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"Cam" is a personal friend of mine. He's a sweetheart.

Held captive and helpless...so I can use them when I want / how I want. I'm sure this bondage fetish comes from watching reruns of Batman when I was a kid.

I would think 60 is exactly when someone WOULD be hiring. Too old to be trawling for sex on Grindr but still young enough to get it up. Overall..."60" looks different for different people. I have a client who was hiring well into his 70s. I think your choice is an individual one. It's been discussed here on the forum, many times that certain professionals do NOT judge clients on looks but personality. So insecurity about being "too old" to be a sexually active man should not be held.

Absolutely. I get tons of points by using my AMEX for virtually all purchases. I pay the card in full every month. During the extended shut down of Covid that card came in handy paying bills when my cash was needed to cover mortgages that were normally paid by tenants. ( who disappeared during Covid ..and I was left with empty apartments to pay for ) and very little income from my architecture business which also saw extensive delays.

And confusing....I checked out his profile and wondered if I had opened up the wrong link.

Better. Thanks.

Calling the cops??... 🤔 I am confused ...did he offer you a menu of sexual flavors or did he steal your wallet ???

Well...if you book a one hour appointment it IS expected that you PAY for the hour, whether you change your mind or not. If you go to a restaurant and order food...you don't get to pay for just what you ate.

I think it's already quite normal.

What is it then ?

So many people joining the site ...just to join this conversation....🤔

Let's not start inserting political commentary.

What about tipping well "upfront" feels "yucky" ? If I try someone new and I enjoy them, I always tip generously. That starts the relationship on a good note if you return. I see nothing yucky about wanting to show that you're a good repeat customer.

Or should we start a thread about hot assassins? 🤔

Typically ...no. Sometimes, yes. You cant really assume why communication struggles in ANY relationship of any kind. There are a multitude of reasons why people take forever to get back to you.

All that can be handled legally without a marriage contract. Your only real benefit in marriage is taxation. For gay couples, owning property in common was always insulting when their life partner would pass and you'd need to pay inheritance tax on something that was already yours! With this fellow, you haven't built a life together so protecting him from inheritance tax isn't the same priority. Your home is NOT his home. He IS inheriting it. I would suggest a few years living together and see how that goes before entertaining a marriage contact that could lead to an expensive divorce if the "taking out the garbage" lifestyle isn't as appealing as the vacations together.

Absolutely. Sounds like a script from a movie.

Reached out to him. Sent me an address that didn't exist when I looked for it on Google maps. I questioned him via text about the mistake and he never got back to me. Seems a bit sketchy.

I agree. I feel ripped off. Hate the feeling of a theragun. I would never pay for that. Especially insulting if someone is charging professional rates, over $200.

Marijuana or a good stiff drink lowers inhibitions when preparing for a gang bang. Otherwise scrub your ass and rinse your mouth and go with the flow.

Another one who's been 30 forever.

These two sentences when paired together mean: NO THANK YOU

Why ? What would you get for marrying this person ? If you like someone's company, you stay with them. Marriage certificates don't confirm your love, they confirm your property rights and in most states split your assets 50/50 no matter who came in with what. Unless you have built a life together and/or have children in see no benefit for you in marriage..but a multitude of benefits for your young friend should he marry and then divorce you. At minimum, get a solid pre-nup, but beware even with a contract, judges have been known to call them invalid and push for the standard distribution.

Why do his photos look like they were taken with kodakchrome film in the 70s ?

He says 35....which usually means 42. I am assuming some of the photos are from when he was 32. Nice looking man (or at least..used to be ). But even in his selections of photos you can see they spread over several time periods.