pubic_assistance

"SHAME" is a constant in American culture. Perhaps it's origin is religious ( as stated we can't go there ) but whatever the origin, the results still linger. I grew up in a religious conservative community..yet all the boys walked around naked in the locker room, no towels in front of them, group shower/ no dividers. In wrestling class we'd weigh ourselves cock-out naked to get an exact weight. Sex itself was discreetly discussed but nudity wasn't considered shameful. NOW, in NYC which used to be like Sodom and Gamorrah, I watch these young guys go through gymnastics trying to pull their underwear while still wrapped in a towel. SO much MORE discreet than how I grew up ! So yeah...it's no surprise they would also be embarrassed about rubbing one out.

Well..that's my point. The only guys at my gym who shave their chest hair, are the ones who are pretty obviously gay. None of my straight friends shave their body hair. I just dont see it outside of the gays. As far as man-scaping the pubes...yes I know a lot of guys trim the hedges. But don't shave them off.

They don't. They send those to every old gay guy, assuming you're lonely.

Oh ! Well THAT goes against everything I've been told in BDSM safety standards. Never, never leave your sub in ACTUAL risk. It must always be illusion, not peril.

Does it count if you eventually returned to untie them 🤔? If so...then I'm at 6

Fair enough. Thanks for explaining.

I did not. I think made that clear. As far as Aspergers...I was unaware of the change in language preference. I've known many people over the years who were on the spectrum. Including a very good friend in high school. My opinion here is based on multiple people's comments about Kai mixed with my own communications with him as well as angry threatening behavior on RM & Grindr. What you are witnessing here from "Keith838" is the same tone and temperament as the messages I received from Kai in the past. So it's pretty obvious they are one in the same. (My opinion).

By definition: Having an opinion that you don't like is not the same as "lying".

You're working in tandem with Kai. (Or you're the same person )

"The site" IS great. Because we all share our experiences and impressions. And that helps everyone make educated decisions about hiring. It might not be great for providers who have had problems with clients. Kai who is here pretending to be someone else, (possibly two different people), is understandably concerned about his reputation, and trying to protect it. That's fair. But It's not just ME, who's had weird experiences. It's multiple people...so this idea of "libel" is ridiculous from the root. As they say: if enough people call you a horse. It's time to buy a saddle.

I am sharing my experiences and drawing a conclusion. That's what adults do. That's what everyone does on this site. I made it clear, that these are my impressions and opinions and that I hold no certificate in Psychology or Psychiatry. So..no this is not "libel". You need to look up the definition.

Lol. Although that's a reasonable theory. It was the same scenario. I looked at your Grindr and you said hello to me. I didn't know it was YOU until you sent your privates. I am sorry if you feel I am trying to "destroy your business". I am more contributing my impressions (and experience) to protect the gentlemen here from danger. I am actually happy to know that you ARE able to conduct yourself with professionalism and manage to keep some regular customers. However - the constant name changes and angry/irrational threats WOULD indicate that there IS another face to this coin. I think you are aware that you have had problems with clients and coming here denying them with MORE angry rants is NOT helping you. Most people are happy to give second chances as long as someone admits their mistakes and promises to do better. Lying about it and threatening revenge is NOT a good path forward.

Clearly "Kai" has joined the room ! 🤣 To be clear: I am not his Psychiatrist. I never met him in person. I spoke to him after merely looking at his profile. He messaged ME. (Not the other way around). And the conversation was so aggressive, twisted and angry, my impression was that he may be mentally ill and dangerous so, therfore, I passed on the opportunity. Over time others have commented on similar experiences and my impression has changed from violent bipolarism, to Asperger syndrome. That is an impression I carry based on multiple other life experiences with long time associates who were on the spectrum. The response from Kai (Keith838) above demonstrates the anger behind his nature. Although an attractive man, I still would caution people about accidentally tapping into this suppressed anger that he harbors beneath the handsome package. Plenty of other providers with a hot ass and big dick who aren't potentially dangerous. Beware.

I'm glad for him. It's always a struggle for people on the spectrum. As far as ME hiring him, our interaction was so bizarre and twisted, I was worried that he was seriously mentally ill. After listening to others here..it seems more likely that he's just got Aspergers.

That's an understatement.

There's someone for everyone. Glad to know he's not repelling every customer.

We said "pity fuck".

But are you as handsome as he ? 😉 I think it distracts from his good looks. If you don't have any..then nothing being distracted.

A smart move. I don't understand these guys who think they can charge full rate for multiple hours. Smarter to offer a discount and get another chunk of change for the evening than have most of your appointments stick to one hour.

He looks like the inside of a public toilet where everyone has scribbled some nonsense on the stall while taking a shit.

😋 yum

Another very handsome man with bad taste and bad choices in body-art. Pity. That "sleeve" is very off-putting.

Thanks @Monarchy79 Eloquently put.

I think that's a very reasonable argument. Being perpetually frustrated, sexually, could lead to serious depression.

The consensus is that he's on the spectrum and doesn't know how to connect with people. He changes his profile frequently to avoid people looking him up and discovering all the complaints. I've had my own encounters and I concurr that he's quite WEIRD.