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PreP has kept a lot of gay and bisexual men from dying of HIV while killing a few more with antibiotic-resistant syphilis

Why not ? Do they get worn out if they have a lot of sex with people ? This actually seems like reverse-logic. I would say the popular guy with lots of clients is probably the better/more experienced lay.

THANK YOU @Monarchy79 ! I wish more people GOT that ...too much commentary on C.o.M. always about finding cheap foreigners to exploit.

I disagree completely. Quite the opposite. Clearly this person knows him better than anyone. Personality is important in a business like massage / escorting . So any insights are helpful . Especially one with a great deal of experience, whether positive or negative.

Unfortunately not everyone gets that. A lot of providers are wrapping things up as soon as I shoot my (first) load.

I will add that @Jamie21is not working in a region where sex-work is criminalized ...so discretion is important in the US. when communicating on phone or text. Although Jamie is right...it's best to be clear....asking someone for sex in exchange for money is still illegal in the United States so I would do the discussing in private / never in writing .

You also agreed to a massage. Not a blow-job or ass-fucking. If things go into escort territory, you should pay for the massage and "tip" generously for the extras. Not hand him a $20 and say thanks for the fun.

Lol. #1 It was quite a few years ago before the gray hair...and I just let him suck me off...so i suppose the turn-on was the celebrity quality.

If a masseur is so inclined to "go there" with escort quality service I pay them exactly what I would have paid an escort.

I have to say, I have always defended the rights of people to engage in sex work. But their right is to CHOOSE to engage in sex work through their own volition. Taking advantage of people who are poor and desperate and might not be otherwise comfortable selling sexual favors is beyond WRONG.

I have to disagree. Maybe in certain parts of America. When I was a kid, and you went to the public swimming pool...you would go to the locker room after /undress/ walk naked into the shower ( with my father ) and rinse off. When I was in High School, we undressed in front of one another/ showered in front of one another. Never even held up a towel. Same in college (Syracuse University) but at University you'd encounter students from other cultures who WERE more modest. None of the Americans I encountered had any issues until the 2000s.

There are escorts who are also good masseurs but I don't think most masseurs are in the business of providing faux-romantic-interludes. There's an exception to every rule, but I think as @BuffaloKyle stated above, you may find what you want faster on Rent.men and search for massage.

I think this thread may help a lot of us who may have struggled with keeping friends who happen to be gay.

Good find. I do love a pocket size, bottom boy. 🍑

Now in New York. I agree about the body art. Beautiful body, cute face....WHY would you ruin all that with such ugly choices of tattoos ? Very sad. Still kinda fuckable tho.

I've approached several models and "porn performers" on Twitter. Simply asked if they would be interested in "collaborating off camera with me". Those who DO escort respond. The rest tend to ignore me. Doesn't hurt to ask. Just a matter of doing it in the right way as to not put them at risk of getting shut down.

I can't speak for P-town but Fire Island is beautiful and unique even if you DON'T go there to snort a lot of meth and fuck a bunch of strangers in the bushes.

Exactly. Point being that I know years ago...that Equinox used to be pretty active in the steam room. I've had more than one B.J. there. ( By the way....Alan likes to swallow ) 😋

Great body.

YMMV is the correct answer

Salvador is cock-a-block, full of incredibly sexy, dark skinned men who are available "rough trade". I used a tour guide who helped me safely make arrangements with a few (who wouldn't stab me after ...or during sex). Some very hot men. Most identify as gay4pay only so don't expect a romantic rendezvous...but there were a few who had the most beautiful muscular bodies I've ever had the pleasure of licking and sucking. It's also an interesting city culturally...but again I recommend using an experienced tour guide to avoid muggings.

Alan Cumming sucked me off at the Equinox on Greenwich Ave. (But that was many years ago when I had a membership before today's ridiculous price structure.)

I feel the same. Pleasant looking...but I don't see myself reaching for my wallet.

I agree with you. I don't feel enlightened. I expected a professional experience revelation.