BigRic

I think you might be referring to this post about hottie boy Blake:
 

 
If so, it's not quite accurate to say that I said Blake's pics are/were in my "possession." I said that those pics are available to anyone who receives the Adonis e-mails. In other words, I think it should be clear to anyone without a critical agenda regarding me that I'm not 'holding out' on providing something that's not widely available elsewhere. It's a way of promoting Adonis not just 'pimping' personal faves, see?
 
I don't (yet?) have a working relationship with Blake (although we may work something out in terms of my hosting him the next time he comes to LA, which I have done for several fellow dancers when they've come to town over the past couple of years because I'm known as a solid host and a good dude) and he did not ask me to post his pictures. If he had, I would.
 
Your comments intimate that you might be under the misperception that my primary goal on these pages is to promote other guys. At the same time, I think it's plain to anyone who pays even modest attention to my posts that it's not accurate to say my participation here is about "actively only pursuing clients for [myself]." My comments in that regard were about what is and is not practical to do every time someone asks for pictures that, again, can be found fairly easily elsewhere.

And I've heard some guys prefer cut dick and American Muscle.

(This opinion is from his Montreal days.)
 
He knows he's a fine specimen of a man: Big dick, handsome, ripped. But he's incredibly full of himself that he comes across as a douche. No thanks.

@Eight by Six:
 
I'm happy to see a couple of client members push back on this notion of whether you should "ask for a discount or not." I don't mean to be disrespectful and I know part of the point of the forum is to air issues, pose question and get replies . . . and it's in that spirit that I ask, where the eff does the discount idea come from?
 
You're asking two guys to perform for you with a second set of eyes in the room who have--as far as you know at this time--never been with each other before. Unless and until they say otherwise (or an escort states in his ad that he does duos with so-and-so), you should be offering a premium above their stated rates, not contemplating a "discount" for a duo. Especially since one of them straight up says he's straight, there could be performance anxieties involved.
 
Re "I assume they won't try to charge for each other being there too. But probably should get clear on that." Yes, you should get clear and not ass-ume anything like this. A popular escort in Vegas told me he doubles his rate whenever there is a third party involved, even if it's another escort. And this is a dude who (allegedly) does not top or bottom. I'm not saying that's the most marketable approach.
 
But I am saying that you should approach this with largesse not chiseling foremost in mind. Respect your own cock/desire enough to respect the guys who have the potential to make your fantasies come true.
 
"Show [them] the money."

Eight by Six, you've had good advice here. FWIW in the past I've had plenty of threesomes, and organised some fourgies; I always found them fun. Generally I'd always play with each guy separately on an earlier occasion. This ensured that I had an appreciation of their abilities before I asked them to join me for some group fun.
 
I'm a lazy selfish top and my approach, when arranging some group fun, was as follows.
Send short but detailed emails or say you'd like a short phone conversation.
Be specific as to what you want to do/have done to you.
Ensure that the guys you're hiring like each other and will mesh well by telling them about each other. Do not spring any surprises.
If something is very important to you, mention it upfront - EG you are a voyeur but want to see the top unload so check where the bottom receives cum; EG I'm a top but I always wanted to see each guy cum, and I wanted to be the centre of attention and enjoyed seeing the hottest bottom swallow my load.
Aim for a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere beforehand, whether you're hosting at home or in an hotel. Find out their favourite beverages in advance.
When the guys arrive, have small bottles of water ready and open a bottle of wine.
Have plenty of condoms and lube near to hand
Have the agreed fees in separate, named envelopes - pay a full price and have the date of your dreams.

...Thanks to all of you who chimed in on my behalf...! During one of my intermittent 'responding' phases I was just able to message the people in question, and at least extend the olive branch of communication. Just got back from Phoenix, where AZDR0510 broke me in half, running up Camelback Mountain again. One of these days I'll catch up to you....! -crawls across Finish Line-

And why would I pay for him?

There are big stars who ARE simply flakes who answr when their rent needs to be paid, and ignore you when it doesn't, but there are ALSO guys like Tristan Baldwin who perform all over the world AND are simply just TOO inundated with texts emails etc from guys wanting appointments to return them all. With TB trust me it's not flaking or rudeness, it's a choice of sitting down to eat OR answering messages So YES keep trying! *I was ONLY able to begin seeing him because way back he had a fan/slave guy lol who acted as his Ann Hathaway, he was the contact he took all calls and answered all E's and Texts promply and handled all of TB's appointments relaying the schedule on to TB who THEN called you personally to confirm or say he was on his way etc. (my first appmnt, in LA, Tristan was VERY behind in his schedule and must have called me SIX times to keep me abreast until it got too late for ME and I had to cancel. BUT that made me try again and SO glad I did he was (and continues to be) worth it;)
SHUD YOU NEED ENCOURAGEMENT, I AGAIN SHARE A PHOTO I TOOK IN THE HOTEL ROOM HERE IN NYC (w MY boots in the background )

@Cee Jay, BigRic is worth the wait!
 
XL - I had been looking forward to seeing him for quite some time. I had a work related trip to Atlanta planned for this past December. Made plans with him, had confirmed and received a response from him a few hours before said appointment. He was a no show. He reached out to me 5 days after my appointment saying he was tired and fell asleep. FAIL
 
Miguel in NYC. On again, off again because he retires and returns. I had an appointment in early January that he cancelled a few hours prior because it was snowing. Was in NYC again in February and we were in contact 30 minutes before my appointment, and he too was a no show. When I reached out the following day, he said he would call me, but never did. FAIL, bye!

have done this several times.....I know both at the time, of course, but the two have only known each other some of the time......always communicate honestly with both of them.....if you trust them both, they may want to talk to each other beforehand (if that won't be awkward in some way).......tell each what you'd like to happen and see if they seem to agree.....by the way, one hour will go by very fast....can you make it two hours (expensive, I know)?
 
always pay their full fee....no haggling in this sort of case.....they don't know each other, so it's like hiring two guys independently....plus they have the extra pressure of putting on a satisfactory show for you

Agreed. But there is a limit especially when there is hotter guys out there, in my opinion. When he was dancing at Swinging Richards in Florida and Floppy Rooster he wasn't the "main" guy. He didn't get that much action. I feel like the days of extremely hot dancers are gone so we are stuck with cocky guys like Alfie who are now considered "headliners"

For more up to date photos, his Instagram handle is alfiecinematic . However, having met him in Montreal at Stock Bar a few years ago, he's a class A douchebag. Air of arrogance as if he's all that and a tendency to con you of your $$ if you're not careful. Looking at his Instagram videos and stories, the way he talks and carries himself today is very much so the same as he was in Montreal. For anyone considering him for a private, proceed with caution!

"I'm glad Trump won. Now we have a hot First Lady." --Alfie

Ive known him for years. He definitely has let the attention get to his head. He used to dance a while back at Swinging Richards back in Fort Lauderdale and he used to get pretty hot. However, I saw him a few months back and the lap dance was one of the worse I had. He is a sweet guy but you can tell its all fake.

I've met him about 6 times
Huge guy really nice and affectionate to me
I don't find him to be a clock watcher
Really good guy always returns my text
Kinda consider him a friend
Fun to be with really big awesome body
One of my favorites

Wonderful, even poetic, post ^^ @Bayman4Fun. I'm perturbed by the negative experiences you mention, especially those two a**holes who declined to do a massage session for you last week . . . in oh-so-progressive (?) SFO no less.

My experiences have some common elements with what film geek wrote a few months ago.
 
I've had the experience of gaining and losing vast amounts of weight throughout my life - multiple times. Society's reaction based on size is real. Obesity-discrimination is often called the last sanctioned bigotry in America. I can share tales of job-search, customer-service, dating, etc etc rejection... sometimes the same exact people and places treating me differently plus or minus 100+ lbs.
 
I've come to accept that I am what I am, (but not abandon the pursuit of healthier life). I've had enough negative reactions from escorts that I choose to disclose my size in advance. I was rejected by a couple offering 4-handed massage in the SF Bay Area just last week. With https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/codyanddrew/
 
I'd prefer to avoid the negatives, and just get it out there.
 
Parenthetically, I'm one of those clients who is very careful, asking a lot of questions in advance. I set some ground rules. I'm absolutely certain some escorts have declined my business because I asked too many questions. I choose to believe that in weeding out the bad prospects, I've probably turned-off some good ones, but its the price I pay in pursuit of satisfaction. That I negitotiate contracts in my professional life undoubtedly carries over to this behavior. So addressing my size when I'm larger is part of a process.
 
When I'm at a larger size, I prefer the airlines that have clearly published guidelines for passengers of size. I know what to expect etc. It feels awkward and inconsiderate when, last minute, I'm subjected to evaluation by gate agents or flight crew members.
 
So I disclose. In all situations, I am exceedingly attentive to hygiene, being aware of some extra challenges, and sensitive to the stereotypes of big-smelly-fat guy.
 
Reading the posts of most of the escorts on here is reassuring. Although it's been a long time, I've been with a lot of great guys for whom my size wasn't an issue.
 
Remember this.... the escorts making intelligent posts, demonstrating thoughtfulness here on the boards, aren't necessarily representative of the entire universe of escorts. Any escort or porn actor whose been around will tell you they've met more than their share of assholes in their industry. If by disclosing my size, I avoid the assholes, I'm okay with that. It just enhances the likelihood of working with the good guys.

A friend who also hires related this about his most recent escapade: he was going to see someone for the first time so he emailed his stats - 60, 5'6", 225. Escort had no problem in making the appointment.
One thing you need to know about my friend - he is hot because he simply exudes confidence. His attitude is that he is what he is and everybody else: get with the game. He also happens to be goodlooking regardless of the weight issue.
He said the escort had so much fun with him that they extended from 2 hours to overnight no extra charge! The escort told him straight out that the reason he is so much fun AND sexy is his confidence in himself.
 
You larger guys out there - shower, brush your hair and teeth, put on a smile, swagger a bit, and just go for it! There is just more of you to play with.

If ur in Vegas go with jamesXL or Ryan Steel
Two great choices and both super nice dudes

JamesXL is my regular. He is a super hot stud and a really nice, genuine guy. I am meeting with Ryan on Tuesday for my second time with him. I can hardly wait.

He does very very well

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Some gems here (including a few from the client side).
 

 

 

 
Yeah, it seems to me that an escort who refuses to make out after getting eaten out is tacitly expressing a lack of confidence in his pre-session nether region hygiene. Rather than a blanket 'I don't kiss after gettin' rimmed,' I'd hope escorts who are not comfortable with that prospect would find the politesse to bring up in advance whether a client they are otherwise cool mackin' with post-buttmunch would mind freshening up their lips/mouth/tongue post-rim and pre-muggin'.
 
A wee bit awkward to broach with a first-time client perhaps, but IMO preferable to the buzz kill of either asking a client to do so after he's been rimming me or saying a flat no.
 
I think Austin Powers' thoughts on the subject apply all around: "I know before I'm on the job I like to give my undercarriage a little, "How's your father?""

Oncology? Internal medicine? Can't be the Jules Stein Eye Institute or Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior since those facilities already have name-on-the-building benefactors. I'm thinking . . . psychopathology/mental health.

Oncology? Internal medicine? Can't be the Jules Stein Eye Institute or Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior since those facilities already have name-on-the-building benefactors. I'm thinking . . . psychopathology/mental health.