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For me, it used to be one of two characteristics that got you in bed with me. Cute face / or hot body. Both together is the jackpot. but i can make either work

I used to love pounding cute boys with puppy dog eyes. Not everyone is shopping for a "boyfriend", no matter HOW sexy.

Truly beautiful man. We should thank our lucky stars that someone THIS gorgeous is making himself available to the general public for a memorable experience in the bedroom. I agree with @Viking Would be difficult to not cum immediately for the mere excitement of getting naked with this hottie.

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Well...no. I am ACCEPTING the fact that the privilege I've enjoyed for many years is slipping away as I age. I don't fear that. I choose to work around it. I fail to see your logic in declaring an embrace of life's realities is a matter of ME being cruel. Life can be cruel. Life often IS cruel. You speak of people "deserving what they want"...well I want a 10 inch dick and my ripped six pak back. I want to look like I did when I was 30 and I want a Ferrari. That kind of mentality is a sure-fired way to be unhappy. You don't "deserve" anything but what's obtainable. I don't go to a seafood restaurant and order a steak. The same way you shouldn't hit up an Instagram model and expect him to not reject you for being 300 pounds, old and ugly. Embrace reality. stay in your lane and you wont be disappointed.

It seems to me that if obese clients would hire equally obese providers then the provider is far less likely to demand a photo, since their own standards are already low. How many old/overweight people seek the company of young/fit/attractive people vs. other overweight people ? How many providers can hold their nose and fuck anythjng that moves vs. those who have some line-in-the-sand about a clients appearance ? 🤔 As I get older and out-of-shape, the number of young/hot men who will fuck me for free will diminish. I accept that fact. Even though MY looks will diminish, my taste for handsome/athletic men will not change. So if I need to navigate some gatekeeping to get what I want, so be it. Even at my peak there was no guarantee that everyone I wanted, wanted me in return. I dont expect the offer of $300 to $400 will always tip the scale with an Instagram model if I were seriously ugly. The solution here to avoid providers rejecting you, is to stay in your lane even when you hire.

I didn't. He did. Maybe youre right...and maybe he was ALL those other things. But he always said this: "Everybody loves to hang with the jolly fat guy, but nobody wants to fuck him". He said he was often the life of the party (he was a professional comedian . .you would likely recognize him) but he always went home alone.

Maybe gays were thinner before AIDS but gay PORN still idolized fit/masculine men. Every bit of "old" gay porn (pre AIDS) was focused on fit looking men (sometimes banging a twink). Maybe the focus was not AS muscular as today's fitness obsessed culture . ..but I have never seen any porn from the 70s or 80s featuring overweight men getting-it-on. THAT was and still is a subculture fetish, not a norm.

Everyone here knows I have a dark sense of humor. (Except the few hair-trigger members who keep insisting I am just a terrible person). 🤣

I remember going to an adult bookstore with some ( drunken ) friends one night. We all got blowjobs through a glory hole. On the drive home, we all said that was the best B.J. ever. Then one of my friends said..."I don't think that guy had any teeth"!!!

You and I are wired the same way.

Well....at least you were scammed by someone worth trying for. 😂 Lesson learned. Thinking with your dick always ends badly. JUST SAY NO

The NYC Pride Parade attracts people from the entire Country and some foreigners. It most definitely does NOT represent who lives here. The point made by @marylander1940 is accurate. New Yorkers walk everywhere....we also exercise more and eat better than Middle America. I rarely see anyone who's grossly overweight who lives here. I live in Greenwich Village which has several gay bars and I don't see a lot of big oversized men going in and out of those bars. So this hypothesis that the village is just full of these happy overweight gay couples is just pure fantasy on the part of @KensingtonHomo. Anyway ...ALL of this is a distraction from the subject at hand. Which is PROVIDERS REQUIRING A PHOTO. @marylander1940 was kind enough to take the time and create a poll on an associated conversation thread. Let's all click on it and see how deep the split is on the subject. I have no problem sending a photo. But then I'm not at the point in my life where I am so grotesque that no one will fuck me. Hopefully I never get to that point. Escorts deserve our deepest respect for taking on people who otherwise would never have sex.

You are mixing up sexual preferences with "disdain". Again...projecting you own emotional insecurities. My first girlfriend is now quite chubby but I still adore her. Sexually I prefer FIT men or women. So obviously someone whos very overweight is the exact opposite of "fitness".

You comment doesnt make any sense. I just said my neighbor was a nice fellow and I enjoyed his company. How is that "hatred" ? You are projecting.

Lucky you, and your overweight friends. I dont have the same experience. My gay, overweight neighbor died sad and alone always complaining he couldn't meet anyone who loved him because of his looks. Nice fellow / was a fairly well known comedian on several TV shows. I always enjoyed his company. But his appearance prevented him from having a satisfying sex life / love life.

Yup. I second that opinion. Very nice young man. Very accommodating. Definitely would recommend .

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I rarely hit up escorts. When I do its when they are spectacular . Most of them ask for a photo. I have no problem providing one. (Tight t shirt torso + face / no nudity)

When I was younger, I had quite a few ballet dancers in my "little black book" of regulars. Their bottoming abilities were superior to every other human being I've ever met. 🍑 To this day when I meet a young man at a party and he tells me he's a dancer, I am working desperately to get a phone number (or at least their Insta)

Be careful asking directly on Twitter about "escort". These websites screen for terminology that can be caught up in sex trafficking charges. Always inquire about hiring for a "collaboration". Then discuss in private that you didnt want to film it for distribution.

I generally meet people through massage services. Not escort. Because of that, most of my initial sexual encounters with those providers have been NON-penetrative. Perhaps you should consider taking some courses in massage and focus on erotic massage services instead of traditional escorting. The expectations of fucking are much lower (to non-existent) with masseurs.

No first hand experience, but I would point out that ive seen many of these photos in years past. I am thinking SEVERAL years ago. Might be a good idea to ask for more current images before taking the plunge.

Sex isn't always about equity. sub/DOM fetish is a common interest group. Passive bottoms are highly regarded by dominant tops.

I think this issue is being regarded as WAY too binary: "Either you can fuck everything that moves or you shouldn't be a provider." 🙄 I completely disagree...and I repeat: EVERYONE has a right to run their business they way they deem appropriate. Don't like it/ don't shop there. To say I am: 60, fat and bald, certainly doesn't mean that everyone in that category is the SAME. People age differently, look differently, and the term "fat" is VERY general. I think that I AM "fat", when i dont work out regularly. To me, even a beer belly is "fat". To another person 300 pounds and a 48 inch waist is "fat". The description is only part of the picture and there have been multiple conversations here where providers hit a wall with a client who was particularly unappealing in appearance, even though they generally had a come-one-come-all attitude.