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Which is what I'm saying. Some gay men spend ALL their time disassociating themselves from the rest of humanity and only want to be in an all gay environment. SO they can't function with mainstream people and won't. My wife and I aren't even what you'd call mainstream but once we had kids 90% of the gay friends disappeared.

Yeah. He's amazing. He used to live in NYC. Met up with him in Miami a few times. Amazing bottom. Highly recommended.

Some of them live a few blocks away. They just can't be bothered coming around if they have to behave themselves in front of children.

Met him a couple months ago at his apartment in Brooklyn. Nice fellow. Slim but defined dancer's body. Massage was decent. Puts a lot of effort, but not really trained so more sensual than therapeutic. A bit chatty for my tastes. I didn't repeat.

OH God...I forgot about those. You're right. IT's all about the cock. Anonymous sex doesn't even register in my brain. I'm not even very good with Grindr hook ups. I've agreed to meet people only to discover they are effeminate or have bad breath and I need to make an escape plan. ( " Sorry..I'm not feeling well".... ) and I'm out the door. I need the whole package to be turned on. Face, body, personality and smell.

Although the idea of college towns being a hotbed for sex-for-pay activity..I don't think that you'll find many college students on Rent.men. I've always noticed an abundance of young guys working the pro sites in London and Hong Kong.

Speaking as a top...there's nothing sexier than a male ballet dancer (except for a college wrestler ).

What exactly happened since May that turned you off to the experience ?

Wouldn't be the first provider to mix in a few of his young-n-hot photos with his recent dad-bod pix.

Rob is spot on with that advice. I've accidentally searched "THIS TOPIC" by mistake more than once while thinking...."I know damn well this was discussed before." Always make sure your search is set to EVERYWHERE if you're having trouble finding something.

I've been to all three. You definitely get a bigger variety of people in Hong Kong and Singapore. Shanghai is still a mostly Chinese population. Singapore gets a lot of handsome Thai, Indian and other men from south east Asia. To me, the Thai are the sexiest and tend more toward gym culture in terms of physique. And as Benjamin mentioned, the food scene is not to be beat in Singapore.

And conveniently the best local food places are right there adjacent to the red light district !! ( Geylang )

Do you think a provider could do well with a huge cock, while being otherwise unattractive ?

I've been to many. But never without seeing who I am with.

I've only come across that once. ( and to be clear...I've fucked my way through a lot of men when I was younger ) It was a damn shame because the guys was truly adorable. Thankfully he was a total bottom with a nice fat round butt...so I ignored the dick altogether

Well...maybe I mis spoke. I didn't mean to say I think ALL gay are cock size obsessed. I am just saying I've noticed more than a small number of them are. Yes my straight friends will obsess over some big tits. But those tits are attached to a person, not just floating around faceless. Maybe they lower their standards on a pretty face for big tits. But I get messages on Grindr with guys who seem to be under the impression that I'm going to hook up with them after ONLY sharing a photo of a penis

How many degrees of low self esteem does one need to allow a random, unseen person to fuck them ? 🤔

On this we definitely agree. I can't begin to tell you the number of men who hit me up on Grindr, starting with a message that is nothing but a photo of a penis. I find this completely baffling. As if a dick-pic is going to entice me enough to not notice that the rest of you is (probably) pretty blah.

Yup. I'm also Pennsylvania Deitsch. Grew up religious conservative. Moved to NYC at 25 years old. 28 years later I still have very few gay friends. I am however bisexual myself and married with kids..but identified as "gay" in my late 20s...and did all the night clubs / sex clubs and had lots of gay friends at one time. Unfortunately my experience is that gays are not as loyal as my straight friends unless you're a complete clone of themselves. If you don't spend all your time doing "gay things" they will abandon you. Try having a couple of kids and they will all send expensive baby gifts, beautifully wrapped and then you will never hear from them again. 😕 It's mostly (in MY experience) a lifestyle overlap issue. If you don't hang out every night at the local gay bar and go to every Broadway show, they don't know how to socialize with you...so they don't. Most of the few gay friends that I DO still have tend to be highly educated, and well traveled and more interested in life outside the gay bar. Those are hard to find...but they're out there. Even on C.o.M. I have cyber-met a few nice fellows who take an interest in my life in spite of it being different from their own, while the small majority can get pretty nasty and dismissive when you disagree with them.

Yet. Here I am pondering away. I have straight friends who love a big set of tits. But I've never seen them oggle some ugly chick just because she's got huge hits. Gays on the other hand seem to overlook everything else and worship on their knees for a big fat cock. No matter what it's attached to.

I get that everyone has different tastes and a cute guy with a great butt is one of mine. I'm just always baffled by the number of men who talk about how "perfect" someone is simply because they have a big fat cock. These things for me are icing on the cake. I need the person themselves to be attractive first.

Yup. Ng is a common family name in Signapore.

I agree. But I think this guy isn't Thai. His name (Ng) is Chinese and he looks Chinese.

Do I ? Is it ? Personally, I've never really understood sexual obsession with body parts. Does nothing for me. I'm a big picture person. Face/body/voice/smell/personalty are my triggers. But I notice a lot of gay men will look past all of that if you've got a big fat cock.