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He quoted me $300. Apparently I got the "hot daddy" discount. He's working on a floating scale.

I never quoted Freud. You can stick to your antiquated scientific studies from the 80s. The fact of the matter is that current psychological theory embraces the idea of human sexuality as far more fluid than your charts from my childhood are showing. More importantly young people in their 20s are PRACTICING sexual fluidity and tossing out the labels. Nobody identifies as just "gay" anymore. It's all about bi / poly / and fluid. Where's your chart from 2022 ?

I started the thread, genius.

Totally agree

He's very pretty. Sounds high maintenance. Like all the pretty girls 😂

Santa Monica Blvd. In LA used to have as many boys for hire hanging out in the street as there are on three cities worth of guys on Rent.men. Sex work has always been an easy buck when you're young and pretty. You make more in an hour than the suckers on minimum wage make working 8 hours.

Pity. Because I would totally fuck the real guy.

Although I agree with the rest of your statement...I think you're jumping to conclusions here. I am 51, soon to be 52 and I can still cum at least three times a day. In my younger years, I would attend orgies where seven times in a row was my max. So I'm sure there are plenty of providers who can manage more than one load a day. As for the rest, yes. Don't ever directly discuss sex in exchange for money.

I understand that Japanese people who eat a diet rich in seafood, vegetables and fruit, typically lead long, healthy lives.

I hire people for a massage and if I like them and want "another massage"....I use that opportunity after the first session to discuss shared sexual interests. Be sure to tip generously even if it was just a massage. In case you want some extra attention on a second meet. If you're only available for one session then it's tricky navigating the absolute legality of the situation

It's never a good idea to document a conversation that sounds like you are paying someone for sex. You can discuss your sexual interests and preferences with an escort but you can't specifically hire someone to do that. Legally you hire an escort for time spent with you...so technically the escort's interest in a sexual connection is at their discretion. I know this pisses off people here in the forum who poo-poo the obvious obfuscation of the arrangement but everyone really should be aware of the risk for both parties about sex-for-money conversations. Especially when they're documented and can be used as evidence against you and your provider.

You've made your antiquated point over and over and over. I get that you are disgusted by heteronormality. The thread isn't about you. Let's hear from some more sexually fluid people in the forum. That is the more current and interesting subject that we are discussing.

Yup. It's pretty horrifying. I'm guessing her mental state is deteriorating and she can't understanding what she's doing anymore. Like I said a museum exhibit would be a more respectful way to pay respect to her career than trotting out this sad old horse for a last roundabout in public.

No. It's not. I am saying that is ONE factor in how people end up choosing their sexuality. I do believe it influenced me to a degree. Although I don't recall being particularly disturbed about being called "gay" in my 20's I think I find more comfort in blending in publicly while remaining sexually fluid in private

But I DID start a thread...and I would appreciate it if you stop harrasing me over your nonsense. The conversation wasn't directed at people who feel trapped in their gayness. So please stop. I want to hear from the sexually fluid people on the forum.

Yes..yes yes... I get that you are one of those gays that can't stand people making choices. It's tired at this point . Give it up .I'm not interested in your ancient charts . The question is posed to people who DO and HAVE made choices. Let it go man.

I used to have a regular fuckbuddy like this ..but it's hard to find gay men who want more than a quick hook up. You're in a difficult midground between those looking for love and those looking for their next anonymous conquest. In my experience this is a very small community . I wish you luck. Definitely not gonna find more than annoymous hookups on Grindr but some of my friends claim to do well on Tinder

Thanks for sharing. I hope you enjoy your new geography.

Yes I understand "Reno" helps support his mom with his online sexual adventures...so mom happily manages his business of letting people watch her son get-it-on with half the Only Fans content creators in America.

I remember years ago stopping by a road side "Adult Bookstore" after attending the Butler County Fair in Western PA. My friends and I were all horny and ended up all getting our dicks sucked glory-hole style. On the drive home we all talked about having this amazing blowjob. The guy's mouth was so silky it was like fucking a pussy. Then one of my friends said " I don't think that dude had any teeth" ....we all screamed. 😱 *Good times* 😉

Me neither....but I know this look is very popular. (Especially with Calvin)

Ok . That makes sense...because that was exactly my impression from his pictures. Something looked heavily edited but every photo has the same creepy plastic look about it. Sad when men get too caught up in procedures to "perfect" their appearance.😟

I second that opinion.

I mean the guy IS pretty close to the physical ideal for a lot of men. I'm surprised Calvin Klein hasn't married him yet. 😉

I am currently mentoring my nephew's 16 year old daughter who wants a sex change so she can be "straight". (Their words not mine ). I've met quite a few Trans men through a friendship with a woman who is a human sexuality expert and runs a business for men who want support in transitioning. I've heard the same story from more than one of these gentlemen who didn't want to be "gay" so they became women as to not embarrass the (supposedly) "straight" men they were in love with. I also met one married couple who both transitioned because the husband was a cross dresser and wanted to transition so his wife decided to take hormones and become more male-presenting so they didn't look like Lesbians. Quite fascinating, the emotional turmoil these people suffer balancing their feelings with the perception of how others will see them.