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Why would you lube up BEFORE you put on a condom ? 🤔 Sounds like you never bothered with condoms. I was a teenager in the middle of the AIDS crisis ...so I didn't have a choice. I was also sexually active with girls...so I additionally wanted to make sure any "family planning" was in MY hands, not just hers.

I've been to Fire Island, ( both the Pines and the Grove ) but never been to Provincetown..what's the difference ? 🤔

I seem to be the outlier here. Everyone talks about how it feels so much better without a condom. Are you guys slapping on a garbage bag or something 🤔? Outside of the annoying 20 seconds it takes to open a condom wrapper and place it on my cock...the sensation difference is SO miniscule to me I see ABSOLUTELY NO reason to choose risk of spreading contagious diseases. I think it's all mental if you think it's that different.

Exactly my experience. The party-gays seem to be more clique-ish than the mean-girls were in High School.

Which is why I recommended Journal Square as a good location for providers to stay when visiting NYC. (Assuming they are doing mostly outcalls.) Paying $400 a night to be in Manhattan cuts into your bottom line.

And you didn't answer my question. What are you basing your judgement on ? How do you feel that you KNOW your attackers were "straight" ? The statistics are readily available online to back up my statement

..which is find ridiculous. What a world these millennials are creating ! No wonder they are always depressed.

Traveling to NYC is like visiting a foreign country when it comes to prices.

Most parking garages are $40 to $50 anhour...one minute over and you're paying double that. Yeah...completely impractical to drive in NYC.

I'm sure you WANT to believe that but the statistics don't line up with your thoughts on the matter. Men are men.

Most New Yorkers don't own a car and are accustomed to the subway or PATH. Those who think they are too good for public transportation will take an Uber. Nobody will travel to the Bronx. Few will travel to Queens. Some will travel to Brooklyn. You are always better off in Jersey City which is considered the safer choice when it comes to out of town travel. Easy to reach by PATH train (which is also considered safer than subway travel at night )

I disagree (slightly). Once the system allowed mentally ill people the right to self determination, half-way houses were set up as methods of integrating them back into society. Consistently they failed to volunteer to remain in a structured and healthy environment. Mentally ill people will more often choose the freedom of the streets.

Which makes sense since 10% of the population is gay and another 12 to 15% are actively bisexual. (Obviously the polling can be way off..but here the numbers make sense. )

Did "society" fail them ? We used to have institutions to help...but circumstances surrounding their rights of self-detemination took precedence, and here we are with civil rights intact and more people on the street because of it.

Well ....ok. But personal experience and general statistics are different things. If you care to share. I am genuinely curious...are you quite confident two of these men were straight identifying? Were you very young ? Was there a big difference in power dynamics ? One of mine was by an openly gay men who was a friend of a friend and the other was an unknown closeted gay man. I knew he was so becasue I had sex with him twice after the initial sexual assault. (Fucked up..I know). But I was pretty mixed up myself at the time.

Beautiful 💗

No ? Why is that ? 🤔 I find my NEED to travel quite an inconvenience.

Correct. but that's assuming all his customers want him to host. I think the majority of people prefer to have an escort come to them. I personally can't host...so I'm not speaking about personal choices....but I would certainly want the convenience to host if I could.

The statistics would disagree with you. The percentage of the population who commit sexual assault is around 30% whether they are straight or gay.

If you can line up enough business meeting clients at THEIR place, you should stay in Jersey City. There are cheap hotel options around Journal Square. It's a quick PATH train ( 15 minutes ) to Manhattan (Greenwich Village) or 25 minute to midtown Manhattan.

I think men are naturally predatory. Gay men are just as sexually charged as straight men.

So....offering someone cash to someone who is in a position inferior to your own, in exchange for having sex with you is now "rape" ? Y'all are in a LOT of trouble. 😉

I've been raped twice and I was a very fit/ muscular and strong wrestler at that point in my life. Once, I was the victim of having been raped by law enforcement and handcuffed and once being slipped a roofie. I don't think physical strength precluded me from being sexually assaulted. There are always ways around someone fighting you off.