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There's no prejudice here about making mistakes. So no reason to be silent.

Circle of life.

I was surprised by McGregor's vocal skills in Moulin Rouge. Always respected him as a talented ( and handsome) actor. Had no idea he could sing too !

Don't humiliate yourself.

I am possibly one of those people described above who doesn't necessarily NEED to pay. I also am not single...so really don't NEED to pay. I hire because I am too old to have access to these incredibly beautiful young men who are out there today. If I need to PAY to get access to people who wouldn't otherwise hit me up, so be it !! I don't mind a bit of flattery when it comes...but I don't buy into it and don't condemn a young man for trying to make me feel good. It's all part of the game. If I can make my paid-partner reach orgasm too...then all the better. I would never assume I am owed something for my part. It's not why I am there...but it IS why THEY are there !

I'm old enough to know the game by now. I am well aware of what I can and can't get. Anyone who's hitting on me, who's WAY out of my league, simply sees Sugar Daddy potential. Which is well and good for single men to pursue...but I prefer to keep my relationships with my hires, friendly, professional and drama free.

I can't imagine why I would WANT to hire someone who ISN'T "out of my league" ? I can get people IN my league for free ! 😆

BestAsianboy.....(s) / the glamor shots and the 170 pound "twink" are all red flags indicating the Asian Spa scam.

Ha ! Good term. I like that. I would tend to agree. Never understood the obsession with massive penis size. I bottomed pretty regularly when I was in my 20s and was never "pleased" to discover my conquest was super hung. ( Of course this was pre-internet where you had no idea what someone looked like naked ) For me it was always annoying and uncomfortable...but I would, nonetheless, always do my best to please my partner in spite of the pain and discomfort.

Agreed

At least he's just homeless and possibly can get the help he needs. There are a lot of gay men who get addicted to meth and end up with their dead body being carried away from a circuit party. When I was younger, I used to go to Fire Island every summer. The "Pines Party" always had one or two deaths during the even that they had to clean up as discreetly as possible. Very sad. Hope this handsome fellow gets some support and a road to recovery.

Huh ????? Why are YOU being overly sensitive and/or looking to feel victimized ?? 🤔 That was a legitimate question. And I have asked it before. I am genuinely curious why some gay men have such a fascination with the size of someone's penis as their number one priority. I've seen members here getting all hot and bothered over some burly old escort who's long past his prime simply because he's got a huge member. I am not wired this way at all...So I find it fascinating..and yes a bit weird. Doesn't mean I am being "mean" by asking about it, and asking how important it is to certain people. Chill.

Do you need a big dick to suck it ?

Last time I was in Mexico city, I was meeting some friends for lunch. They were an hour late, because they were victims of an attempted car-jacking and had to answer a lot of questions for the police because my friend shot the carjackers with her beautiful pearl-handle pistol that she carries in her purse. Of course Meixco City isn't a hell-hole of unbridled crime. But to claim it's "safe" would be grossly inaccurate. So dangerous- yes. Just maybe not "super dangerous".

Does a top client really care ? I know I don't.

What a BIZARRE testing method ! You NEED to KILL the animal to determine IF it's had rabies ??? "Ok....test is clear...you can have your (now, dead) squirrel back". 😟

Certain gay men can't help but feel their inferiority when someone they think is superior reminds them of why they feel inferior. That said...my statement simply meant that some of us have responsibilities to others and some of us don't. As @SirBillybob pointed out we ALL have a responsibility to ourselves to mitigate risk. The trade-off risk for a minor bit of additional dick-sensitivity pleasure may likely correlate with how much you don't care about your health because nobody else cares.

Me too ! 😆

Hopeful that "Chad" and "Oklahoma" put down that crack pipe and sobered up today.

Oh..absolutely. It's actually rather difficult to find charities that one might want to support once you do a little "digging" into their finances. The majority spend huge sums on themselves (staffing, fundraising, real estate and travel)...before any of the funding actually goes to the charity.

So...people who don't care if they die from sexually transmitted diseases (as long as it's not HIV) because they don't have any responsibility to anyone else. Maybe that's why I'm of a very different attitude on the subject. I have a wife and children and other family and friends that rely on me. So..yes..I can't be so careless about my health. Maybe its lonliness that leads other to playing Russian Roulette with their sex life.

What sort of "flexibility"? An ability to pretend that other dangerous STIs don't exist?

Why would you be envious of people playing Russian Roulette with their health? There's an outbreak of anti-biotic-resistant gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis going around because of people who run around barebacking everyone they meet.

I don't know what LookingAround is referring to...I just know when I was younger I was a VERY very sexual person who had sex with a LOT of different people. I always used condoms and over the course of 15 years never caught anything. I see no reason to increase my risk of disease by taking a pill that ONLY prevents one infection. That's just ridiculous and anyone who subscribes to that lifestyle is being deliberately oblivious to the risks of other STIs.

Dude is trippin' on something.