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Long term relationship between gay man and bi man
pubic_assistance replied to moonlight's topic in The Lounge
Only if you choose monogamy. I don't think there is any reliable scientific research data on that subject. In MY experience with bi, men...it's generally NOT "denial". They are well aware of the fact they are different than mainstream people. They just struggle with identity, because most people are very binary in their thinking....and will try and force them into a *this*or*that* category. On a personal level having romantic relationships with girls in high school...I didn't even know what bisexuality was. In college it was still girls for the first two years but I craved experience with men..but still didn't identify as bi. Once I hooked up with a man, I thought maybe I'm gay. Moved to LA and identified as gay for a while and mostly slept with men. Then back to college and started sleeping with women again. I think it was at that point of my back and forth that I heard about bisexuality. Moving to NYC, I jumped into the underground sex scene and had TONS of sex. So...like @marylander1940 claims...I was rather opportunistic and could double my chances of getting laid by being open to whatever. Eventually I felt that my relationships with men were somewhat superficial as they were always sniffing around for the next thrill and it seemed that "love" wasn't really something that gay men were capable of. (Just my opinion at the time). So I ended up marrying a former drunk-fuck gal pal from college who was also bisexual, and was for years, my best-friend. For BOTH of us, we never were in "denial"...more confused because OTHER PEOPLE want you to "pick a team". Once you enter into a loving relationship you do initially become an "invisible" bisexual. But sexual monogamy is a CHOICE, not the ONLY way to enjoy a romantic relationship. I think as a bisexual...IF I had found a gay man who I truly believed LOVED me unconditionally I could have made a same sex relationship work. I just never found that man. -
'Diddy' : If you suck it right, I'll help your career...
pubic_assistance replied to Ali Gator's topic in The Lounge
So....Diddy told some dude if he sucked his cock and water-ballooned his load, he'd open some doors in the industry for him. So the guy volunteers to chug his jizz...and then backs out of the deal...but is now SUING because he has Monday morning regret 🤔? Unless the failed cum-guzzler was a minor I see absolutely no sexual misconduct here. The photographer (assuming an adult) could have simply said no. -
*any updates on the now infamous Austin Wolf?
pubic_assistance replied to excelntsvc's topic in The Lounge
Horrifying. -
How can you afford to hire service providers consistently?
pubic_assistance replied to + Gar1eth's topic in The Lounge
The building itself remains but the hotel is long-closed. Purchased by Hyundai Motors in 2023. -
Deportation Nation---How does this affect the hobby?
pubic_assistance replied to + keroscenefire's topic in The Lounge
Only if you misunderstand the meaning of that sentence. I am not personally defining them as such. I am saying that appears to be how the official line is being defined. What would be political is discussing the rights and wrongs of this definition. That's what I will not get into, out of respect for the site's guidelines. As far as the occasional escort over-staying his visa or getting caught at the border with a phone full of pay4play appointments...the discussion here isn't about the occasional miscalculation it's about mass deportation affecting the business. Which so far....it has not. But...I can't forecast what will happen with immigration over the next four years. It's been a real fast change of policy. -
Bumping this forward. Surprised if no one has yet jumped on this sexy stud. Curious to hear any opinions.
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Deportation Nation---How does this affect the hobby?
pubic_assistance replied to + keroscenefire's topic in The Lounge
Defined as terrorists...so no. I didn't forget. Can't say more without a political discussion. Also it's tangential. My point being that the current crowd of deportation have not included sex workers. -
Deportation Nation---How does this affect the hobby?
pubic_assistance replied to + keroscenefire's topic in The Lounge
When you enter a foreign country, illegally you risk chaos. Every illegal alien knows that. Keeping a low profile is necessary whether you're an escort or you mow lawns. Currently the focus is on drug traffickers terrorism suspects and other criminal elements. I haven't seen any reports of sex workers being deported (yet). -
I don't find that to be "messed up" at all. Everyone is allowed their sexual turn-on's. If you grew up thinking gay men to be inferior...then why would you PAY to have sex with one? Makes sense to me. The people "feeling sorry" for you probably don't know that some people can compartmentalize their sex life without it impacting how you feel about yourself on a day to day basis.
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Bi men don't need separate advertising...we are chameleons.
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Love this one.....how much to take him home with me ? 😜
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How can you afford to hire service providers consistently?
pubic_assistance replied to + Gar1eth's topic in The Lounge
Exactly. Santa Monica Blvd in LA or in NYC West Side Meatpacking district down to Christopher street piers in the 90s. I think this disappeared even Times Square by then. I've only seen pictures from the 70s and 80s. -
How can you afford to hire service providers consistently?
pubic_assistance replied to + Gar1eth's topic in The Lounge
I've seen women standing outside a massage parlor inviting men for a "massage" wink*wink 😜..but haven't seen an actual "street walker" for decades ! -
How can you afford to hire service providers consistently?
pubic_assistance replied to + Gar1eth's topic in The Lounge
Working the streets ? Is that still a thing ? I haven't seen a street hustler since the early 90s. -
They already tried this at Belmont Park. I visited their luxury brand "Village" a few weeks ago. There were 10x more salespeople than there were customers. Total retail desert.
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SIU's "masturbating" professor has been fired
pubic_assistance replied to Ali Gator's topic in The Lounge
I figure it was less of a sin than him getting his rocks off with a minor...so God was probably good with it. -
SIU's "masturbating" professor has been fired
pubic_assistance replied to Ali Gator's topic in The Lounge
I'm not Catholic, so it's ok...😇 -
SIU's "masturbating" professor has been fired
pubic_assistance replied to Ali Gator's topic in The Lounge
No..it was in Pittsburgh. 🤣 -
Do bottoms enjoy tops who can keep going for hours?
pubic_assistance replied to Constantine's topic in The Lounge
I used to bottom when I was younger. I remember one particular guy who took a long time to nut. I'm thinking maybe half an hour....and THAT was too much. My asshole was always sore the next day. (Although I kept meeting up with him because he was so handsome ) 🤣 I just can't imagine how torn-up my hole would be after a full hour !! Thank you...NO. On the flip side...as a top I sometimes get too excited while fucking a dude and I cum too soon. So I prefer to get off quickly with a hook up, by jerking--off or dumping a load in his mouth. That way I am more able to provide a longer lasting ass-fucking on round two. But even then I can't last more than 20 minutes. I get so turned on fucking a nice ass, that I never last too long. Even on a third or fourth (fifth or sixth when I was younger) round. -
SIU's "masturbating" professor has been fired
pubic_assistance replied to Ali Gator's topic in The Lounge
There is excitement in risky behavior. I've certainly engaged in many encounters that were risky in my younger years: Sex with someone's wife in their house. / Many incidents of public sex. / Fucking a priest on the altar of a Catholic Church.... The danger of being caught is a big part of the turn on. -
Does anyone speak English on this thread 🤔? "....wish have good time with he "
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How to tackle safety concerns for sensual/erotic massages
pubic_assistance replied to dk582's topic in Questions About Hiring
I don't agree....there are ways to get off without penetration.
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