MikeyGMin

I would keep it to yourself. What possible good can you foresee coming from revealing the information? Do you think it will impress him?
 
Tip #2. Don't drink to the point that you lose control.

I liked the 8:00 show. Kurtis' tongue made FOUR trips to Draven's butt, which was awesome.
 
And at the end, Draven rimmed Kurtis' , and KW really acted like he enjoyed it. I know I sure liked seeing his really amazing butt get some attention.
 
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Pictures were taken and autographs given afterwards. They were both really nice to their audience, both inside and outside the auditorium.
 
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The 10:00 show had some ropes and some acrobatics.

I don't know Draven, but Kurtis is a genuinely nice guy. He has that "confidence without being cocky" thing going on. I bet it really shows when he is working a crowd.

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QTR is a smart, forward-thinking hetrosexual woman who hires escorts. I enjoy and welcome her participation in this forum.
 
I'm not really vested in this particular topic, but it seems to me that all she is saying is that you start from a place of believing the accuser is telling the truth and investigate accordingly. Of course the accused is legally presumed innocent until the accusation has been investigated. Is it really that much different then if I were to report a battery? Wouldn't I be believed until the accusation was proved false?

You made my day (or in this case, early morning) by calling me an optimist. I know several people who would be surprised by that characterization.

Our very own Kurtis Wolfe will be appearing on the 15th & 16th. I don't suppose they allow cameras?

Thanks. Although I know it was completely wrong of him and very creepy in retrospect, at the time I honestly didn't mind. The little horn dog in me was completely into it and kept going back for more. He also never buggered me.
 
"Inappropriate" just from a social and realistic point of view. I realize that many / most people think that men in this age range are at their most beautiful, so I don't really find the attraction inappropriate. Acting on it however makes me feel like a cliché of the older man chasing the younger man. I think that Calvin Klein looks ridiculous with his boy toys, and don't want that for myself.
 
The regular that I mention all of the time is only 27-years old. I absolutely indulge that attraction and love every minute of it, but I don't try to date men that young. I just don't think it's realistic.

I have worked in finance (that's my excuse) for a high-tech company that makes all this crap -- for more than 20 years -- and I don't have a clue what he said either!

Never had a massage from a guy who advertised "mutual touch" so cannot say. But I think it's worth the chance since you know a bit more of expectations before meeting. Massage ads have changed a lot recently (from therapeutic, sensual, erotic, to more benign heal, relax). I recently had a massage from a guy who advertised "relax", but nothing in his ad would lead you to believe anything beyond massage should be expected. It was actually a very good massage. At one point, I asked if I may touch him (I didn't want to assume anything). I'll never forget his response when he said "not a museum". I only lightly grazed his inner thighs with the back of my hands. I hope to see him again...soon.

I have worked in finance (that's my excuse) for a high-tech company that makes all this crap -- for more than 20 years -- and I don't have a clue what he said either!

The story of my life...don't drink & flirt past 2am

Well, welcome to the forum. I appreciate the ATX solidarity. If you've been reading the board for any time, you probably know we have a couple really good options here. (The reason I skipped on the unknown.) Feel free to PM me anytime if I can return the favor.

Sexyeuro is a fake. Definitely not the same guy as in the pics -- not even close. He's Eastern European but otherwise a total waste of time and money. And to cap it all off, he gives a shit massage.

David Muir

Thank you for stating that Bashful. That reminded me: Russianhot used to go by Bogdan and he has 10 daddyreviews, all positive with lots of detail. Latest 9/15. I'm surprised he changed his handle.

I've been with Russianhot a few times. Nice guy, great bod, looks like pix. PM me for details if you like.

Besides, I am getting myself in cam model shape...lol....just kidding

I'm not sure how many deals it seals, but it works to keep him in my mind. Every time I see it I review the pictures and do the ol' "Next time I'm in LA" thing in my head.

I know this is an older post, but I would like to add my thoughts.
 
For medical reasons, by my early 20's I was over 300 pounds. The gay world is very superficial, and I couldn't get a date. By 23, I was still a virgin, and that's when I started hiring escorts. I probably try about 6 new escorts a year, one every other month or so, and have done so for the last 15 years, and I have had many regulars, although I travel so much for work it makes it difficult for anything regular.
 
I learned early on to always tell them my weight and make sure that they were okay with it. When hiring an escort, I do it not only for the sex, but to feel sexy myself. Any escort can get a guy off, that's just the basics. An exceptional escort will make you feel like the sexiest man alive while you are with him. He will make you feel like you are the only person in the world that matters to him. It's a feeling that I don't get from anyone in the real world, and one why I enjoy the company of a great escort so much.
 
I have found that if I don't prepare them for what to expect, then I often find disappointment in the meeting. I had escorts turn me away at the door, which is exactly the opposite of the confidence boost I wanted. I've had escorts take me in, but not want to touch me, basically they touched as little as possible, had me jerk myself off, took my money, and shoved me out the door. I've had escorts who couldn't get hard, which makes it difficult for them to fuck me. This was all when I was in my early 20's, and a lot of my paycheck went to hiring them. Then I got lucky and hired Cameron Taylor. I warned him that I was 350 lbs, and he told me that was fine, but for the first time he made me feel like the sexiest man alive.
 
There's nothing better than seeing a smile at the door rather than disappointment. There's nothing better than an escort who can't keep their hands off you. There's nothing better than an escort who is hard the instant he sees you. And sure, this may take a little prep on their part. I find the more information I give them, the better prepared they are for the appointment, and the better time I have.
I have escorts flat out tell me that they aren't interested when I've told them my weight, and I do appreciate that. It means that they aren't wasting my time or money for a less than perfect experience.
I've had escorts who simply didn't return my text or email after I told them I was heavy. Sure I was disappointed, but not as disappointed as I would have been paying their rate and having a bad experience.
 
My vote is always tell them, If they are good at what they will do, it will only help them prepare a more pleasurable experience. If they turn you away, you are better off anyways.

I can't imagine many here being real sugar daddies. not with the regular commentary about high escort rates and penny pinching

This is how I operate also. Especially when someone has been inconsiderate rather than malicious. If it can't be changed, I really look deep to decide which is more painful... Walking away or living with it..and then I do the opposite

It depends on how much you will be hurt to lose him/her/them from your life. If you have totally lost faith, then let them go. If you really can't let go, talk to them, forgive and try again. If you cant talk to them or let go, swallow hard, and continue the relatioship as is. There are really only three responses to any problem.
1. Walk away from it
2. Change it
3. Live with it.
I'm sorry you have been hurt. warm hugs to you.

I don't really agree. It doesn't need to be a lack of self-esteem that makes you acknowledge that the vast majority of young guys are not interested in older guys. So if your idea of success is scoring with young guys, outside the escorting world, it's just a fact of life that you have to come to terms with. I think what's really key is to not let that be the determining factor in your happiness or self-satisfaction. Those are the guys who make themselves miserable and let it impact their self-esteem.

My point had to do with ageism, the worship of youth, and close-mindedness by everybody, young and old. I don't think we disagree on the current realities as much as you may think, as I agree the majority (not willing to categorize further without actual data beyond personal observation) of young guys are not interested in guys over a certain age, whatever that age might be.
 
I agree with the rest of your statement without reservation.

Folks, let it be in writing and witnessed here that if poor TR is found dead in a ditch With a bullet hole in his head...it was KUR! I'll come back and haunt ya, mister!