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So if he's not so hot...then why would anyone WANT to kiss him ? 🤔

No. Unlike many people here, I have no problem providing photos of myself before a meet. Even when I initially reach-out I say I am a "53 y.o.athletic/healthy married bi male". That description often leads to being quoted a reasonable rate and sometimes launches a request for photos. That further gets me a better rate, becasue I don't mind sharing a photo. They sent me theirs. Why not send my own.

I disagree on both points. I have run across MANY examples where members here paid significantly more than I did. But those clients were also much older and fatter than I am. That said.... the industry is sort of split between providers who can fuck anything that moves and those who are more selective about their clientele. It's neither a good or bad business practice just a different skill set for each. Some will hold their nose and close their eyes for extra $. Other's just will decline the customer. And some will offer discounted rater for younger, better looking men who have provided photos to prove they are an easier meet up. What I DO agree with from @marylander1940 is that a weekly or monthly client will often get better pricing for regular service.

This is funny mainly because it's not necessarily untrue. 😉

Well...unless I'm mistaken, you're not bisexual...so I don't think YOUR experience as a gay man would be the same as mine. Geography had a lot to do with our experiences too. I live in NYC, where straight men are not always so afraid to express camaraderie with people of another sexual nature. I speak only from my own experience and don't suggest everyone's experiences are the same. But I can say quite clearly that the most disparaging remarks I get about being bisexaul come from gay men, not straight men.

Am I ? I don't think that's true. There are several men here who identify as bisexual. Gays never believe me. Straight people accept the bisexual classification more readily. For some reason if you like to suck dick the gays expect you to immediately join their club.

Gay" is a moniker used for "homosexual". You and I seem to be using different definitions of the word. There is no "ridicule" intrinsic to the definition I am using.

Sorry. That's just NOT been my experience. AT ALL.. My straight friends are FAR more accepting than most of the gay people I meet who roll their eyes when I say I'm bisexual. There are several gentlemen here on C.o.M. who have done the same. It's sad because you'd think that gay men woukd be less judgemental. But they arent.

Two of these photos were very the same ones I saw 15 years ago when I met him. Ancient history at this point.

Thanks. He's still very handsome after many years in the business.

I'm about the same age as you. Never had a problem with safe sex and I still don't. I literally used to teach a workshop with a safe sex outreach program for gay men to learn to avoid HIV transmission. Now it seems everyone is avoiding HIV with PreP but couldn't care less about the damage every other STI could and will inflict on their bodies. So..no. I don't feel jealous. I feel sad for these kids who have blinders on.

I understand that. Maybe it should have been. In my experience, a lot of closeted men struggle most with the gay=effeminate narrative. I would never suggest to anyone struggling with their sexual identity that they must make a binary sexual selection. There's a huge range of gray-area sexuality for many people. It can cause a lot of confusion to push someone to label themselves as "gay"before they have accepted that moniker for their own life.

Bisexuality isn't a label. It's a human condition with a wide range of expressions. I don't subscribe to this idea that you need to pick a side. Lots of men lead fairly mainstream heterosexual lifestyles but have desire for same sex encounters. Those who are conflicted about those feelings often express that conflict through homophobic rhetoric.

Marketing the "maybe". I might be gay.... ....me too !!

Great photos. There's quite a lot of handsome men coming out of Columbia lately. Reminds me of the rush of Rio de Janeiro rent boys in the mid 2000s.

Homophobic gay men is nothing new. But curious what you mean when you say "he's telling me he's gay". What is it you said to him that made him defensive ? His attitude that there's "no such thing as bi" is an emotional storm cloud for many men who identify as straight but also enjoy sexual contact with male partners..so any kind of teasing can come off as humiliation rather than humor. Personally, I avoid labels of gay and straight and view everyone as being potentially flexible in terms of attraction and how they choose to express themselves to the world. Sadly, homosexuals themselves are quick to suggest that sucking one dick automatically makes you gay as if there's no gray area in one's identity. So this can be frustrating for bisexuals.

I saw him like 15 years ago. He's gotta be in his late 40s by now. Hes only a few years younger than me. These photos are ancient. I'm surprised he's still in the game becasue he wasn't very good at massage and was disconnected in terms of sensuality. Buyers beware.

The story doesnt....but it's Ryan Murphy ...so....

At these prices I'd expect a professional massage at minimum. Some of these guys think they deserve hundreds of dollars for the mere honor of their handsome company.

Nice fellow....but older than MY own personal cut-off point. I wish him well. There are others here who enjoy the company of mature men.

Madonna Ciccone is about as creepy as you get.

Very smart. Wishing you all the best in your endeavors.

He filmed the fellow having sex with a WOMAN, not a man.

I second this opinion. Erotic massage is a great entry point for bisexual men to start experimenting with limited risk (or virtually no risk ) of STDs. Tantric session involve a lot of body to body contact without any penetration of muscous membrane. A skilled erotic masseur can usually bring enough arousal that a simple hand job does the trick. Leave the oral sex for a second (third or fourth) hire, when you know your provider and can (politely) discuss how they handle managing their health issues in working with the public.

No spa can openly advertise (or even discuss) prostitution. Doesn't mean their staff aren't providing it. (For the right tip )