doing it for 3 years and having successfully sent off the graduate to another state, i think i much prefer the hourly appointments where the only expectation is companionship/sex. I can't tell you how many fancy jockstraps, Hermes ties and Burberry sweaters i've bought over the years for the sugar baby (as gifts beyond his stipend). My current escort sees me twice a week. We never discusssed it, but he does expect me to see him regularly as we always book his time for the next appointment when leaving or he texts me at the beginning of each week to check my availability. It's a win win situation. I don't know if he sees others but his ad isn't up but he can have a few regulars maybe. He gets regular dependable work from me and i get the benefit of his generosity with his time (he doesn't watch clock) without the expected outlay of fancy dinners (although we go out, it's not always a 3 or 4 star restaurant) and expensive trips.

AndreFuture reacted to jawjateck in Seeking arrangements success! February 1, 2016

Based on first-hand accounts from two former "babies" (they were naive), some SA "daddies" are savvy, manipulative *&!*#@s. They were frustrated while they were in it and lacked confidence to know what to do. Experience and hindsight allowed them to see it more accurately for what it was. Daddies wined 'em, dined 'em, and bought 'em nice clothes, but the kids were struggling to survive. I advised them to set a financial requirement. They did, and suddenly, both relationships ended. They were ok with it because they were not being helped in either situation.

AndreFuture reacted to Honestlittlefucker in Seeking arrangements success! February 1, 2016

This may be great at first, just don't be a sugar daddy statistic. Ive heard a lot of sugar babies coming back feeling like they were used and going to escorting because of how cheap the men on that site were.. Scoop this man up and treat him like gold.

AndreFuture reacted to Mack in Older Men... January 27, 2016

Nothing better than a boy who worships and services Dad dick.

AndreFuture reacted to + Truereview in Older Men... January 27, 2016

How do we define young or old? Isn't that relative or did I miss the policy guidelines?

I will date (and most likely bed) a man of any age as long as they are mentally mature, and I find myself physically attracted to them and intrigued by their personality. You'd be surprised how hard it is to find maturity, attractiveness, and personality in the same package - so age becomes irrelevant (in my eyes). I've dated the range from early 20s to 70s. I'm currently dating a 39 y/o who meets all 3 of my criteria and I'm, for the first time ever, dating someone near my age. I'm acknowledging this reality as I write this post, and it feels a bit odd. We'll see how that works out!

PS - For those wanting an update, yes, it is Sexyseatmate from the MIA-LAX holiday flight. Thank you, cuspids!

AndreFuture reacted to Reluctant Daddy in Older Men... January 27, 2016

Thank you for posting this. It couldn't have appeared at a better time. After spending some time on apps like Grindr and Scruff, I was beginning to feel like a pariah in the community. Not all older men are hot daddies. Some of us are silver haired fun uncles.

AndreFuture reacted to Jock123 in Older Men... January 27, 2016

The oldest man I ever met was 82(Sadly he has passed). We would get together for Bible Study before...ahem. Wow I'm going to Hell.

AndreFuture reacted to Rudynate in Older Men... January 27, 2016

Great thread. I feel like old guys are one of the world's best kept secrets. They're sort of like that exotic tourist destination that only the most sophisticated, in-the-know people know about. I don't want the word to get out about what fabulous partners they can be. I feel really fortunate to be attracted to men my own age.

AndreFuture reacted to Kuriousity in Older Men... January 27, 2016

I have come to suspect that some of the escorts who have been mentioned on this board or post here are actually quite partial to older men, and in a different set of circumstances would do their voodoo that they do free of charge....

AndreFuture reacted to MagicTony in Older Men... January 27, 2016

I've always loved older men... many of us have... here's an article that highlights the value of their experiences:

http://instinctmagazine.com/post/check%C2%A0your-ageism-mature-men-make-better-lovers

The oldest man I've been with was 84 years young... and I appreciate that experience to this day.