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I agree with you. I don't feel enlightened. I expected a professional experience revelation.

As I aged everyone wanted ME to top. I'm so out of practice at this point I would definitley want to get prepared...(if the right opportunity knocked)

When I was younger (20's) I bottomed a lot. I knew nothing about douching. Never had an "accident".

I'm sure I've far surpassed 1000 people by now...just asking a question. Not saying there's a right or wrong. I just don't understand what being circumcised has to do with lube. I've never used lubricant except when I fuck. Enlighten me.

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You learn something new every day here. 🤣 In all my years, I've never heard of that...nor do I even understand WHY I would WANT to do that !

Same here. In high school we never wrapped ourselves in a towel. We'd undress, and head to the showers which were a single big tiled room with dozens of shower heads. No privacy at all....so was rather pointless to wrap yourself in a towel only to show up in a room where you're naked with everyone else. Over the last several years, at my fitness center, I've noticed all the young guys in the locker room go through all kinds of gymnastics to keep themselves covered up while undressing, as if they would be raped, if a glimpse of flesh were to be exposed. Even the GIRLS in my High School were not SO demure about changing. When we'd travel to another town for football games, we'd go in our street clothes and change into our uniforms on the bus together as we neared our destination. The girls and boys would strip down to our underwear and have a giggle but nobody acted like they'd be raped over a quick view of some flesh. I personally find this new extreme-modesty very strange. But then I also attended many sex parties in the 90s where everyone was naked and fucking...so yeah..I, personally have ZERO hang-ups about nudity. I find these younger guys to be WAY uptight about it. I wouldn't be surprised if they went under their sheets to get naked during a hook up ! ha

I'm completely lost. Sorry. Maybe the others "get" that comment...but I have no idea what you're talking about. I'm circumcised too. ( 1970's American baby )

I am not judging anyone's sexual tastes. I am curiously asking WHY people are so opposed to condoms. There's a big difference.

Then I'm confused. Fire Island was definitely full of older-in-shape men with money. ( At least in the Pines ) The Grove was full of Lesbians. I didn't see many children. That's the only difference I hear.

I totally feel you, there. I did have some good success in the early days of online hook ups....Manhunt, Adam4Adam and GayRomeo ( now Planet Romeo ) but I agree...Grindr is so full of fakes and flakes it's nearly impossible to actually snag a "snack" anymore.

Why would you lube up BEFORE you put on a condom ? 🤔 Sounds like you never bothered with condoms. I was a teenager in the middle of the AIDS crisis ...so I didn't have a choice. I was also sexually active with girls...so I additionally wanted to make sure any "family planning" was in MY hands, not just hers.

I've been to Fire Island, ( both the Pines and the Grove ) but never been to Provincetown..what's the difference ? 🤔

I seem to be the outlier here. Everyone talks about how it feels so much better without a condom. Are you guys slapping on a garbage bag or something 🤔? Outside of the annoying 20 seconds it takes to open a condom wrapper and place it on my cock...the sensation difference is SO miniscule to me I see ABSOLUTELY NO reason to choose risk of spreading contagious diseases. I think it's all mental if you think it's that different.

Exactly my experience. The party-gays seem to be more clique-ish than the mean-girls were in High School.

Which is why I recommended Journal Square as a good location for providers to stay when visiting NYC. (Assuming they are doing mostly outcalls.) Paying $400 a night to be in Manhattan cuts into your bottom line.

And you didn't answer my question. What are you basing your judgement on ? How do you feel that you KNOW your attackers were "straight" ? The statistics are readily available online to back up my statement

..which is find ridiculous. What a world these millennials are creating ! No wonder they are always depressed.

Traveling to NYC is like visiting a foreign country when it comes to prices.

Most parking garages are $40 to $50 anhour...one minute over and you're paying double that. Yeah...completely impractical to drive in NYC.

I'm sure you WANT to believe that but the statistics don't line up with your thoughts on the matter. Men are men.

Most New Yorkers don't own a car and are accustomed to the subway or PATH. Those who think they are too good for public transportation will take an Uber. Nobody will travel to the Bronx. Few will travel to Queens. Some will travel to Brooklyn. You are always better off in Jersey City which is considered the safer choice when it comes to out of town travel. Easy to reach by PATH train (which is also considered safer than subway travel at night )

I disagree (slightly). Once the system allowed mentally ill people the right to self determination, half-way houses were set up as methods of integrating them back into society. Consistently they failed to volunteer to remain in a structured and healthy environment. Mentally ill people will more often choose the freedom of the streets.

Which makes sense since 10% of the population is gay and another 12 to 15% are actively bisexual. (Obviously the polling can be way off..but here the numbers make sense. )